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That's so true. They also don't like being picked up (not that I let THAT stop me). Apparently, they associate being picked up with being captured by a predator.

I would have answered sooner, but one of my cats was snuggled on my lap and the other was rubbing his face on mine. Now, what was that about cats not being affectionate? While not a universal truth, most cats respond to the way they are treated. All of my cats have responded to their names, loved attention, liked to play, and wanted to be near me. I give them lots of attention and affection and they respond very favorably. Many people think cats are aloof and so they do not pay attention to them. The cat responds in kind. That's not to say EVERY cat is affectionate, just like every dog isn't, but the seven cats I've had over the past 30 years have all been loving companions. I'm not counting the feral, as she was my cat's cat. She loved him but was not so fond of me. She also hated the interlopers kittens I adopted.

Clickable link: https://www.mintboys.com/male-escorts/long-island/5f4ddb14c2c4da05fcadc806

Even if he had experience ,that rate is waaaay out of line. Besides, as you mentioned here: An escort charging that kind of rate has to possess some qualities that warrant the rate. I just don't see a well-heeled guy hiring him to accompany them to a function or event or a night on the town before play time, but that's the kind of client who hires guys who charge that rate.

He's "BIG Polish" and named Alessandro? Maybe he is using Polish to mean "sausage." Anyhoo...I'd let his kielbasa nestle in my kluski any day.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k8PjjxJ7v78:35

in a fully consensual way, of course!

I suppose he could get a lot of requests who then read the review and decide to take their business elsewhere.

Thanks for posting the article. It's an interesting read. It is nice to see that Nicole Murray-Ramirez is involved as well as other San Diegans like Todd Gloria and Toni Atkins. For a city that has a reputation for being very conservative there is certainly an abundance of influential LGBT leaders.

Same here! I don't recall what website I was looking for (maybe I clicked on an old link to Rentboy) but Adultfriendfinder came up. My first thought was "blast from the past).

I would never consider discussing or posting pictures, memes, gifs, vids, or any other media depicting people under the age of 18 on this forum or any other venue where adult-oriented topics are discussed. I'd argue that some people, such as yourself, haven't matured enough to understand that a forum dedicated to adult-oriented topics does not mix with media depicting minors. Instead of blaming those whom you think reported you, behave like an adult, consider why you received a warning, learn from it, and move on.

Dude needs to lay off the Photoshopping and filters.

How charming!

Thanks for the recommendation. I've wondered about him. Adding him to my LA list.

Yes. Also surprised I'm reading it in 2020.

Good suggestion, @jeezifonly . Rod Hagen offers both massage and escort services.

Try Maverick Rey. he's a lot of fun.

What a charmer. Sign me up...to do something else.

Glad to help. believe me, my viewpoint was NOT shaped overnight. It took a while to get to this place!

Given your ability to communicate likes and dislikes, I think you will have a successful first time as long as you are equally communicative with the escort as you have been with us. I think the notion of making you cum twice might be a stretch, as that might require a multi-hour session. However, if you are willing to pay for multiple hours then you should be able to find someone. My first thought is Mike Gaite, who is not LA-based but travels extensively. I don't know whether he is seeing clients as a result of the pandemic, but with some patience you might be able to swing a date with him. He genuinely likes older gents. He will, however, pay you sincere compliments. He truly seeks out (and finds) good qualities in the men he sees. My second thought is Rod Hagen. He is LA-based (WeHo), is not taking clients at the moment due to the pandemic, but appears to be scheduling for future bookings. he takes his time, is definitely into foreplay, and also seeks/find good qualities in his clients. I've seen both of them and recommend both. Good luck!

