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Looks like he fine with the stats I provided and proceeded to provide his available dates when he arrives along with his rates.

Hope you enjoy your time with him!

Careful to turn off your zoom calls

Perhaps the best response would be: "Which stats would you like to know?" Then you can decide whether you want to provide them.

Good point, but I find extensive email back and forth diminishes interest.

They are probably just making sure you are not 350lbs

They get picky sometimes

Even on regular dating apps, there ones that claim they “can’t get hard for lard”... so i don’t see why people should not disclose as much as possible to ensure the provider will be able to perform given the client’s detailed profile.

They want to make sure they will enjoy the moment – and those that ask me this are told that this is a service and if I have to meet certain qualifications, I think they are in the wrong biz. I am not an ugly man but I don't participate in this. It only means they're going to be half-assed at their job.

 

Do you tell your chiropractor, barista, store clerk, insert other professional service here, what you look like? HELL NO! They are providing a service. If they ONLY want to see and fuck around with 'pretty people' they should get another job. Otherwise, shut up, take the money and bend over or stick it in (whatever the customer wants).

You are quite right, there are escorts that will meet anyone. A cock is a cock; and cash is cash. But, for those escorts who can pick and chose who they meet, perhaps extra details help to distinguish you from others.

I think it is best to provide a “visual” description of oneself as part of the introduction along with likes and dislikes and how you envision your encounter to proceed (provided the price is right) along with where you are located and potential dates for meeting. It just helps being more transparent and gives the provider enough information to make an informed decision.

Rick, in nyc, there are so many available providers and several of my regulars have been texting me since last week to make appointments... my building still does not allow for guests... so not sure when that will happen. Where are you located??

the standard FICO models all use a range from 300 - 850....

a couple outlier scoring models ( Citi for one) use 250 - 900.

Thanks I’ll have to check mine on the Citi model.

I thought a perfect credit score was 850? Does it go higher?

On EPIX, i am enjoying Berlin Station. Richard Armitage gets better with age. Such a great show!

I contacted reno gold a couple of months ago. He said then that he was no longer meeting fans in person but rather offering private video meetings. Perhaps he’s seeing guys in person again? I’d like to know as well. But I’m hearing from more than one poster here that he is asking $1,000. If he’s available again - and for substantially less than 1k - please PM me.

Reno gold offers private video chats for 700$. Would probably fork over the extra 300 for an in person meeting.

Even Pre pandemic, escorts would send unsolicited RM messages. I view it more as marketing...didn’t know this was a new thing.

I’d love to see what escorts say about me...lol

Still don’t see how one could hire an escort while social distancing measures are still in place.

The OP poses a valid question. However, as a client, I‘ll pay whatever the escort is asking. Whatever rate they ask for is their own decision. But, from an economics /supply-demand standpoint, there probably will be an surfeit of escorts on the market. In the past, an excess number of guys (600 plus) on the market has not lowered the rates in manhattan (avg was 300) at least. So, not sure if that will be the case post pandemic. But, I guess they can make more on volume if prices are a little lower.

I have a friend from Houston who always referred to Dallas as the city of the 30k per year millionaires.

 

I guess another way to say it it's: "fake it till you make it"

I guess Neimann Marcus has something to do with it... I love that store...lol.

for certain reasons, Vegas has always been a place where I’m not looking to draw much attention to myself....

In most all hotels, I qualify for certain perks....for example, if I’m heading for the front exit, a concierge (knowing who I am) might try to get my attention to ask “Mr. “Rockefeller”, do you want or need a hotel car (usually a Rolls or similar) to drive you somewhere ?”.....I’ll almost always decline those offers & simply catch a cab.....the option is also almost always extended to play (gamble) in a more exclusive / restrictive “high roller” area....generally simply liking the action / atmosphere, etc of the main-floor gaming areas more, in Vegas those offers when extended to me are declined as well....bottomline, in the future for when in Vegas, I might consider accepting some of those perks for perhaps the enhanced protections & separations they can provide.....of course, in any event I would still remain a person who @Benjamin_Nicholas refers to as someone who dresses for the tarmac & never for the runway .....I’ve always been comfortable in my own skin, errrr wardrobe choices - clean / comfy / casual....& not particularly inexpensive either.

