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  1. My parents met at work. My dad was smitten by my mother and she was playing hard to get. She was a master of the double entendre and would say things like "I have cookies, would you like some?"

     

    Interestingly, I have a sketch he did while in art school. It is of a woman holding a roast turkey on a platter and a man admiring it. They man looks nothing like my dad, but the woman looks just like my mother. He made the sketch ten years before they met.

  2. I only knew my paternal grandmother (the rest passed away before I was born) and she was "gramma." My parents were "mommy" and "daddy" until I was about 10 or so and then they became "mom" and "dad." A friend once noted that when discussing my parents I'd say "my mother" and "my dad," but never "my mom" or "my father." Never noticed it until he mentioned it.

  3. Well at least stating 34 yrs old in his RM ad is not severe age-shaving....but for someone prominent & well-known in the industry, why age-shave at all ?....no big deal in this case - it simply puzzles me a bit as to why he would bother with age-shaving rather than honesty / truthfulness......

     

    Ted Colunga

    Pornographic film actor

    Born: May 17, 1981 (age 36), Tatabánya, Hungary

    His ad was placed in January, 2016. I wonder if this is less about age-shaving than it is about neglecting to update his age?

     

    Regardless, I'd be more than happy to let him shed some of that fur on my bed.

  4. ...Even shopping at brick and mortar stores can be tricky. The showroom is not my living room.

    It does however cut down on many of the above issues....and often it's not that much more

    expensive. All my large furniture items that I "love"....have been bought in real stores. These days

    I pretty much stick to real stores for shopping and occasionally pick up disposable accent pieces

    online.

    This is one of the reasons I buy furniture from Macy's. When looking for a coffee table I saw one at Macy's that was quite nice, but it was round and I wanted oval. No problem, said the sales associate - they had an oval one on display across the store. Liked it. My companion said jokingly "too bad the table isn't displayed with everything else you bought at Macy's." The sales associate asked me to show her what I already had and proceeded to call two stock guys to bring the table and side chair over where the sofa was located and arrange it the way my living room is arranged.

     

    Nine years later, the coffee table still looks wonderful in my living room.

  5. LOL...

    The box arrived the other day from Lowe's. My friend is in Connecticut for a few days, and I decided to assemble everything to surprise him when he returned. Opened all the boxes and...NO SCREWS!!! <sigh>. They found one other set in Plantation, but when they opened the boxes, no screws either. Apparently there are no screws for that set in the whole district, sooooo...Lowe's has agreed to pick up all the furniture, take it back to the store, assemble it all, and redeliver. Great customer service. Kudos to the salesman at the Fort Lauderdale store who is "family". :D

    THAT's the other thing I liked about these chairs - no assembly required.

     

    Glad to hear Lowe's took care of you and your friend. I found them to be very service-oriented in San Diego.

  6. KevArmyGuy with only one pic would definitely be on my list IF he were "real"...

     

    And he wants the client's pics first to get in touch and set something up...? lol

     

    but still... will be there for an overnight and would love a tall, hung, (military) guy to treat me well. :)

    Ya know, I am not a fan of the escort wanting a pic before meeting.

  7. Well, the fact that your brother's results were "quite different" from yours seems to support my sense that these "analyses" are complete BS. I take it that he is your full brother from your response? The nationalities should have been pretty similar....

    If my brother and I were to take a DNA test I'd be surprised if the results of the two weren't quite different. We are full brothers, but he looks almost exactly like my dad and I look almost exactly like my mom. He thinks and acts like my dad and I think and act like my mom.

  8. Does Daddy have an app ?

    I find that using my phone keyboard interface is glitchy with auto fill & auto correct . Anyone else have this issue ?

    Nope. The only difficulty I've encountered when using a mobile device is copying links, but that's an issue with every site and app.

  9. I just spent the morning helping a friend buy new patio furniture. We must have sat in a dozen different style of chairs and couches, all of which looked wonderful until you sat down. Only one was truly comfortable. It was noticeably so, in fact the moment we sat down, we both looked at each other, and there was a simultaneous...Ahhhh. We both commented on how difficult it is to buy furniture on line, because there isn't anyway of knowing how comfortable it will be, whether or not the color is right, or the quality up to standards. Like shopping for clothes, I need to feel the fabric, examine the quality first. One size does not fit all...but that's just me.