First, my opinion on the most recent question: To me, the facts that I am not monogamous and the escort is also not monogamous elevate the risk that I will acquire an STD. Whether he has two partners prior to me in the same day versus two partners prior to me in the same week is irrelevant. One could also make the assumption that by hiring someone who is not a "pro" escort one is elevating the risk of acquiring an STD even further because a "pro" might be tested more frequently than a "non-pro." That,to me, is equally irrelevant as the one above. Regarding an escort seeing clients prior to seeing me; as long as the escort can still perform and won't rush me out the door or refuse to cum it does not matter. I saw an escort once who seemed to be rushing and then asked me to write him a review. Being put on the spot like that I said I'd think about it. The next day, I followed up and said I felt rushed and if he wanted me to write a review saying so, I would be happy to write one. He explained that he screwed up and scheduled someone to arrive 20 minutes after my appointment ended. He agreed that a review would not be a particularly good idea. I saw him again, had a great time, and posted a review. I also had an escort ask me if it was OK to schedule someone before our appointment, which had been scheduled in advance of me making a trip to his city. He promised he would be able to perform and so I agreed. He performed and then some! Apparently, he was typically hornier the second time he had sex than he was the first.

You could also do a Google search on the phone number and/or remove the punctuation and search rent.men for the numeric portion of the number (RM displays the numbers, but not the parentheses or the dash). That being said, I searched using both methods and came up with nothing.

Gotta hand it to those bakeries - it's amazing how realistic-looking they make cakes these days!

Plenty of men have strong pheromones and the scent is not easily washed away. I can take a hot soapy shower, dry off, and still smell my armpits. People have a natural scent.

I would have handled this differently. It sounds like this was going to be the first time you met this escort. I do not hire escorts I don't know for overnight appointments. Change of plans notwithstanding, it can be a recipe for disaster. So far, almost so good. I would have hired a pet sitter to walk the dog and gone to his hotel/booked a hotel in the city. My dearly departed, beloved elderly cat needed meds every twelve hours. I hired someone to administer morning/evening meds when I took a day trip so as not to kill myself getting home by a specific time. How much closer are we talking about? A week before? Friday evening? Asking because the amount of advance notice he provided makes a difference about how I would feel about the change in plans. Going back to the principle of hiring a pet sitter, leaving at 7 to walk a dog could be a moot point. It seems like that would have made the new plans work. Is the problem here really about him curtailing the appointment to include only the overnight or about the perception that he acted like plans hadn't changed? I would not have pushed for a reason. I would have ditched the lunch date and booked a hotel closer to him or had the overnight at his hotel. I would have already planned to have hired a pet sitter, so the 7:00/8:00 would have been moot. I would not have cancelled. I think that is fair. I also would have suggested that when he said he had to be back to the hotel by 9 AM. Assuming you were not constantly texting him, that's a dick move on his part. While I agree it could have been difficult to communicate while with another client, he certainly must have had some "alone" time to communicate with you. I would not have given him a 50% deposit. He didn't "take" it. He requested it and you gave it to him. Then again, I wouldn't have booked an overnight with him in the first place. Well, the nature of a deposit is it isn't returned when you cancel. That's the point of a deposit - it is a deterrent to cancelling and compensation for lost income from declining other appointments in case you do. You cancelled and he received his compensation. That'show it works. I don't think you should feel stupid. I do hope you have learned a lesson (see below). I would not have cancelled the entire visit. I would have kept the overnight and informed him that I would pay for the overnight only, Unless I missed something, he did not expect to bluff a shorter visit for the same rate. He told you he had to be back in Boston at 9:00 AM and you cancelled the entire appointment, which consisted of an overnight portion and a morning portion. Based on what you wrote, you didn't give him an opportunity to charge for the overnight only. I would have given himself a chance to explain what was going on before I cancelled both parts of the date. Something like, "Darn, that's unfortunate. Can you tell me what's going on?" rather than "That doesn't work so I am cancelling." Additionally, I don't see him being dishonest. He said he had to cancel the second part of the date and you cancelled the entire thing before you gave him an opportunity to explain what was happening. Frankly, I don't see him having a chance to be honest or dishonest. It think you each share some responsibility for the snafu that turned into 1) a cancellation and 2) a bitter taste left in your mouth. I don't think you should get the deposit back. Agree. that's not how deposits work. I'd be pissed at myself for not thinking about keeping the overnight. So, to the lessons learned: Don't book an overnight with someone you don't know Don't pay a high deposit Don't let emotion take over. Think of a way to salvage a situation. Don't assume it is solely his responsibility to think your way out of a problem. You both can and should try to resolve problems like this.