I prefer much understated quality clothing too, Loro Piana, Brunello Cucinelli, without labels but comfortable.

A work meeting this month in LV was postponed til November. Hoping it still happens.

The weather never has any impact on my hormones lol

You mean seeing guys in shorts and tight t shirts doesn‘t get your juices flowing???

Nice warm weather is making many horny

I just wonder if anyone else grapples with this. I have it pretty plainly in my ads that I like advanced notice when hosting locally. Mainly because I’m not always in work mode when at home base.

 

But it seems it just doesn’t give, people still request appointments the day of, but they can’t HOST. They seem eager and rushed to meet, but have an expectation that we are readily available with open schedule for them to just walk in the door, with little to no advance planning.

 

Sometimes I just don’t understand the psyche behind it. If someone is truly trying to set up a meeting 1 on 1 with someone who they’ve never met, don’t know anything about beyond an ad and pictures, and have no idea where they may live or be hosting...why is it appropriate to assume that one can simply text, ask “are you available to host now”.

 

Whenever that happens, with the exception of me being already situated in a hotel...I just find it invasive and pushy. It just gives me this vibe that someone is trying to barge into my personal space, unannounced, AND when they try to give time limits (They are in a rush to meet by X time, but fail to properly plan it ahead), it makes me feel that they feel, I have nothing better to do with my time AND it sets the tone that their time is more important than mine. And I’ve not even known them for 5 minutes ??‍♂️

 

I had this yesterday, and told the client to walk. For one he initially contacted me Saturday asking me to host, and I told him I was on my way out of town (actually he seen I was on my way out of town, and decided to ask anyway). Come Tuesday, he texts me again asking to host at 7:30 pm, to meet before 10. Saying he has to work the next day...

 

I told him, it’s not all about you. Guess what? I have to work too...and I was in fact on my way to another client. The bravado of this dude was rather offensive. Not to mention he didn’t even try to schedule in advance for when I returned to town, when I was talking with him Saturday.

 

Solution: if a client needs someone to host, PLAN IT. ASK. Coordinate. Don’t just assume one can just up and pop over to an escort’s place on spur of moment. I’m currently trying to reschedule a client who last week, was being pushy about meeting, saying he could come over right after lunch. Ummmm, no you can’t. I am not a walk in clinic.

 

Even when I had my own place (which I don’t now, which makes hosting more challenging), I still didn’t like clients getting into the habit of being able to call last minute, and barge into my personal space without much notice. And I find if I allow it once, they expect it again and again.... so I don’t even like to allow myself to get into the trap.

 

There’s nothing wrong with last minute or same day appointments. But the issue comes when one is expecting another to do something they can’t. If they say, “I can host or travel”, then that opens more room for options. I wonder would they be okay with an escort calling them asking to come over out the blue? In my experience, 99.9% that’s a HELL NO. So then how is it fair to think that I can accommodate on such short notice?

I don‘t have the looks or aptitude to do what you are doing. However, If I were managing a business, I‘d want as many interested parties. I wouldn’t care if it wasn‘t convenient for me, i’d paste on my smile and greet them and hope to find a way in satisfying them so they‘d throw some cash my way.

I‘ve seen on facebook some people using tarp or shower curtains and cutting out inserts for a pair of 2 arm inserts so they can “cuddle” with loved ones while maintaining some sort of barrier. i wonder if any massage therapists would adopt this concept?

Sorry you are experiencing this. I know it is frustrating when people don‘t read the details. Sometimes clients are just plain horny and want to have immediate gratification. Sorry that they don‘t read carefully... but i suppose it comes with the territory of managing a business.

Canadian in NYC here. No need to pay out of pocket . I think it is free, but they took my insurance just in case. Just walked into CityMD and 20 minutes later, test is done. Can be asymptomatic. Some companies are requiring proof of testing before returning to the office. No reservations needed. Best to go early morning. Option to do one or both (PCR and antibody). I only did the antibody. I read somewhere that the local CVS drug stores (like Shoppers Drug Mart in Canada) in NJ will have self swab tests by the end of the month.

Remember J's Hangout or the Manhole? Those were fun places