56harrisond

Length, girth, and shape are all big factors in how a guy feels inside you, but overall skill makes up for a lot.  I've had big guys who reallly never had to learn how to be a good top, and average guys who'd give you the ride of your life.  A big guy with skills is a great combo.
I tend to like guys on the longer side because they can do long strokes with less chance of coming out completely.  If a guy comes out and thrusts back in at a bad angle it can hurt.  Personally, longer guys who aren't too big around are the most fun.
Girthy guys can be a challenge if you're tight or inexperienced, but they can deliver that "fullness" feeling that a lot of bottom guys love.  I used to have a FB who was particularly wide, though, and he'd be a shock going in.
Shape...now there's a wildcard.  Some guys have just an unusual shape that can make for a totally different experience.  A long time back I met a provider who had a huge upward bend in his cock (which was pretty big, too), and that thing was memorable to say the least.  Especially when he had me go from doggie position to on my back while he was still inside.
 

Taking a big one isn’t something you can typically rush. Gotta practice with toys or smaller guys for a bit first. I usually take ibuprofen an hour or so beforehand. I also have had a bit of practice over the years. Lol. But it was only within the past month that I tried poppers (have known about them for years). Game changer when it comes to taking bigger than you’re used to. 
I will also say that if you’re too tight, it can be a bit painful and difficult for an endowed top to squeeze it in there. It’s like putting it into a vice grip. Lol. So loosening a bit is probably best for all involved. 😎

I don't know why this is even a discussion.
Obviously the "straight" is mere branding.
If you're sucking dick for cash, you're obviously not straight.
But I can say that within the world of bisexuals (where I generally like to "shop") you DO find men who are MOSTLY straight, married etc but fool around on the side. So YES, technically they are bi, but self identify as straight because that's how they live most of their life.
So, it IS very possible for a bisexual man to self-identify as straight and not be completely wrong on an emotional scale of how he likes to be viewed.

My first erotic massage experience was about two years ago. I used to go to a male asian massage spot in the west village. One day I called to make a reservation with my regular guy and when the owner answered, he told me that my regular guy didn’t work there anymore but that he (the owner) would give me my massage at a discount. At the time the spa required that the clients and the masseurs kept our masks on so I didn’t get a great look at his face but I could tell that he was very muscular and in his early-mid 30s. He gave a really great massage with lots of stretching (including at one point, putting me into a seated position on the table, standing behind me, and putting me in a half-Nelson to help crack my back) and deep tissue work, which I loved, and the HE was pretty standard. After that first session with him, he gave me his personal number so I can reach out to him directly instead of just calling the spa, and he was flexible with keeping the building open later to meet with me due to my work schedule not usually lining up with their operating hours. 
 
A few months later the spa ended up closing down, but the owner texted me and told me that if I ever wanted a massage, I could go to his apartment and he’d massage me there. It was the first time I’d ever gotten a massage anywhere except for a spa so I was really nervous, but having met with him a few times I felt certain it wouldn’t be anything nefarious. He asked that I take a COVID test before I went since I’d be going into his home, and once I showed him my negative result and he showed me his, he said we could take our masks off. It was the first time I got to see how handsome he was in addition to having a very sexy build. 
 
We started off with him giving me a light rubdown in his shower, then we wrapped ourselves in towels and went into the bedroom where he had the massage table set up. The first part of the massage was pretty typical of my massages with him - excellent deep pressure, lots of stretching - with a bit more focus on my inner thighs and butt than usual, but nothing I felt was crossing the line beyond what I considered inappropriate. When I flipped over I saw that he’d removed his towel and put on a jockstrap that perfectly framed his butt, but before I could get a great look he put a hand towel over my eyes. He then proceeded to continue the massage as usual, and after starting the HE, I suddenly felt him take me into his mouth. After about a minute of this he stops, takes the rag off my eyes, and guides me from the massage table to the bed, where we spent over an hour enjoying each other. What had originally been a request for a 90 minute massage turned into a 3 hour experience that I’ll never forget. When we were done I remarked that that was a first for me, and he said that it was for him too but he was glad that my regular masseur stopped working at the spa so that he was able to connect with me. 
 
I saw him regularly (and exclusively) for several more months until he moved across the country to live with his sister. After he left I went looking to recreate the magic with a new provider and that’s how I came across masseurfinder, then rentmasseur, and eventually this forum.