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That model sounds like long term dating where you hope someone will put out at the end!  This is a transactional relationship and it should be clear and up front from the beginning, IMHO.

I've been texting him this morning and he confirmed he remains fully clothed and there is no MT, but for an extra $40, he will help you release at the end of the massage.   No thanks.  

Funny I had a provider I saw a few times before crossing off my list. He had a vibe of just forcing himself to fain interest. 
Look I don't expect to be everyone's cup of tea nor is everyone's mine, but either quit taking my money or learn to fake it ha. 
 
 

We all have people who we desire and some who we have a chance to meet.  But this kind of obsession is unhealthy when that object of desire makes it clear they are not interested and you can't let go of the fact your opportunity has passed. Mourn the loss and move on with your life before the disappointment consumes more of your time than it's worth. 

At a certain point contacting someone who doesn't want to be contacted becomes stalking.  Doesn't matter if their info is public.
Sounds like you need to be an adult and move on.

Bad idea.  Let it go.  There are many other providers out there. There are no technical issues.  Youve tried text and email.  No response is actually his response.   Move on. 

This is absolutely insane lol no, don't send letters to people asking to hire them for escorting. Leave strangers alone if they are not communicating with you. 

I always start with RM messaging.   If the provider won't even provide the basics (availability, rate, etc), then I won't switch to texting.   To me a message via RM is an icebreaker.  Get the basics out of the way first and if it appears we are a match, I will continue via text if they want.  To those providers who insist it's just too much work to look at their RM app...give me a break.  At $300/hour, I think people in most professions would be more than happy to look at their messages a few times per day.  I have to respond to about a thousand emails and texts every day in my career and don't make anywhere close to $300+/hour.  I'm sure I'm not alone.  
 

To me, "happy ending" means at a minimum the massage therapist will provide a hand job.
But even with just that…there are hand jobs, and then there are HAND JOBS!
It’s extremely variable. I’ve had everything from full on "fuck me daddy’ passionate fucking to the masseur not touching me above my knees or below by waist the entire time. I don’t ask too many questions ahead of time. For me part of the fun is not really knowing how far things will or won’t go. But yeah, a hand job is the minimum. HAND JOB preferred. Crazy wild sex is great but far from expected. Less than a hand job? I chalk it up to experience and list the providers last name as "Loser" in my phone, so I do t make the same mistake again. 
I’m not really into servicing a guys cock that he just shoves into my face. It’s a turn off. But that’s me. 

And suddenly he's transformed from Russian/E. European to Native American. Maybe he just crossed over via the Aleutian Islands! 🤣

I am reaching my late 50s and will only see guys 30 and up.  My last two experiences with younger weren't great.  They obviously weren't attracted to me and just wanted to get me off as soon as possible so I'd leave.

I'm just a little younger than @Rod Hagen but my husband is older. For the most part we gravitate to providers in their 30s and 40s because we find them more attractive, more likely to have shared interests and references, and have mostly had great experiences. We've also had some good experiences with guys in their 20s but - also - most of our bad experiences were with younger guys. I think that the age gap has something to do with it, but also their relative lack of experience. With some. younger guys, it's like they have an erotic massage or sex script in mind, whereas older guys are more flexible, adaptable and in tune with us as clients. 
I don't know if we'll continue to see providers in our 60s and 70s but I would think so. We do try to stay in good shape and I see men at that age all the time that I find attractive. So, I think older man can and should expect good experiences. 

Don’t be ridiculous…..we’re gay men. 
You know damn well, anyone over 29….is ancient!

Most if not not all my clients have been older men, the way they're treated is no different regardless of age. 

