Yellowrod

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Whoa! If riding a bike had that effect on me I would be in the Tour de France ?

I can't keep it to one... (and in no particular order)
 
Chris Eisenhower
AJ Irons
Bruce Beckham
Brian Strowkes
Tristan Baldwin
Johnny Ryder
Myrtle Tony
Kristian Elix
Brock Vinson
Alec Andrews
Andrew Irons
Mike Gaite
Ashton (from Sean Cody), I don't remember his escort name
...oh and a few others that don't advertise, so I won't name them.
 
I'll admit I'm a kissing slut. The men above are the ones who've left lasting impressions for their kissing (and just about everything else). Anyone of them, I could kiss all day.

My favorite hot kissers are, in no particular order:
Dane Scott, Rod Hagen, Lance Navarro, TB, Maus, Meatball Mike, Tyger, Mike Gaite.
On the massage side - Mark (in North Hollywood) - amazing hands, even more amazing tongue!
Alas, no longer available - Chris Eisenhower.

good to know. Unfortunately I think the worst and I don’t want to be sitting in a hospital on a ventilator thinking “I knew I shouldn’t of hired that escort”. Too dramatic? Lol

Interesting that you seem to be lucky in the same way that I got lucky ... just before the whole pandemic thing became serious. Met an unfathomably handsome (for me) young south american guy on Grindr, interested in "daddies" and - in an early message - mentioned "generous regular." We met at a restaurant, then had an in-house date the following week. He's been coming over several nights a week ... some nights astonishingly good sex, other nights no sex. (My libido and ability to "perform" are also decreasing with age, as some other posters have noted.) His company is the best antidepressant I've ever tried. I do provide him with a monthly stipend which, although not an inconsiderable amount, is nowhere near rates escorts charge for individual weekends. He's a professional with a good company - so that "stipend" is more fun-money than necessary. He is smart, personable, and careful ... we met just in time to establish mutual trust in terms of pandemic behavior before it became essential. He is just as interested in living the rest of his life as I am in living mine. Although I would love for him to be around for much of whatever life I have left ... that may or may not be in the cards. And in the meantime, I feel INCREDIBLY, UNBELIEVABLY lucky ... as my opinions about most of the escorts who are out there these days echo the thoughts of other posters. And I sure as hell won't be hooking up with anyone I don't know enough to trust about proper pandemic behavior - which effectively eliminates just about everyone online.

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

I was curious if any of you had gone through a period where you just didn’t feel like hiring escorts anymore. If so, I’d welcome any specifics you’d be willing to share (how long? reasons for it? what triggered a return? etc.)
 
I’ve hired twice in the last 12 months, most recently in August. Both sessions were good enough, but I just don’t have the urge to continue at this point. I’m 51, I own my own business so free time is tough to come by, and I’ve had a few of my regulars retire/disappear from the scene in the last couple of years. So all of those could be factors in my current headspace. But to be honest, I thought I’d get the desire again but it’s just not happening. To clarify, it’s not a lack of physical desire, but a lack of wanting to go through the “process” and effort that it can take to find someone compatible.
 
I’m likely overthinking the situation, which is something I often do in life. Just thought I’d check with folks to see if anyone had experienced similar feelings. Thanks for anything you’d like to share.

The new formulation of poppers seem to be so hit or miss. I remember in my 20's and 30's they were amazing and would bring on the most incredible orgasms when I topped or bottomed. Now, many bring on huge headaches or makes Mr. Softee come out. So I've been avoiding for some time now (and I also can't seem to find a good source - used to get them at Mr. S Leather, but the last time I was in there they didn't seem to carry the brand I liked anymore.)

Love how shorts are now trending above the knee and much more form fitting- never understood the appeal of baggy cargo shorts that looked more like skirts! The more leg, the better!

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I would wouldn’t call it covid-chicken. It’s more like covid-wise!

I feel your pain. I loved poppers. It got to the point where
I was using them regularly even just to jerk off. Of course,
the effect wains and I needed more and more for less and
less.
 
In addition since I’m a top, I had to be very careful about
regulating my use of them. Add to that some reports of retinal
damage in men who use poppers, and I decided I had to quit....
before I went blind (maybe Mom was on to something there....)
 
I threw out every last bottle and made sure I was in an environment
where is wasn’t so easy to get them on the spur of the moment.
At first I craved them pretty bad. I did the usual addict behavior
like looking for the one hidden bottle, checking the trash to make
sure there wasn’t one there, going online and looking at bottles
for sale, intentionally seeking the bottoms I knew who used them....
 
After a month or so I was fine and felt kind a foolish about the
whole thing. Now, I don’t mind if my bottom wants/needs them,
but it’s really easy for me to abstain.
 
I wish you luck. Trust me, you’re better off without them.

I did occasionally 20-25 years ago. I would hook up with a guy, sometimes in a 3-way situation. We liked martinis, 420 and poppers. We would go at like rabbits. Happy times. Now it's sans the poppers, and just me and my hand. Then Netflix. Oh, who I am kidding? It's usually straight to Netflix.

I almost succumbed to the 'need' for something tactile. But this thread has saved me, thanks guys!
 
'someone saved my life tonight sugar bear'

I even worry when people on walks I take aren't wearing masks even though I am. I try to take a wide berth around them. It's so highly contagious - per my doctor friends - that is what is so scary.

2fers below:

 

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I remember losing loads to this dude from a crumpled Playgirl mag I found on a pile on a street in NY way back when....