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What about the English real a.n. poppers?? I thought they vetoed the prohibition bill last year. I haven't for a couple years but there were sites to order real stuff from the UK.

 

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/so-what-exactly-are-poppers-a7052141.html

The last few times I ordered "English" poppers (i.e. supposedly the "real" poppers) they ended up being isopropyl nitrite and had no effect but to give me a headache. Before that, they were made of isobutyl nitrite, which were better, but not the same as what you could find in the 1990's.

I had a stomach virus right after the holidays. No symptoms other than the stomach, so my guess is it was not the flu. I also had a flu shot, which is recommended for asthmatics like me. I've noticed that I don't get as sick as I did prior to getting flu shots.

Regarding a refusal to deep-kiss, I don't kiss my colleagues at work, deep or otherwise, yet I still picked up the stomach virus that was going around the office. I postponed on one escort and declined to hire one who contacted me because I was sick and did not want to get THEM sick. Three weeks of non-stop bathroom runs is NOT fun and I don't want to be responsible for getting someone sick.

Even if you don't live "in the middle of nowhere" decent poppers can be hard to come by. In some areas, like San Diego, they are almost impossible to find. I've had good luck buying from a site called Buy from Ben.

There's nothing wrong with being selfish from time to time. In terms of being "dishonest," I'd say your were not being completely open and, at this point, I think you should remain being less than completely open for everyone's benefit. One of the things we tell guys in our coming out group is that the only person to whom you need to come out is you. Everyone else is optional. It is easy for others to label you as being "dishonest." I'll use the same label with them, as they do not acknowledge the consequences of being "honest."

I would have to disagree here. This would assume both that the other person does not suspect/know about what is going on and that what you are doing is for their benefit. ...

I couldn't agree with you more. When it involves another person you don't have the right to be dishonest so that you can have your cake and eat it too. You don't have the right to destroy other people's lives because you don't have the courage to be honest....

Are you suggesting [uSER=17596]@SimonL[/uSER], married (presumably to a woman) for 30 years with a family should tell his wife? Or were you speaking about @KyleS, to whom I stated:

...When it comes to dating, I feel that being honest relatively early is the best option. No, I don't think discussing your desire to be with bodybuilders is a first-date topic, but when things look like they are moving into "dating" territory that conversation should be had. ... If you think having a conversation with a potential girlfriend/wife is hard, think about how hard that conversation would be in twenty years when she is your wife and the mother of your kids...

...One of my nieces has just gone through the trauma of finding out that her husband was playing around with men on the side. I do have some sympathy for older guys who married young in an attempt to suppress their desire for men, but this little scumbag was only 25 years old when they married 5 years ago. There is no excuse in this day and age to go into a marriage with such an important secret.

Based on the context of the second part of your post (quoted directly above) I'm guessing you thought I was speaking to @KyleS when I said it is best to remain silent. I was speaking to [uSER=17596]@SimonL[/uSER] who, based on being married for 30 years, fits in the category of older guys who married young.

...I am going to try the VideoDownloadHelper and see if I can figure it out. Thanks very much.

I downloaded the extension for Chrome and it works!!

To download videos (without having to watch them in real-time), I use free software called VideoDownloadHelper. I think it only works with Firefox, but you can download just about any video with it (Youtube and, yes, Onlyfans).

 

https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/video-downloadhelper/

THANK YOU!!!!!

Very occasionally I see OnlyFans postings being posted in Torrents sites. I know I have seen Griffin Barrows scenes a lot. And I think I have seen Nick Capra every once in a while. And Gabriel Cross. So yes, I have seen them in Torrents sites. I am pretty sure it is someone that is a subscriber to the OnlyFans site that reposts it as a torrent. Then again I do not know it is a different person nor do I know if the torrent poster had gotten it from OnlyFans and posted it. I suppose they could have seen it somewhere, downloaded it, and then posted it at the torrent site. Oi! At any rate, it seems safe to assume that someone downloaded it at some point off the OnlyFans site.