My oldest client is in his late 70’s. He’s fantastic. I get as much pleasure from seeing him enjoy himself as I do clients in their 20’s. 
I do understand the perception that somehow it’s more fun with a young fit guy. I’d have said that too before I started doing massage. I did wonder at the start of doing this work if I’d be able to be the same with every client but actually I find that’s not the challenge at all. 
Now that I’ve been doing sensual massage for years and seen all sorts of clients I can definitely say that age or body type makes no difference to my approach (except that I’ll be less firm with someone who’s less muscular). The biggest challenge isn’t their age or physical appearance, it’s their attitude. 
Some older guys take longer to get hard or climax so that’s different but otherwise I find most people regardless of age are looking for similar things; a relaxing proper massage, some intimacy, some fun and to feel at ease and be themselves. If the person I’m seeing is coming for those reasons then it’s great. If their attitude is they just want to use me to get off then it doesn’t work. Fortunately I can screen those type of clients out before they book.
The driver for me is that my client is enjoying themselves. The more they enjoy our session  the better it is for me…in a virtuous circle kind of way. If a 75 year old has great time then so did I. Age is irrelevant. Attitude is everything. 
 
 

Back in the day I sold cars
we always joked about the “be back bus” 
be backs are just a part of doing business 

JTtorretto:  I don't know the truth any more than you do since neither of us was party to the transaction, unless you are going to tell us you are the escort in question.  You are making a lot of assumptions about who said what.  While I'm not suggesting it's invalid to question the client's version of events, I don't think that simply making up an alternate story helps.
I would note: Just because someone has money to hire a lawyer when they are under duress and don't know what to do doesn't mean that that person had discretionary funds sitting around for hiring escorts.  Nowhere do I see that the client claimed to be "broke," just that he was having "financial issues."
If you want to blame the client for anything, question why he didn't block the escort sooner and ultimately accepted the alleged offer of a free hookup.  After all, he states that he hired the guy a "few times" and that it "wasn't a great experience."  Why get together again, then, even for free? 

I've never had a provider NOT return a call/text from my iPhone burner app. Never. But the Burner does prevent  provider's rants if things don't work out.

I spoke too soon.  I met Marklom in the past and he was great.  I noticed a few weeks ago he added some additional pictures but they were all fake as well.  Not really sure why he continues to post all the fake pics, but the actual guy is very good looking so didn't really care.  We made an appt for last night at 8:00.  We had several back/forth texts and messages over the past couple of weeks.  All very polite, small talk, etc.  Confirmed yesterday all was good and then he went AWOL.  He read my RM messages and texts but he never responded.   The time came and went and I was stood up.  Yet another game player.   Just wanted to share my (updated) experience in case anyone is thinking of hiring him.  Never again.  

Thanks for this post.  I was the original poster and backed out once I saw the shit show start.  I had originally asked about his ad and was told his pics are not of him.  (They are not) I decided to take the chance anyway since the hotel he is staying in is very close to my house.  I'm glad I did and ended up seeing him multiple times.   The pics are NOT actually of him.   Marklom admits that as well.  He is new to this and does not want his actual photos to be posted.  That being said, the real guy is gorgeous.  He is about 5'8", amazing body (but not as ripped as the guy in the pics), has a killer smile and is a really nice guy.  He speaks English quite well and there is no problem with communication.  I will definitely repeat next time he is in town.  

The revised review has been posted. Now 2 stars and photos are accurate (not). 

Thanks for letting us know.  You likely saved quite a few people some money.  

UPDATE....I am the reviewer from yesterday (Comets).  Latin_Stud challenged my review with RM and they removed it last night.  When I discovered it this morning I contacted RM and challenged its removal since it was factually correct. Per RM,  Latin_Stud challenged my comments about his physical condition and my checking the box that pics are not accurate.  So,  in order to get the review reinstated I agreed to say the pics are accurate.  Rest assured they are not and I will reimburse anyone his fee for one hour who meets him and takes a pic that resembles the condition of his body in the pics in his ad. I also changed the review from 3 stars to 2 stars while I was amending my review.  All in all the important thing is that the experience was conveyed to potential clients in the future.  I will also add that RM was 5 star on their communication, explaination and the handling of the situation.

Thanks for letting us know.  You likely saved quite a few people some money.  

He's also done some porn if you are interested.  You can find him using his current name.