HoseMaster

I know the EXACT same feeling. I remember first stumbling across an escort over 15 years ago named “BC Josh” out of British Colombia with what I think was his own website. Gorgeous smooth, blonde, muscle guy with partial face pics with good reviews on here (I think), and driving a convertible car in some pics. I wanted to meet him, but couldn’t muster up the courage to pull the plug and go see him or bring him down. By the time I did muster the courage, his ad was gone, and phone disconnected. I was so bummed.
 
A year or two later, I tried my first hourly with a smooth muscular Mediterranean guy named Vince I think at his apartment off Artesia Blvd and the 405. I was hooked. Maybe it was like a drug in some form.
 
Over the months and years that followed, I would do more hourlies, progress to overnights, then weekends, and even a few vacations if the price was right. I’m sure I started to have feelings for a few of the regulars, as it only seems natural. Then your body starts confusing the sexual feelings and pleasure it receives with your brain trying to sort it out and telling you “this is not love...this guy would never be with you if money were not involved.” I even developed a few sleeping disorders because of the body and brain trying to balance these things out. Once I did, the sleeping disorder went away.
 
As I get older, my sexual desires have gone down. I still hire from time to time, but not as much as I once did. I have a narrow window of what I like sexually: naturally smooth, muscular, and younger than me. Sometimes people pass through town, and I might hire them for an hour to try them out. Sometimes I hire them for an overnight or weekend if I fly them them in. Most work out just fine, and sometimes I repeat if we click, and the price is right. If I do two nights (a weekend), we click, the price is $2,000 or below, I may have them out again. However, if the overnight is over $1,500, and no multi-night rate for a weekend, that will probably be the only time I see them. If we don’t click, if they’re on their phones a lot, disconnected from what they’re doing, only think about themselves, I also probably won’t repeat.
 
Over the last few years, I’ve felt the emptiness and depression you feel when some have left. I assume it’s the high of having them here, and then the emptiness when they go away. Some I feel, “I just spent THAT much for that time?” when they leave, so that can add to the depression. Like I said before, it probably adds to the feeling of not being able to get someone that looks like the way they do without money involvement. I’m sure I could find someone closer to my age being a fire captain and all, but when I’ve been on dating sites, nothing sexually appealing stands out, and I think that’s an important part of a relationship too.
 
I’ve been on a few vacations to Greece, England, Spain, Ibiza, etc with some close girlfriends. I pay their way—and we don’t have sex of course—but the companionship makes the trip that much better.
 
Anyways, I know your feelings. It’s gotten better over the years, but I’ve found different ways to cope with loneliness, emptiness, and the depression that’s sometimes felt. You’re not alone in your feelings.

I know the EXACT same feeling. I remember first stumbling across an escort over 15 years ago named “BC Josh” out of British Colombia with what I think was his own website. Gorgeous smooth, blonde, muscle guy with partial face pics with good reviews on here (I think), and driving a convertible car in some pics. I wanted to meet him, but couldn’t muster up the courage to pull the plug and go see him or bring him down. By the time I did muster the courage, his ad was gone, and phone disconnected. I was so bummed.
 
A year or two later, I tried my first hourly with a smooth muscular Mediterranean guy named Vince I think at his apartment off Artesia Blvd and the 405. I was hooked. Maybe it was like a drug in some form.
 
Over the months and years that followed, I would do more hourlies, progress to overnights, then weekends, and even a few vacations if the price was right. I’m sure I started to have feelings for a few of the regulars, as it only seems natural. Then your body starts confusing the sexual feelings and pleasure it receives with your brain trying to sort it out and telling you “this is not love...this guy would never be with you if money were not involved.” I even developed a few sleeping disorders because of the body and brain trying to balance these things out. Once I did, the sleeping disorder went away.
 
As I get older, my sexual desires have gone down. I still hire from time to time, but not as much as I once did. I have a narrow window of what I like sexually: naturally smooth, muscular, and younger than me. Sometimes people pass through town, and I might hire them for an hour to try them out. Sometimes I hire them for an overnight or weekend if I fly them them in. Most work out just fine, and sometimes I repeat if we click, and the price is right. If I do two nights (a weekend), we click, the price is $2,000 or below, I may have them out again. However, if the overnight is over $1,500, and no multi-night rate for a weekend, that will probably be the only time I see them. If we don’t click, if they’re on their phones a lot, disconnected from what they’re doing, only think about themselves, I also probably won’t repeat.
 
Over the last few years, I’ve felt the emptiness and depression you feel when some have left. I assume it’s the high of having them here, and then the emptiness when they go away. Some I feel, “I just spent THAT much for that time?” when they leave, so that can add to the depression. Like I said before, it probably adds to the feeling of not being able to get someone that looks like the way they do without money involvement. I’m sure I could find someone closer to my age being a fire captain and all, but when I’ve been on dating sites, nothing sexually appealing stands out, and I think that’s an important part of a relationship too.
 