    Patio furniture! Oy!! I've had the same experience as you and your friend. Where did I find chairs that fit on my balcony and were the right size for me (6'4" and all leg)? Walmart! (The nice one in North Scottsdale). Most were too low or had a million pieces to assemble.

  10. ...the OP may have appeared to have been logged out but his session was still active and associated with his username (I'm not sure of the technical reasons this might occur... perhaps if RM is open on more than one browser session?).

    I think you hit the proverbial nail on the proverbial head. In my experience, my privacy settings have blocked escorts seeing my visits to their ads (I've asked!).

  11. ...One thing that stood out to me in your OP was that you said "I was open with everyone at work". While I would never advise anyone to be in the closet, perhaps being too open, too soon, with everyone made other people uncomfortable. You should be VERY selective about the co-workers you choose to confide in about the personal details of your life. Remember, you're there to work, not socialize. I know that others will disagree, but I strongly recommend keeping personal life separate from professional life. I received this advice from a straight friend years ago and have repeated it to straight friends as well as gay friends and it has served me well. For the majority of your co-workers, you should not reveal that you're gay. It's none of their business and it has nothing to do with the work you're there to do. It's just not professional. They're co-workers, not friends. Don't blur those boundaries. And don't say "If they have a problem with me being gay, it's their problem." No, it's YOUR problem because you have to work with them. The conversations with co-workers you've described sound inappropriate for the workplace, to me. Don't participate. Maintaining your professional reputation should be one of your highest priorities. I feel this would work for you in the future, especially if you feel your co-workers were part of this discrimination....

    I neither completely agree not completely disagree with this comment, mainly because I'm not completely sure what you are trying to say nor am I sure what the OP meant when saying "I was open with everyone at work."

     

    I consider myself to be "out" and "open" at work. I haven't made a formal announcement, but I was open about my previous volunteer work as the facilitator of a coming out group and, when in a relationship, would discuss what my partner and I did on the weekends. My group managing director and I have discussed the notion of me carving out work time to plan and implement a coming out group in my current city which could lead toward starting an LGBT center. That said, I don't introduce myself as "Rvwnsd, Homosexual Director of Operations."

     

    In terms of being "open" or "out" at work, my advice to members of our group was this: do what feels right to you. For me and for many colleagues, being open and out means having the same types of conversations our heterosexual colleagues had. What we did with our spouses/boyfriends/girlfriends/friends/kids/neices/nephews; new restaurants we tried; TV programs we watched and so forth. A female colleague recently got married. We met her wife and she refers to her as such. No one bats an eye. However, it is completely inappropriate for anyone, regardless of sexual identity or gender, to discuss pursuits of a sexual nature or to pay unwanted attention (such as leering, checking them out, touching, and kissing) to colleagues. Period.

     

    When a member of our group asked the group for advice on what to do about a male co-worker he found to be attractive we almost universally said "nothing." Two members, one very young and the other very elderly, asked the guy what he would think of a man checking out a female co-worker. The member who asked the question got the point.

  12. Oh, this guy. Whenever I'm searching NYC for tops and click through his profile he sends me a message:

     

    CAUGHT YOU PEEKING AT MY HUNG, CUMFILED MR. MONSTER BLACK COCKMEAT HERE IN NYC BOTTOM DADDY! YOU THINK YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH TO HANDLE ALL OF IT MISSIONARY STYLE (PREFERABLY YOU WEARING A BASEBALL CAP AND BLACK BOOTS) WHILE YOU LICK YOUR LIPS FROM THE EXCITEMENT? I DO NOT WANT YOU TO FLINCH THO - THAT IS VERY ANNOYING TO ME! LOL! LOL

     

    I'm sure he sends it to anyone that turns up on his "Who saw me?" list. I guess I'll be seeing it again.

     

    And yet he has mostly five-star reviews. Maybe he really delivers.

     

    Perhaps the guys who hire and review him are all unflinching ballcap-and-black-boot-wearing, missionary position-liking bottom daddies and like what he has to offer.

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