56harrisond
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56harrisond reacted to Jamie21 in Providers who are not into "kissing"
Fresh breath is extremely important! I always use mouthwash before seeing clients, even if it’s not going to involve kissing (I love kissing but some clients don’t want it) there’s times your face is close so it’s important to smell fresh.
Some people are naturally clumsy and that goes for kissing too. I agree with @Shawn Monroe that some guys kiss badly, maybe because they’re inexperienced at it. I’ve had clients lunge at me mouth open which is quite disconcerting. Those guys tend to be over excited even from the start so it’s challenging to control the situation. Say we have 90 minutes and 10 minutes into the massage they’re wanting to kiss and are ready to cum. Cool down!!
I have a client who was like that every time, he would turn up so aroused and liked to start with a kiss and that got him even more excited. I suggested a way for him to better enjoy the massage. Now he unloads in my mouth at the start, we kiss and share his load, then he’s ready to relax for the massage. It’s a happy starting (he gets a happy end too).
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56harrisond got a reaction from Bluefin in Greatest Lap Dance Ever
This.
https://twitter.com/TheCockShow1
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56harrisond reacted to + azdr0710 in May I see the evidence, please?
Darn, was hoping it was the younger guy on the right!
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56harrisond reacted to Jamie21 in Upsell before appointment
That’s something I do. There’s a reason for why I sometimes do it. Allow me to explain.
If you’re jerking him off and it’s not working, maybe he’s not fully hard or something, then it could be down to your technique. I’ve jerked off hundreds of guys (probably into 4 figures lol) and it’s surprising how many different techniques there are. Not just technique on his cock but also whether he likes his balls held, his hole stroked etc to get him going.
So if I’ve tried a few things and none of them are working (which is unusual but it does happen), and maybe time is pressing, then I say to him “show me how you wank, I love watching”. Most guys will take you up and quickly go to their favourite technique. I let him do it a bit, observe the technique…is he a fast or slow guy? is it more head or shaft? does his spare hand go to a nipple? Then I intervene again and take over for him, copying his style. Now I know exactly what to do to get him to that ‘almost there’ point and I can mix things up and go to his preferred technique when needed.
It’s kind of sneaky but it’s one of the things you learn through experience. And of course it’s better than saying “oh fuck this you do it while I make myself a cup of tea” isn’t it?
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56harrisond reacted to Marc in Calif in Are other markets the same?
Don't you realize that "those people" are all exactly the same in their behaviors and attitudes? 😆
Yes, I'm being sarcastic.
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56harrisond reacted to dutchal in Are other markets the same?
Could you further enlighten us as to what ages and ethnicities are most problematic?
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56harrisond reacted to + FrankR in New York City Weatherman Fired After Webcam Nudes Leak
If he starts an OnlyFans that provides a daily naked weather report, I‘d be up for that! 😃
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56harrisond reacted to pubic_assistance in $1,000/hr??
If some people are wealthy enough to spend $ 300,000.00 on an Hermes bag, I am assuming $ 1K to fuck your favorite porn star is pocket change in comparison. Not everyone is on a budget. And not every provider is a public servant committed to making their ass available to the masses.
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56harrisond reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in $1,000/hr??
He does it because he can. Supply/demand, I'm assuming.
The lesson here is that not every escort is for every client.
He didn't waste your time and immediately made it clear who his client base is. I respect that.
Never begrudge an escort because they can. Just move on.
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56harrisond reacted to guru68 in $1,000/hr??
There's no doubt in my mind that he has no trouble finding clients at that price.
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56harrisond reacted to GregWillingAble in How to bring up more with your masseur.
"How to bring up more with your masseur?" - Simple... agree to parameters upfront and you - the client - learn the difference between a "masseur" and a "sex worker".
This is a subject that, frankly, pisses me and a lot of other actual escorts / sex workers off, as the grey areas some masseurs work in really make life difficult for everyone.
I'm a sex worker / escort. I'm happy to offer (self taught) massage as part of my bookings. I charge standard male sex worker rates for my sessions... and obviously I am open to all pre-agreed sex acts during those sessions. However, I have lost count how many enquiries I've had by men who balk at my rates and say "I know a masseur who'd do that for £40!"
1. More fool that masseur for doing the work of a sex worker and but not getting paid their worth, just because they want to avoid the label of being a "sex worker".
2. Masseurs might except the request to give a happy-finish or more for an extra on-the-spot tip, but there is no ethical obligation to actually do it. If they aren't attracted to the client, they could make take offence at the offer and you feel awful for simply requesting it. How much they bend their ethical code of professional conduct on occasions should never be at the expense of misleading a client and shaming them for expecting a more sexual service.
If you want a professional massage, see a masseur. If you want sex and intimate contact, don't be cheap and expect a masseur do bend their rules for you for a little extra pocket money.... See an sex worker who will be happy to set comfortable parameters for everyone up-front, and get exactly what you pay for (with the option for more) with no risk of rejection, judgement or shaming.
And masseurs... please... either just be sex workers or stay in your lane. I promise you'll still get more regular work than we do.