I’ve been on a few vacations to Greece, England, Spain, Ibiza, etc with some close girlfriends. I pay their way—and we don’t have sex of course—but the companionship makes the trip that much better.
 
Anyways, I know your feelings. It’s gotten better over the years, but I’ve found different ways to cope with loneliness, emptiness, and the depression that’s sometimes felt. You’re not alone in your feelings.

I know the EXACT same feeling. I remember first stumbling across an escort over 15 years ago named “BC Josh” out of British Colombia with what I think was his own website. Gorgeous smooth, blonde, muscle guy with partial face pics with good reviews on here (I think), and driving a convertible car in some pics. I wanted to meet him, but couldn’t muster up the courage to pull the plug and go see him or bring him down. By the time I did muster the courage, his ad was gone, and phone disconnected. I was so bummed.
 
A year or two later, I tried my first hourly with a smooth muscular Mediterranean guy named Vince I think at his apartment off Artesia Blvd and the 405. I was hooked. Maybe it was like a drug in some form.
 
Over the months and years that followed, I would do more hourlies, progress to overnights, then weekends, and even a few vacations if the price was right. I’m sure I started to have feelings for a few of the regulars, as it only seems natural. Then your body starts confusing the sexual feelings and pleasure it receives with your brain trying to sort it out and telling you “this is not love...this guy would never be with you if money were not involved.” I even developed a few sleeping disorders because of the body and brain trying to balance these things out. Once I did, the sleeping disorder went away.
 
As I get older, my sexual desires have gone down. I still hire from time to time, but not as much as I once did. I have a narrow window of what I like sexually: naturally smooth, muscular, and younger than me. Sometimes people pass through town, and I might hire them for an hour to try them out. Sometimes I hire them for an overnight or weekend if I fly them them in. Most work out just fine, and sometimes I repeat if we click, and the price is right. If I do two nights (a weekend), we click, the price is $2,000 or below, I may have them out again. However, if the overnight is over $1,500, and no multi-night rate for a weekend, that will probably be the only time I see them. If we don’t click, if they’re on their phones a lot, disconnected from what they’re doing, only think about themselves, I also probably won’t repeat.
 
Over the last few years, I’ve felt the emptiness and depression you feel when some have left. I assume it’s the high of having them here, and then the emptiness when they go away. Some I feel, “I just spent THAT much for that time?” when they leave, so that can add to the depression. Like I said before, it probably adds to the feeling of not being able to get someone that looks like the way they do without money involvement. I’m sure I could find someone closer to my age being a fire captain and all, but when I’ve been on dating sites, nothing sexually appealing stands out, and I think that’s an important part of a relationship too.
 
I’ve been on a few vacations to Greece, England, Spain, Ibiza, etc with some close girlfriends. I pay their way—and we don’t have sex of course—but the companionship makes the trip that much better.
 
Anyways, I know your feelings. It’s gotten better over the years, but I’ve found different ways to cope with loneliness, emptiness, and the depression that’s sometimes felt. You’re not alone in your feelings.

It may be time to stop the escort hobby..
 
Every time I finish with a visit or a weekend - like a trip I took with an escort this weekend – i feel empty. It just makes me feel like 'I am only good enough, worthy enough, because I am paying...not even worth affection without it being bought."
 
Just makes me feel EMPTY and it depresses me...
 
Anyone else?

Yeah, he’s changed his name at least one or two times. That usually translates to a bad sign.

Main reason why I avoid extremely muscular guys with 4-8% bodyfat or massive bodybuilders.
On the other hand, give me a next-door-looking kind of guy who says upfront he's a Top, and I'm pretty sure he will fulfill ALL my needs.

I've experienced the same nonsense. I asked this beefy bull to bottom and he sent me this text like "Do I look like I bottom?" Well he did say ask me in his ad and his over muscular ass was prominently displayed in the ad so I assumed he was opened minded.
 
I LOVE my bodybuilders.....I have ever since I was young kid watching the neighbors lift iron in their garage. It's the attitude that it's beneath them that gets me, like how dare I even ask. That's why I wish positions were more openly discussed in the ad, I don't like being all investigative to get a nice piece of ass. Then to put the cherry on top they charge the high fee because someone is fool enough to pay them to do the bare minimum and they assume I'm the same.

Now don't go hating me or putting a bomb after my comment just hear me out. I'm old I've been fucking for 40 years so I know what I'm talking about.
 
