56harrisond

Love the smell, taste & close up view, but gotta admit I also like being in control. Sure, it's great giving another man pleasure, but taking him to the edge, backing off, & throwing in a few moves known to delight regulars--all part of being the man at the helm. You may think I'm serving you, but guess what?

"Pleasure" from bottoming is an incredibly subjective experience. I really don't think it is possible to give a "one size fits all" answer. I think the best thing you can do, is try to understand yourself, your desires, and what you enjoy and find pleasurable. For example, some are turned on by the size of the boat where another will find it in the motion of the ocean and to yet another it will be some combination of both.
 
For myself, I don't enjoy bottoming in the traditional sense. I think it takes a lot of prep and hard work to be ready (cleaning, not being able to eat, etc.) I am not fixated on size at all (average is fine, big is fine). But here is how and where I get my enjoyment. I have to be very attracted to the person I am with. Intense deep passionate kissing has to be involved. I like some degree of verbal play (not degradation, but more like descriptive). Finally, I get pleasure from knowing that I am giving my partner something he really wants. This is what works for me.
 
I can't emphasize enough, how knowing yourself and what you like is the most important thing to your own enjoyment. It will also be very helpful if you are able to verbalize this to your partner (what is working and even what isn't working). Maybe for you, it will be size, or foreplay, or toys, or positioning. Finally, as others have said... yes.. it is ok if you decide that you really don't enjoy it.

It helps to start with a patient, sensitive top who will enter you gently the first time to give your body a chance to stretch to accommodate him. Then he gradually increases the depth of penetration and the speed while paying close attention to your reactions. I was lucky to find such a sensitive mentor when I was young and just coming out. Once you relax into the feeling of being penetrated and connected to another man at the root of your body, the feeling is sublime.

I've become rather friendly with a masseur in my area who I employ regularly for erotic massages. Last time he was here, he mentioned how expensive it is for him to get mandscaped. I've been looking for someone to do it for me in the area, and found someone who charges about $100+ for a minimal package. (I used to go to someone in NYC, but haven't been since the pandemic).   The masseur made an offer to me - he will come over and we will manscape each other, for free (and extras) once a month.  I love the idea - tonight is my first appointment with him. Nothing in the world is better than than having a sexy muscle guy manscape you (well, Ok some other things are better - but this ranks up there) . 

Unless I missed it, no one has given my reply yet:  Because I like having a cock inside me.  I get even more pleasure when it's in my ass, but I also enjoy cock in my mouth as well.  Do I enjoy giving another man pleasure?  Yes, but I'm not sucking cock solely because it makes my partner feel good.  I just love cock in my mouth.
I'm not really much of a whore but I sort of feel like one after reading the previous responses.  I thought for sure the majority of the responses would echo mine -- in other words, BECAUSE WE LIKE COCK.

From experience, it's an acquired taste.  It takes several loads to get used to.
I've had guys who just jo'd into my open mouth.  That's totally hot for me!

Why has no one mention the "reward"?  The smell and taste of cum is awesome.

The answer can be similar to the the question: "Why do people enjoy giving at Christmas?"  The enjoyment is pleasing and taking care of someone else.  It takes an attitude of thinking about the other person(s)' pleasure instead of one's own.
On that note, I wish an early Merry Christmas to everyone reading this topic!

The satisfaction of giving somebody else pleasure, and seeing their face (and hearing their sounds) knowing you're the one causing it?
Or the competitive fire you feel being the biggest slut at the glory hole that night, losing count of the amount you have serviced?
Or feeding your fantasy of being known as the male Linda Lovelace?
Or all of the above?