Marc in Calif

9 hours ago, Harryinny said:

Economic in his description and pics!

So economic(al) that he omitted the hyphen from "stress-free massage." 🤓

2 hours ago, Lazarus said:

His profile says “English” as spoken languages. 

Yes. Many providers have English as a second or third or fourth language. That doesn't mean he's in any way fluent.

19 minutes ago, Lazarus said:

He’s a romantic guy & “so” masculine! Who says that? 

Give non-native English speakers a break, even if you think he might be fake. 

Do you want a masseur or a masseuse?

1 hour ago, JSRCWY said:

And…….?

19 hours ago, xax said:

... interested in knowing if anyone got more out of their time!

He offers Erotic massage. And his private pics are mostly of his genitalia and his butt. You can now draw an appropriate conclusion.

17 minutes ago, dutchal said:

https://rentmasseur.com/Antonyh

Ad since July last year but no prior mention.  Maybe name change?

And possibly one of RM's shortest reviews:

If you want someone to rub oil on you for 15 minutes then say "turn over" and rub more oil for 15 minutes then he's your guy! He is as handsome in person as in the photos but honestly this is not a massage.

9 hours ago, jimmyLA said:

guys?

You're new. You don't need to bump your question every seven hours!

6 hours ago, Peter Eater said:

You might want to go back and read the whole thread.

Read the entire thread. I was responding to a very specific sentence you wrote that wasn't about sex addiction at all:

"Sorry, but this makes no sense. A sexual pathology is like the drive to seek out water and food? A pathology is an illness, and last time I looked having lunch did not present as disease."

You were responding to — and misinterpreting — Unicorn, who had written:

"Not having a sex drive is pathological--and certainly outside the norm. This is different from substance addiction. The drive to seek sexual activity is like the drive to seek out water and food. It's natural and biological. Again, while obsession, addiction, and dependence are related, they are not synonymous terms." 

Another San Diego find in the 1980s was a model/actor named Troy. Supposedly he always did solo photos and videos because his local BF (publisher and entrepreneur Rick Ford) wouldn't allow it.

https://www.sandiegoreader.com/news/1988/mar/24/san-ysidro-male-porno-ring/

Troy was my all-time favorite. I tried searching for him and found a video from the Dirk Yates catalog: the title is Try Anything Once (1987). Troy, as usual, appears only by himself.

https://gay.aebn.com/gay/movies/88790/try-anything-once

Here are some of Troy's photos from the video shoot:

https://www.bjland.ws/wordpress/2020/03/27/troy-anything-once/

43 minutes ago, Danny-Darko said:

Sgt. Glenn Swann - He was a Dirk Yates find. One of the early ex-service men to do gay porn right out of the service. 

https://xhamster.com/videos/discharged-1986-seabag-xhDCNlc

I couldn't get enough of Sgt. Swann's pics and videos in the 1980s, especially once I learned that he lived in San Diego just like me. 🤩

22 hours ago, Peter Eater said:

Sorry, but this makes no sense. A sexual pathology is like the drive to seek out water and food? A pathology is an illness, and last time I looked having lunch did not present as disease.

I think you need to read more carefully. What Unicorn wrote is that the lack of a sex drive is pathological. Why? It's considered to be a disorder and dysfunction by medical professionals.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20434725/

On 2/25/2023 at 4:01 AM, Harryinny said:

Wrote to him about that.

Did he write back to thank you for suggesting the spelling "masseur"? 😆

5 hours ago, Harryinny said:

AAPI = Asian American and Pacific Islander, hmm is that what you want?

 

Asian and Pacific Islander

On 3/18/2023 at 2:59 PM, Harryinny said:

What do 5 private pics of an erect member tell you?

That this is a very upstanding member of the community!

We saw a production in San Francisco in 2000 by the estimable 42nd Street Moon theater company. It was indeed entertaining, especially when presented in a small, very intimate theater. 🎉

On 3/7/2023 at 4:51 AM, Funbuddy1227 said:

How was your experience with HeyImRenz?  I’m possibly interested in meeting him. 

5 hours ago, Your Coach said:

Wait, but is he as fit as the pics? Also how's the overall experience?

Here are two brand-new guys with only one (1) post each. They both asked about HeyImRenz AFTER MakeMeCowboy disclosed that the photos are not those of the provider. 

Can anyone hazard a guess who these new members are? And their motive?

7 hours ago, CHIberia said:

I can tell you I've had experience with three Czech guys recently in Zurich. All were incredibly honest, eager and inexpensive. It was almost too good to be true. Total dumb but sweet types.

🤢🤢🤢

1 hour ago, coriolis888 said:

People who do things like that deserve to be reported to the police.   

Even a suggestion of a possible police report will cause him to go red in the restaurant. His colleagues might take notice of that! 

5 hours ago, DWnyc said:

I constantly hear bi / straight guys say that they stay away from Prep and other services primarily because they don’t want prescriptions or services in their record. They don’t want the risk of their partners, employers, the government etc finding out. Or be put in a category by their insurance companies.

This is exactly right. The bisexuals are typically closeted about their activities and try to stay under the radar -- even for health maintenance, prevention, and treatment. 

I just don't get it. 🤷‍♂️

On 3/16/2023 at 6:51 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Many men objectify sex. Gays enjoy the opportunity to do so, more than straight men, ,because it's a mano-a-mano situation so you understand each other's desire to keep it NSA.  Having feelings for your sexual partner is perfectly normal. Just not with the way gays approach their sexuality. Sex first / feelings later....maybe. ( usually not...but if the sex was really good.... )

Are you implying that bisexual men never get orally serviced. Poor guys! 😊

4 hours ago, urbanfetish said:

What??? Did that post in Chinese??? I don't speak, read or write in Chinese and it's showing in English for me. Is it seriously showing as Chinese for you?

Your original post was definitely in English. And it's still displayed on my screen in English. 

No idea what happened when @Andyouknow pressed the Quote button!

2 hours ago, tonyward said:

I just met him...

Under what name? Where did you find him?

Do you have a link to his page? All previous links in this particular thread are long gone.

6 hours ago, Vegas_nw1982 said:

If a friend of mine wasn't vaccinated for Monkeypox, I would tell him to enjoy his trip but perhaps avoid the bathhouses since that's where the outbreaks historically originated.

In a London bathhouse, he could come into contact with somebody recently arrived from Africa. 

The WHO reported this on 2 March 2023:

In the African region where the infection also occurs through contact with infected animals, the epidemic curve shows more sustained transmission, reflecting mixed patterns of human-to-human transmission through direct or sexual contact as well as outbreaks due to zoonotic spillover events. 

And on 15 February 2023:

The Committee expressed concerns about the possible resurgence of cases in some regions, due to both the potential seasonal differences in the occurrence of infection and particularly in the context of the resumption of events and other mass gatherings in the coming months; the lack of access to vaccines and testing capacities; the recurring zoonotic transmission in Africa; the fact that not all countries are receiving the support they need or have structures or systems to respond to mpox, including inadequate support for marginalized groups; and general fatigue among supporting agencies in view of competing priorities and emergencies.

52 minutes ago, tsgarp said:

I would argue 20/25 lbs...

Is he still even 5' 11"? 😊