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  1. Waiting ten days or zero days to deal with your now-ex is neither here nor there to me. This has been going on for quite some time without your knowledge, so I see no harm in waiting another ten days. In fact, the ten days gives you time to consult with your attorney. You can ask him to leave and see how he reacts. Someone mentioned paying him to leave. Given you have, essentially, been paying him to stay, simply cutting off the financial support might send him packing without a struggle. I can't remember whether you and he talked to an immigration attorney. If you did, perhaps a little conversation about his working while a guest of the US on a student visa might be in order. This suggestion is made from a place of getting him the hell out of your house if he puts up a struggle, not being a vengeful bitch and getting him kicked out of the country.
  2. Apologies for being late to the activities, @Unicorn . This just sucks and I am sincerely sorry he cheated on you not once, but who knows how many times. Fortunately, you recognized the red flag before drawing up the pre-nup and "X" sent you the letter prior to getting married. Pre-nup or no pre-nup, kicking his ass out AFTER getting married would be an expensive, royal pain in the ass. As I tell friend who go through break-ups, I'm sorry you are going through this but I'm not sorry you are getting out of a bad relationship. Hang in there. xoxoxo
  3. That is the newest Windows OS. That's actually the processor, not the operating system. The CORE i5 is sufficient for most users. What is your price range? I did not like my 2018 Macbook Pro and replaced it in 2019 with an HP Spectre x360 Convertible 13" notebook computer. That means it is a 13" laptop that ca also be used as a tablet. It is fast and unlike the Macbook has a very nice and responsive keyboard. I bought mine at Best Buy and saved a couple of hundred dollars off the manufacturer's list, despite it not being on sale. The only drawback is if you want to hook up dual monitors they either need to be wireless or you need to buy a dock, which runs an additional $125-$150. Had I known my Dell monitor would crap out, I would have bought wireless monitors, but I didn't and now I have a dock, an HP monitor, and a Dell monitor that has lines down the middle. LOVE my HP.
  4. I'd say so, yes. He is starting to lean out and cut weight, but by no means is he fat.
  5. He sportif and give good sexi!
  6. Maybe he removes it? But seriously, I'd imagine someone with a non-removable piercing would do the same as someone who wears a prosthetic.
  7. Which might explain the "Ask Me" response to "Position." I have to say he has aged quite nicely and maintains current pictures. If you look at his abs you can see they are middle age guy's abs, not 30 year old's abs.
  8. Saw a new guy in Phoenix named Bentley_xxl for muscle worship and had a great time. Review has been submitted. Feel free to PM me for details.
  9. We really ought to save resurrection for Easter.
  10. Back in the 1990's (pre-Internet) there were dozens of personals from guys who called themselves "mostly straight" in addition to those who were "bi-curious." This is nothing new.
  11. The training for which could explain the time spent in Botswana.
  12. ALL DONE EDITING You are welcome. Read on for my take on the conundrum of shouldn't have to tell an escort what you look like vs fear that the escort will run when he sees you. So, here's the thing: this is about you, not the escort. You don't want to contact escorts you find attractive out of fear that they will not be able to perform because of your self-perceived unattractiveness, but you don't want to weed out escorts who might find you unattractive due to your size by telling them you are overweight. What to do? Contact one of the escorts you would have hired this week and hire him. See what happens. If you have a great time, then you are happy and might have found someone to hire on a regular basis. If you don't have a great time, then you are exactly where you are right now.
  13. @Realalist, I don't share your feelings but can empathize with you. My advice is similar to @Guy Fawkes - communicate what you are looking for and, because you find it to be an issue, share your anxiety about your appearance. There are several escorts whose ads state all shapes and sizes are welcome. Start with one of them. If they don't strike your fancy then send a note to someone you are attracted to and see what happens.
  14. Someone referred to me as "cocksucker" and I replied "Would you care for a demonstration?" That said, I've heard the term "re-claiming" used to describe an escort calling themselves a "whore" or a gay man calling himself "faggot." Typically, it is OK for the person re-claiming the term to use it, but not someone who does not belong to the slurred group.
  15. Email daddy@daddysreviews.com so the issue could be addressed.
  16. Despite being a weird, 70's-designed hotel, the Westin Bonaventure in LA has some rooms with the dual benefit of great views and no one can see in.
  17. HA! The same Safeway has a very good tequila section. It is a HUGE, recently remodeled store. Wish it was within walking distance. I might have to move closer to it.
  18. Funny you mention the traditional marriage. I was one of the few kids in my school whose parents were not divorced. I think things would have been better for my brother, mother, and me had she divorced my dad. He was not the primary wagearner (after losing his job he returned to being a freelance artist) but took care of the house, which was a good thing because I learned many DIY skills from him. Also learned when NOT to DIY. Again, funny you mention this, because in terms of "punishment for doing something wrong" he was the less harsh parent. Heaven forbid one of us cut the grass, raked the leaves, walked down the sidewalk, manged our carers, or other non-infractions the wrong way. Crazy, isn't it? I'm glad you were able to have a few talks with your mother. I found it beneficial for me to talk with my dad. What made it easier to forgive him (LONG after we talked and several years after he died) was seeing the abuse his sister heaped on her daughter (my cousin). Both my father and his sister were engaging, funny people that everyone LOVED hanging out with. They were also deeply mentally ill and lived in their own constructed realities. Also, he reacted extremely well when I came out at age 33. Essentially, he thanked me and asked if he and my mom could meet the guy I was seeing at the time. The guy and I broke up shortly thereafter. I work very, very hard at not being judgmental and overly critical. Sometimes I succeed, often I fail. What works for me is recognizing the triggers and avoiding triggering events. I've also learned when to and when not to engage with people. A therapist once suggested that I give myself permission to take a time-out when it seems I might lash out. It is hard to do but it works.
  19. This question hits home for me because my father was frequently verbally abusive. The kicker was he would defend my brother and me when he saw an injustice committed against us at school. That said, the damage done has taken years and years to become less raw. To this day I still suffer the effects, although not nearly as much as when I was a young adult. He apologized at one point and I told him I forgave him, but the fact is I hadn't completely forgiven him. At this point, almost nine years after his death, I've finally forgiven him.
  20. I bought three plants for my balcony today: A cactus, an agave plant, and a plant the name of which I can't recall at the moment. The two nicest ones (the agave and the one whose name I can't remember) came from...Safeway! They were $20 each. They get their plants from a local nursery.
  21. Yup. I didn't know that myself until one day I Googled her. PS: LOVE her in SVU. I think it's great that she has carried the show after Christopher Meloni left. Would love to see Olivia Benson and Lily Rush (from Cold Case) team up.
  22. I think you mean clients are not RM's customers. The escorts/masseurs are their customers as they pay for the ads. Clients, on the other hand, are the audience. That is, they consume the content.
  23. I read that as meaning he is also available to women and couples in addition to men. However, one could ask
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