You need to get a serious reality check.
Your current age and the one portrayed age online (22) is materially different, if you shaved a few years then that would be a different case but the fact is you don't look like what you portray online.
People do want a fantasy yes, but they want that fantasy to be a reasonable representation of what is advertised online, it is how we select guys based on their ad postings. You are cat fishing and I would be very careful if someone doesn't report you to rentascam, which will mean you will be blacklisted.
If I wanted to hire a 35- 40 year old I would do so, but people picked you because you said you're 22 and portrayed a very twink look (which isn't what you look like now). The facts speak for themselves, get a reality check.