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  1. I'd agree with him if said ad depicted an inside view of their nostrils or esophagi. If you think the up-close-and-personal view of this escort's insides is disturbing, an escort who also does vids has one (not in his ad) showing himself pushing his insides out.
  2. I'd have to check with the friend who helped me move, but I think we drove through that when moving from Chicago to San Diego.
  3. @Gar1eth, see the post below @MikeThomas has it right. Moved first, retired maybe a year after. I had a couple of great sessions with him. Really great guy.
  4. The self-cleaning gene pool needs to keep running, even when the power goes out.
  5. I bet he opened the cabinet above the fridge, the metal bust konked him on the head, and he now thinks his name is Phyllis. But seriously...no personal experience. I'd just point out that his massage ad indicates he does not do erotic massage (just sensual and therapeutic) and has a line about respect for personal boundaries being expected. That plus the removal of the rent.men ad tells me he is NOT offering escort services and you shouldn't ask if he is.
  6. I live in Phoenix, so no personal impact. However, I have colleagues on both the east and west coasts of Florida. Everyone is safe and accounted for, thank God.
  7. You would be surprised how many guys get into that. Sometimes you just have to ask.
  8. I've done that several times. AMAZINGLY hot.
  9. Then I want to know about his recycling and reusable bag habits! PS: Michael Vincenzo certainly recycled and used his own bags.
  10. So, @RobbieC, today you will ask about Indianapolis, tomorrow Des Moines, and Saturday Omaha. Check back Saturday for next week's assignments.
  11. A guy and I once spent an entire evening pissing on one another. After we were done I walked in on him while he was pissing in the toilet. He shooed me out because he was (wait for it) pee shy!
  12. Oh my gosh, you are right! Let me go back and correct that omission..
  13. Re-reading the thread in detail, it seems we have not addressed the following topics: Did he or did he not recycle Innie or Outie (thanks @Gar1eth ) His policy on using cents-off and buy-one-get-one coupons His proclivity for using the express lane when he CLEARLY had more than twelve items Whether he brought his own bags or used plastic The average price he paid for underwear Cher or Madonna Ginger or Mary Ann Mr Howell or The Professor (oh, wait...no, we discussed that one)
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    Review sites

    I'm struggling to understand the correlation between "active conversation about escorts" and "there aren't many reviews?" The purpose of The Deli is to ask questions about escorts. It operates as a companion to the reviews. Additionally, reviews are static and describe one person's impression of a meeting with another at a specific point in time. They are really not a good indicator of another person's experience. Think about restaurant reviews. If I like pork chops with a side of broccoli, my raving review of that dish does you absolutely no good when you like grilled chicken and string beans. However, by asking questions about the restaurant (do they take reservations vs are they first-come-first-serve, how tidy was the dining room, had the serving vessel been thoroughly cleaned, did they live up to their promise of large portions, did they serve cream with the coffee) you can glean information about the experience in general. Same principle applies to escorts. Agreed. Action starts at home. How many reviews have you submitted?
  15. Fortunately, you were on the right side of the fence.
  16. The scariest place I've had sex was a guy's apartment on a nice street in San Diego's North Park neighborhood. The complex was a little run-down, but it was the condition of the apartment that scared me. He had this creaky trundle bed shoved into a bay window. Clothes and crap strewn everywhere.I expected a little demon Zuni warrior like the one in Trilogy of Terror to come running out any second. Now, the time a guy fucked me in the pitch-dark woods behind his apartment complex with a clear view to the I-294 Tr-State Tollway was HOT! The time a guy fucked me on a conference room table in the Montgomery Ward headquarters was hot, too, despite the security guard trying the door.
  17. Welcome, @final_impact. Here are my thoughts: I use my real first name. I also use my cell phone number, although I am transitioning to a Google Voice number, mainly because after switching from an Apple MacBook Pro to an HP laptop I can't get texts on my laptop. You need to do whatever makes you comfortable. In the past I used a fake name, but I'd usually slip up and use my actual first name at some point. It is just easier to use my actual name. My very first hire was at my place. This was pre-Internet and I had absolutely no problems. Since then, I've hosted guys at my home, visited them in their homes, hosted at my own hotel room, and visited them at their hotel room. Again, you have to do what feels comfortable to you. Some clients do, others don't. I typically do not tip, although I have bought small gifts for guys, such as some body products a guy liked and a gift card to a guy's favorite store. Both times were after a stellar session. Both were extremely grateful. One escort I hired fairly frequently once told me that at $250/hour he does not think tipping is appropriate because the rate is already high. A couple of things are important, IMO: Be clear with an escort about what you want. I usually say something like "Hey, [insert name of escort here] your ad caught my eye and I wanted to see if we are compatible. I'm into [describe what I like]. How does this sound to you? rvwnsd" Be clear with yourself about your own personal limits. If there is something you don't want to engage in, don't let yourself get pressured into doing so. This includes PNP, bareback sex, dirty talk, BDSM, breath control, and rough play. Be comfortable with walking away. If an escort says or does something that raises a red flag with you, walk away. It is OK. Do not pre-pay. 'nuff said. Use the Forum as a resource. If there's an escort who interests you, search for them or ask about them here on the Forum. Use your own judgement. If you get a "funny feeling," politely decline to continue contact.
  18. Keith Richards will live forever. After the Armageddon, he and a colony of cockroaches will be driving around in a Dodge minivan.
  19. Have you ever heard of "bear" porn? Spoiler alert: the men are typically not what one would call a "jock."
  20. rvwnsd

    Newbie question

    There is a way to boost one's confidence in RM reviews. When you display all of the reviews, check out the reviewer's name and the date they joined RM. When a reviewer joined in, say, 2015, and is reviewing an escort in 2019 it is pretty unlikely that the reviewer is one of the escort's buddies especially if the reviewer has reviewed multiple escorts.
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    Smoothies!

    Given he last logged on August 31, 2019 and today is Sept 1, 2019 I doubt it. The charge for his ad renewal probably did not go through.
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