OK, got it! Sorry - was being very slow this AM.

It is possible (and likely) that the people who posted them to the torrent site did as I do and recorded from the screen.

...I have read a lot of material that suggests I am selfish and dishonest....

There's nothing wrong with being selfish from time to time. In terms of being "dishonest," I'd say your were not being completely open and, at this point, I think you should remain being less than completely open for everyone's benefit. One of the things we tell guys in our coming out group is that the only person to whom you need to come out is you. Everyone else is optional. It is easy for others to label you as being "dishonest." I'll use the same label with them, as they do not acknowledge the consequences of being "honest."

Would the fact that I see the OnlyFans vids from a particular poster in certain torrents mean that OnlyFans (or at least from that poster) allows downloads?

I'm not following. Are you saying that you can see the videos the poster posts to OnlyFans in a torrent and not in OnlyFans?

Welcome, @KyleS. I whole-heartedly endorse and echo what others have said in regards to labels. You are YOU. There is no need to affix a label like "gay" or "straight" or "bi" or "queer" to yourself. People like to put things in boxes and they want to do the same with other people. You do not have to buy into that. In fact, I'll go one step further and say you shouldn't.

It is impressive to see that you have taken a thorough, analytical approach to understanding what turns you on sexually. Hold onto it and re-visit it on a regular basis, as your desires might very well change over time. You should also take that same thorough, analytical approach to understanding whether marrying a woman and having children is right for you. The following line is what drives me to say that:

...I can't call it a strong drive but it is natural for me to get married and have kids, these are things I would like to do, aside from my sexual needs...

The question on my mind is the notion that it is "natural" to get married and have kids. You should explore that one a bit more and understand where that comes from. Not to be too nit-picky (well, OK, I'm being nit-picky - it is who I am) but who says it is natural and is that to say not getting married and having kids is unnatural? (Not trying to put you on the defensive - just something for you to explore.) You might also want to explore whether you actually like being around children and will like being a father. True story - my sister-in-law likes kids but does not like being a mom. She pretty much sucks at it. My brother likes kids, likes and loves his kids, and is really "into" being a dad (and a mom, too, sometimes). If he could be a professional father he and a bunch of kids would be better off for it. I, on the other hand, recognize the value of children in preserving the human species but honestly don't like being around most of them. My niece and nephew and wonderful kids (and I mean that - my brother and sister-in-law raised them well) and I like spending time with them, but thank God I can go to my home and they stay in their home. If you have kids you, unlike me, will NOT be able to leave them in their home unless you fathered kids with a woman and do not live with them. Which, of course, is an alternative to being in a male/female marriage where you, your spouse, and the kids all live together.

When it comes to dating, I feel that being honest relatively early is the best option. No, I don't think discussing your desire to be with bodybuilders is a first-date topic, but when things look like they are moving into "dating" territory that conversation should be had. You might want to seek out dating venues for people who identify as bisexual, so as to find someone who will be more understanding of your wants and needs because they might have complimentary wants and needs.

...Or maybe the best solution is to pretend to be 100% straight and jo over gay porn when no one's watching, just like some other people in the closet do.

Oh no, this is NOT a solution. It is a recipe for disaster. Don't even entertain the idea. You are signing yourself up for a lifetime of guilt and the feeling that you are sneaking around. You also set yourself up for being found out and having to engage in a very difficult conversation that will NOT be fun. If you think having a conversation with a potential girlfriend/wife is hard, think about how hard that conversation would be in twenty years when she is your wife and the mother of your kids.

Which leads to this question: Do you date women that turn into romantic relationships or do you do date-like stuff together, fuck around, and then when one/both of you gets bored go your separate ways? The question isn't intended to be a barometer of sexual orientation, but rather of whether you really want to have a romantic relationship with a woman.

I know this has given you more questions than answers, but the ore questions one asks the more answers they receive. those answers, when stitched together, can be very valuable and insightful.

