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It sounds like you're due for a career change.  Don't stay in a position you don't enjoy.   All of us are faced with similar situations in our positions or industries.   A friend of mine deals with high-end banking clients all day and he says about 75% never show up for scheduling meetings.   I'm always punctual to the minute and have had plenty of providers be pissed that I showed up on time!

It sounds like you're due for a career change.  Don't stay in a position you don't enjoy.   All of us are faced with similar situations in our positions or industries.   A friend of mine deals with high-end banking clients all day and he says about 75% never show up for scheduling meetings.   I'm always punctual to the minute and have had plenty of providers be pissed that I showed up on time!

It sounds like you're due for a career change.  Don't stay in a position you don't enjoy.   All of us are faced with similar situations in our positions or industries.   A friend of mine deals with high-end banking clients all day and he says about 75% never show up for scheduling meetings.   I'm always punctual to the minute and have had plenty of providers be pissed that I showed up on time!

aren't we all 🙄

It sounds like you're due for a career change.  Don't stay in a position you don't enjoy.   All of us are faced with similar situations in our positions or industries.   A friend of mine deals with high-end banking clients all day and he says about 75% never show up for scheduling meetings.   I'm always punctual to the minute and have had plenty of providers be pissed that I showed up on time!

Some providers have no idea what control they have and don't have over the business they're in.  

Hope the venting here helps.

Bathhouses?....Wow, I jumped into the '90s all of a sudden.

Lmao….why do I suddenly feel like Dr. Bombay?

To answer the question, this top does not want you to just "lay there" and "take it". I would classify that person as a "do me" or "lazy" bottom. I’m sure there are men into that, but not me. Scream, moan, howl, beg….do whatever works for you, but just let me know you’re taking my cock like a champ….and loving every minute of it. 
Yes, there is the occasional over the top "going for the Oscar" bottom performance that is ridiculous, but I’d take that any day over fucking a lifeless sack of potatoes. Sex is a two way street. You damn well better be giving it as well as you’re getting it…or you won’t be back. 

one more thing to consider - lots of victims of these type crimes do not report to police.  they’re embarrassed & afraid.  
I’ll bet this was not the first time this guy did this to unsuspecting clients and/or app hookups.  The crime is too brazen & methodical for the first time.  He was on RM in Miami with the old profile for at least 6-8 months before he changed it in July 23.
One more reason to be extremely careful who is hired and who enters the home.  My first scan of provider profiles when considering someone new is to take out the red flag profiles for personal safety reasons alone. This guy didn’t have any red flags & had good reviews on RM, nothing negative.  I think the the reason I didn’t hire him is because I thought he looked like a tweaker in some of the pics (the pics in the old profile were different & more conservative looking……but still there was something off in the eyes) and maybe there was drug use …..lt was just a gut feeling and now I feel like I dodged a bullet. Reality check ✔️
 

Because blackmailers, arsonists, kidnappers, pirates, thieves, graffiti artists, and their ilk always come clean over lunch -- often before the crudites are even cleared. 😉 

Same experience I had.  I met him in Jan 2021.  He sent me to the wrong hotel-even after I confirmed twice the name and location.  Later apologized saying his English isn't great, but then wanted to only give me 30 minutes since I was "late".  The massage was lame.  The pics are accurate but somewhat dated.  A definite no repeat from me.  

For those who are interested, he went by the name "Marco Paradi" when he did some porn many years ago.   A quick search will take you to some of his movies.  

For those who are interested, he went by the name "Marco Paradi" when he did some porn many years ago.   A quick search will take you to some of his movies.  

For those who are interested, he went by the name "Marco Paradi" when he did some porn many years ago.   A quick search will take you to some of his movies.  

For those who are interested, he went by the name "Marco Paradi" when he did some porn many years ago.   A quick search will take you to some of his movies.  

I’ve met him multiple times and he was always a great time. His body has always matched his pics when we got together.
I just wanted to quickly comment that what always made me him contact him for repeat encounters is that he was always 100% “into” whatever we did. There are only a few other escorts I can name who seemef to be into our encounter as much as I was myself. 

I've been texting him this morning and he confirmed he remains fully clothed and there is no MT, but for an extra $40, he will help you release at the end of the massage.   No thanks.  

did not meet with him - his hourly rate when I reached out was 450

To me, 'anything goes' usually means bareback fucking is cool, but I'd talk beforehand to the guy if you want to put your load in him.
It's all about communication.

If I were hiring a bottom and he said he was fine with barebacking,   I would suspect that he's fine with finishing the same way.    If you feel it appropriate to ask,  ask in advance,   I would never wait until your fucking him and then ask as you start to get close.     Kind of breaks the mood and both parties should be in agreement in advance as to what is acceptable and if something isn't.
When I'm with my top clients,   both know what the expectations are.

I'm assuming this was your first in person meeting with Mr. NoName, and, if so, can't help but wonder how you arrived at the "he is a nice guy" speculation, other than, perhaps. his on-screen persona -when he's acting- and your earnest wish that it be true. I admire your good nature and intentions to assign his impolite behavior to him having a bad day, not knowing who pissed in his corn flakes before you met him that day; we've all had days like that and owe apologies to those we growled at, or worse, bit. And I applaud his refusal to take money for a service not provided, again assuming that abuse was not part of the requested service. And I appreciate your wish to not cause him negative repercussions based a brief and unfortunate experience. I'm sorry you had the bad time with him and wish you better times to come, or cum, as you choose to spell it. For myself, I shall try to carry on as best I can, leaving my prurient curiosity altogether unsatisfied.

OK, I'll ask the obvious question. Who?
There's no point in reporting a fire if you don't give the address.

It's actually fairly easy.  I spent most of my summers in Europe (grandparents were there) when I was a kid and went backpacking with my cousins for 6-8 weeks every year.   By the time I graduated High School I had probably visited well over 21 countries so fairly common for Europeans. 

It's actually fairly easy.  I spent most of my summers in Europe (grandparents were there) when I was a kid and went backpacking with my cousins for 6-8 weeks every year.   By the time I graduated High School I had probably visited well over 21 countries so fairly common for Europeans.