wanderlust307

You validate my point: some Americans need a reminder that "US is not he world" (the bitchy title 😅)

Here is something relevant that happened to me. A few years ago I met a 20yo in Grindr. He was not considering himself an escort, no ad in Hunqz, but made clear that he wanted money. He said he was meeting another older guy like me for 50 euros and I gladly agreed (50 euros is really low in my city and he was so good-looking...).
So we meet and everything goes extremely well. I had the best sex of my life. I got super excited, exchanged WhatsApp and Instagram and started long chats. So the next day we make plans to meet again and he goes, from now on it will be 100 euros because of... some stupid excuse. Now if this happened in my business I would say fuck off. But with him I said fine. Because he was a kid and because I had the best sex of my life. To cut a long story short, I kept seeing him for 4 years, the rate went up to 150, we had weekly meetings, lunches, dinners. He met my friends, we went to Mykonos and Ibiza together.  He told me the story of his life, about his father, his mother, his aunt... 😅 I had lots of fun with him for years. 
So should I say no to his demand from the start? That would be the correct business approach. But I would miss all this fun. I hope I make my point clear.

Careful not to overdo it. Better wait for summer.

A co-worker of mine has one and I don't know why but it pops out all the time on her when she blows her nose! 🤣

I find stupidity a big turn off.

So what were your terrible mistakes and painful lessons? Spill the tea. 

It's good that you live and work alone.

It's good that you live and work alone.

Could you be more specific? 
What exactly happened to you with several providers?

So what were your terrible mistakes and painful lessons? Spill the tea. 

Why I picture you in your garden in Surrey having cucumber sandwiches and typing here? 

So here we have a trucker from the US, who reads the Guardian... 🤣

It's good that you live and work alone.

Have you tried the zoo? 🤣

I find stupidity a big turn off.

Hi everyone. First post here. 
Insta is the new grindr. And the quality is much better. There is no need to mention money. Insta models don't consider themselves escorts. 
This happened to me last week. I dm an 18yo that i would like to meet him.  And he responded, take me to Mykonos. 

Watch out for the expiry date.

No.
Honestly, I’d live in the shower if I could. Every boyfriend has quickly learned not to speak to me in the morning until after I’ve showered. Then I’m human. Before? Not so much. I’d say I shower a minimum of 3 times a day. Yes, I’m the weirdo who showers before and after a work out. I also shower before bed, if I have the energy. It’s not really a clean/dirty thing. I just enjoy taking a shower. And if you don’t like having sex in the shower, I’m probably not the guy for you.

It's good that you live and work alone.

It's good that you live and work alone.

I shower twice a day. In the morning to wake up and in the evening because I like it. I try to keep it short. In the evening, sometimes when I stay in, I take a long bath listening to music and having my drink. Scent is very important for me. I use Black Amber in shower, shampoo, candles... 
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I am terribly sorry. I am in Europe and I have no idea where it is sold in New York. Ask Nathalie, the owner, she is super helpful.

Not to get too personal but dare I ask what is the protocol for changing underwear and socks?  Is that done weekly as well?  

Since the OP isn’t around others, I personally see nothing wrong with his hygiene options. 
 
For me, I love showers and baths. At least twice a day, I’m showering. 
 
1.) Shower in the morning
2.) Shower after the gym-or right before bed. 
3.) and an extra shower if there’s an extra event in my life (if I’m going out to dinner or on a date or something socially. I’m scrubbing up before that too)
I have no skin conditions, dryness, or allergic reactions either. 
I rarely get sick, and never catch infections or rashes that stem from being around others. 
The modern narrative that cleanliness is bad for your skin, is “unhealthy”, and “bad” for you, needs to cease. There’s nothing wrong with being clean and fresh, and no one should be shamed for that either.