discussed in the forum many times over many years.....there are no accepted definitions at all!.......providers can define the terms any way they want and may even change their own definitions from client to client!.......do not assume anything if you book a certain style, hoping to get what you think it means!.......in fact, do not assume the provider will do anything 'sexual' at all (they aren't obligated to, of course).......
the best you can do is professionally and discreetly discuss the massage in pre-meet communication and politely mention what you hope to cover at the meeting ("erotic massage" if offered in their profile)......masseurs are just that and not sex workers and some won't even discuss it pre-meet.......do not mention specific 'acts' in pre-meet chat......go for the massage, let the masseur do his thing while you remain quiet, and hope for more.....at the meeting, your body language and subtle murmurs of pleasure from you may move things along.....it may take a couple or more meetings to develop trust and see 'enhanced' action as a result......be polite, respectful, and patient!....DO NOT get handsy or grabby!.......less scrupulous masseurs will offer upgrades for a fee smack dab in the middle of the session and they are to be avoided by carefully reviewing reports here in The Spa!.......the whole thing can be a subtle discreet 'dance' between client and masseur.....
oh, be clean and fresh when you arrive!
+ Kevin Eagle reacted to + azdr0710 in Accepted Definitions of "Sensual" and "Erotic"
