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Talk about projection. 

Talk about projection. 

So you've polled EVERY person on the planet to state that nobody identifies as "just" gay? Why is being gay referred to in such dismissive tones as if there is some vital aspect to one's sexual identity that is missing? Sexuality has always run along a spectrum to my knowledge and experience. I can state that I am gay, gay, gay. I can't even imagine having sex with a woman. Besides, the new fluidity could be based on the principle that one's sexuality is not the be-all, end-all in terms of experience or identity.

Neither is this thread about you. 
The creator of a topic in these forums may have started it. But it's not "about" him.
And he doesn't "own" the topic's content and cannot control the responders. 

As a consumer I find these posts and comments so strange. Usually when guys find a gem they keep it to themselves for fear of the guy being overwhelmed and prices going up and hence less available. This fan club cheering is so strange and almost makes me want to avoid him. 

This is homophobic and offensive. Substitute a racial group and your post would be taken down. I recommend this post and posts like it be removed for offensive language. 

A picture is worth a thousand words. So half of your family doesn’t speak English. All someone needs is to see a photo or video of you. 

This is homophobic and offensive. Substitute a racial group and your post would be taken down. I recommend this post and posts like it be removed for offensive language. 

They just all have sex with men. 
The degree of homophobia in this arena never ceases to amaze me. 

Some people (and it’s obvious who they are) protest SO MUCH that that, itself, makes a statement. 

A picture is worth a thousand words. So half of your family doesn’t speak English. All someone needs is to see a photo or video of you. 

They just all have sex with men. 
The degree of homophobia in this arena never ceases to amaze me. 

Some people (and it’s obvious who they are) protest SO MUCH that that, itself, makes a statement. 

Yes.
Some people seem to have an army of acquaintances who are expert in every field of inquiry known to man.
How nice. For them.

They just all have sex with men. 
The degree of homophobia in this arena never ceases to amaze me. 

Some people (and it’s obvious who they are) protest SO MUCH that that, itself, makes a statement. 

Encouraged by the comments on this forum, I did visit alex.blessings this afternoon.
Blessings, Male Male Massage in New York City, NY (rentmasseur.com)
A studio with breath taking views of midtown and the Hudson River from the 64th floor.  From the moment he put his hands on my shoulders, I knew I came to the right place.  The experience was a blend of solid massage technique, gentle stretching and true eroticism. It is rare to meet someone who truly understands the male body.  Blessings DOES.  
I felt transported to my very first gay experiences in Thailand, 30 years ago.  

They just all have sex with men. 
The degree of homophobia in this arena never ceases to amaze me. 

Some people (and it’s obvious who they are) protest SO MUCH that that, itself, makes a statement. 

For a time it meant bareback. Now it doesn’t necessarily mean that could mean any of the above. 

You’re a piece of work. No one is claiming anyone can or can’t do anything. Except your twisted accusations that gay people lie to suit their own purposes. Best not to project your own intrapsychic issues onto others. 

You’re a piece of work. No one is claiming anyone can or can’t do anything. Except your twisted accusations that gay people lie to suit their own purposes. Best not to project your own intrapsychic issues onto others. 

“To homosexuals?” Lol

“To homosexuals?” Lol

“To homosexuals?” Lol

It's shocking on this board to see so many people talking about "choice".   Who chooses their sexual orientation?  Do you wake up one day, sit down at the breakfast table when you are about 5 years old and make the decision with Mom & Dad?   How you "choose" to live your life is a different situation.  We are in our infancy in regards to genetics.  One of the first big studies was done by Dr. Dean Hammer at the NIH back in the early nineties if I remember correctly.  My partner at the time was a participant with his brother.  It was later found to have some flaws but set the groundwork for future studies; one of which was released a few years ago.  Even if scientists were able to prove the genetic component with 100% certainty, many Americans wouldn't believe it anyway and we have the recent COVID epidemic as proof of Americans' distrust of science.  You can blame the right for that-not a bunch of liberal activists.  

You guys are making the assumption both testes were removed at the same time. It’s rare but there are cases in which a person with TC has a recurrence of a second cancer in the other testicle later. Could have happened here. I’ve seen such cases. 

My close friend used to escort and said it was trauma inducing for him. I think he experienced clients as somewhat abusive at times, demanding, etc. Not all by any means but enough that it was triggering and trauma inducing to the point that was affecting his mental health in a negative way. So he stopped. 

You’re a piece of work. No one is claiming anyone can or can’t do anything. Except your twisted accusations that gay people lie to suit their own purposes. Best not to project your own intrapsychic issues onto others.