Muscle hung escorts suffer from extreme narcissism. I've been in gyms all my life and no matter how beyond nice a bodybuilder is don't ever tell him he should work on his abs, you'll get killed. Its worse for muscle hung gays who are fukn worshiped by everone on apps social. Problem with muscle hung male escorts is that they're not ready to face up to the fact that they are whores, which is the most feminine career anybody can take. So to keep their male ego intact, they will say it's okay because they do not btm.
 
Here is a good example and I have many of them. This rentmen muscle hung guy visited Montreal lately. In his description he said "ask me" for safe sex and "ask me" for position, which I did. I messaged him that I was looking for muscle bareback sub-bottom that kiss rim and suck and here is his reply: "?? peace nigga"... This guy could not phantom that anybody could expect something like that from someone as hot as him.

Myself on the keyboards of a 25-rank, 2-manual Reuter pipe organ I helped put together several years ago with a rendition of Crown Him With Many Crowns.
 

Have you ever considered the possibility that a client might cancel because of your outlook, your insistence on a deposit, or your insistence on a cancellation fee if the client cannot keep an appointment?
 
When a client contacts an escort for the first time and the escort comes off insisting on advance deposits or more, many clients simply move on to another provider.

Do escorts use Rentmen because that's where the clients are, or do clients use Rentmen because that's where the escorts are? Why not Friendboy, Mintboys, or Hunqz...or do in-the-know providers/clients use those websites as well?
 
Rentmen's monopoly is a bit frightening. Lack of robust competition does not strike me as good for an industry -- we all saw what happened due to the over-reliance on Rentboy. Rentmen's customer service is often non-responsive, and certain features, like RM Messenger, are pretty botched.
 
I also find it scary for (most) providers that one website can control their livelihoods.
 
Am I the only person who is wary of this website -- and its global collection of personal data and financial information from legally-vulnerable populations?

There’s not many from Belami that I’d kick out of bed.

Lukas Rudgeston ?

Love it! I think they used part of this tune in the old movie "Babe"

Amen to that!
I’d also include Kris Evans, Steve Skaarsgard, Jean-Daniel, Tommy Hansen, Yannis Paulson, and Andrei Kareinan to that list! So many from Bel Ami!
 
....Add Brent Everett in the mix too!

Met him. For full service not massage. Handsome like his pics and totally interactive and versatile.

He is NOT using his own pics. The models shown has 2 birthmarks/freckles on a shoulder the one I met does not PERIOD
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There are three guys on rentmen (that I know about) in Los Angeles being "handled" by an agent.
 
One of the three has a link above in the opening of this thread.
 
Here are two others: https://rentmen.eu/AntonioIL
 
https://rentmen.eu/Alex_Till
 
Notice several similarities:
 
All three are uncut
 
All three claim to be straight.
 
All three supposedly speak English (not so).
 
All three have been reviewed by the same rentmen reviewers (statistically improbable).
 
 
The person who shows up to meet with you will not be the person in the photos. The handler does all the communication with you. You have no idea it is the handler doing the texting back and forth with you.
 
 
I met one of them who just happened to know the second language I speak. He was quite nice and quite informative.

Myself on the keyboards of a 25-rank, 2-manual Reuter pipe organ I helped put together several years ago with a rendition of Crown Him With Many Crowns.
 

I have an anecdote on this. Years ago, I was pressed as a favour into going on a double-date in NYC by a friend who was interested in the other guy. My friend warned me that my ‘date‘ was difficult and very arrogant. Turned out he wasn’t; he just disliked my friend. My date was a dazzlingly handsome 25 year old and I understood why he was generally known as “the best looking man in Manhattan”. We had a torrid affair that lasted 3 months. One night in a swanky restaurant in Paris, he confided to me that prior to dating me he had hired an escort a couple of times. When I discussed why, he said “why not? I don’t want to waste time going out when I can order in and get exactly what I want” and he likened it to being hungry and ordering in pizza.
 
That’s the only insight I can offer @muscmtl

i think i got the video off of mymusclevideo. i dont know the name of the video. google his name and a bunch of videos pop up. he seems to have gotten more muscular in his later videos. from frat boy to jock stud.
 
i found the video on pornhub. enjoy
 
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph577ad6a04fbaf&pkey=6208021
 
he does a lot of step/mom step/daughter 3way vids.

I think he's hot af, but I have read on a number of blogs that he's an asshole. I also ready that his assholery (I know that isn't a word lol) caused at least one of the gayhoopla men to stop working for the site.
 
Of course it could all be rumor. That doesn't change his hotness though.

Tom Faulk after his haircut and before his life went down the hill like so many other pornstars...
 

 

Myself on the keyboards of a 25-rank, 2-manual Reuter pipe organ I helped put together several years ago with a rendition of Crown Him With Many Crowns.