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All good advice. Also plan a 2 hour meet or longer. Have a drink before. Chat a bit. 

Just one fundamental piece of advice: Meet him first.

You have a ton of patience...

Just one fundamental piece of advice: Meet him first.

1) You could request to schedule a brief phone call to discuss all your questions, concerns, and to get a feel for the guy. 5 mins tops. Typically free, but do not expect your provider to pick up a random unannounced call from you any time, anywhere. Schedule the call, or ask if it’s ok to call.
This minimizes the time your provider is spending seeing an alert from you, giving you his attention, then seeing another alert, stopping what he is doing to respond again, and so on. That process can drag on for hours, days, or even weeks if we don’t put boundaries around it. That process of setting boundaries is tricky because we have to strike a delicate balance between being firm, direct, honest, and polite. A lot of clients get butt hurt when we politely set a boundary instead of simply caving to their constant niggling one liner texts, demands for attention, and random half sentence questions / statements. Sometimes I get irritated and impatient and don’t handle it as well as I usually do.
A succinct few paragraph messages back and forth will cover everything you and he need. A brief phone call respects his time.
If you’re not calling:
Summarize all your questions, scenarios, requirements, wants and needs into one or just a few text messages. I appreciate these because I can answer them all in one shot. The guys who keep asking one question, then another, and then half another, and then re-ask the same questions…these are the time wasters, the people we want to block.
Here is a recent RentMen messenger exchange as an example of what NOT to do. Keep in mind the client waits a while between messages before sending another demand for attention. It’s really strung out over many hours at a stretch.


 
 

Just one fundamental piece of advice: Meet him first.

Just one fundamental piece of advice: Meet him first.

There was a mandatory check point at Pierro's. You had to present yourself for screening within 24 hours. 

Just one fundamental piece of advice: Meet him first.

All good advice. Also plan a 2 hour meet or longer. Have a drink before. Chat a bit. 

Just one fundamental piece of advice: Meet him first.

All good advice. Also plan a 2 hour meet or longer. Have a drink before. Chat a bit. 

All good advice. Also plan a 2 hour meet or longer. Have a drink before. Chat a bit. 

Just one fundamental piece of advice: Meet him first.

All good advice. Also plan a 2 hour meet or longer. Have a drink before. Chat a bit. 

Always welcome 🤗 
We have more in common than you may think. 
 
I have that same product, and use it weekly. 
 
The Ordinary is a great line with fantastic prices. 

Thank you. Always good to hear different views.
By the way for exfoliation you may want to try an acid. The Ordinary has a good and ultra cheap glycolic acid that I use on the body. Have a look at it.

Just one fundamental piece of advice: Meet him first.

All good advice. Also plan a 2 hour meet or longer. Have a drink before. Chat a bit. 

Just one fundamental piece of advice: Meet him first.

In my city, visiting escorts use the same couple of flats. So it is a well known address. 😅

ya, we use Venmo and insta / digital pay now, iPhones for texting, social media to find out where our friends are, grinder for hooking up and have prep for BB sex / a pill to treat anything you pick up so a little has changed from when you started going there.🤪,,,,, ...... time has changed from the days anyone needing a post office

I’ve done a significant amount of sexting via Facebook messenger in the past and never had an issue… I think you should be safe on there as long as you don’t bring up any illegal activity.

If you've booked enough time, you can have the luxury of what amounts to a real date versus just a 60-minute fuck.
That said, just be up-front with what makes you comfortable.  A good guy is going to make sure you're relaxed.

I fail to grasp the logic of doing this. Do these guys enjoy being rejected? see doors slam on their face?