An idle mind is better than no mind at all.

I'd say they are about the same.

While I do not agree with the Archdiocese's stance, I also think the couple were fairly naive or were asking for a fight when they expected a Catholic cemetery to go along with their tombstone design.

I use a Mac also but have very little computer knowledge. When you say "screen record", what do you mean? Generally, I like to download to my desktop and then I will save to a disc. I like to have a disc of one vid because I generally am going to use it for one purpose (the obvious one) and the recorded vids are just about the right time. I don't usually use Quicktime but that may be only because I do not have the ?app. At any rate, if you could just say how the best way to download to screen so that it could be then downloaded to disc would be great.

If you have a Mac, you have QuickTime. It is the built-in video player. "Screen record" is a function where you can record a video of what you see on screen. You can access the screen recording feature by opening QuickTime, selecting "File" and then selecting "New Screen Recording" from the drop-down menu. If you do not see QuickTime displayed on your computer's dock, open Finder, navigate to Applications, and you will see it. In the unlikely event you do not have it loaded on your computer, you can download it.

Yeah I'm on a Mac. Only thing is its a lot of videos I'm trying to download, with Quicktime's screen record I would have to watch each and every video. I just want to download/rip them without need to watch them.

I do not know of a way to download directly from OnlyFans or from other sites that use a media player that does not allow downloads.

Seacrching Rentmen revealed an ad for CarlPornStar, who lists his age at 68. There is a handful of escorts on RM who are in the 57-59 age group.

There are plenty of escorts over 40. Dane Scott, Rod Hagen, Jon Ramsey, and Luke Kent are four that come to mind

If you use a Mac, you can screen record using Quicktime.

Remember when it read GBLT? What happened?

 

Kipp

Exactly what I was going to ask.

A gentleman always allows the ladies to go first.

Roy is obviously gay. Silo, on the other hand, might be bi. He might also have been questioning and found his answer. Also, Scrappy could be a lesbian who paid Silo to father her child.

You just never know.

I would go and see what happens.

Oh is that how the politically correct are referring to STUPID these days ?

Oh, no - they think you are stupid. (I asked) The community refers to it as what I said.

My 80-something year old father called me and said "all my money is gone." He also called my brother. My brother was ready to launch a criminal investigation against - well, not sure who. I calmly asked if either of them called his bank to inquire about his CDs, savings accounts, and investments.

Once cooler heads prevailed, they called. We learned that what he meant to say was "my checking account balance is near zero and I unintentionally renewed a CD instead of transferring some of the money to my checking account." The bank was happy to waive the early withdrawal penalty on the CD he renewed WITH MY BROTHER'S HELP THE PREVIOUS WEEK !!!

A couple of days later, he called me again with a similar claim. He also called my brother. This time, my brother called me. Turned out he didn't transfer any money to his checking account at another bank, from which my mother retired and for which I worked for ten years. During my tenure, I trained the manager at his branch. I called her to ensure no checks would bounce and my brother took him to withdraw money from Bank "A" and deposit to Bank "B."

Dad had an excuse - he was 80-something and suffering from dementia. My 41-year old brother on the other hand...

YES, that is what I was trying to say, but am too stupid to verbalize.... THANK YOU.

You aren't stupid, you are a member of the "GWDI" community, which stands for Gifted With Different Intelligence.

Were YOU the one with the Damn PEACOCK...... or is yours just COCK !

Just cock, thank you very much!

...To fix this, should I port my number to an ATT business account instead of an added line on my personal one? I was very thankful that he was telling me his phone identified me..

You could ask AT&T to change the caller ID name to something other than the name on your account. My cousin is on my cell phone plan, so imagine my surprise when my landline rang and it was me calling. We changed that.

PS: I no longer have a landline.

Thank God I have my emotional support animals to comfort me.

Send a PM to @rvwnsd. He met Zayn.

 

~Boomer~

Tis true. Feel free to PM me.