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It’s actually really funny and chill and sex positive. Recommend. Sniffies Confessions Podcast

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The moderators have been  receiving a record number of reports. We have many new members joining us each day. Most join to participate in our discussions but, unfortunately, a few are here just to cause trouble. 
We are doing our best to ban members who join just so they can personally attack others and use racial slurs as a description. This morning I woke up to a verbal and offensive attack on us from a recently banned member. 
The Moderators appreciate members who see these types of posts and report them. Please continue to keep this a safe site where all members can post freely and not be personally attacked for doing so. 
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Sniffies would be a good option too for what he is looking for. 

YEAH THAT'S FINE I CAN HELP OUT WITH YOUR OVERDRAFT WITHOUT TELLING YOUR GIRL - JUST DO A FEW JOBS AROUND THE HOUSE FOR ME - USUAL DEAL !!
 
CLEAN THE CAR FIRST !
 

I don’t know. But he seems to be aging well. The pictures showing an iPhone with  3 cameras are at maximum 4 years old. There were no iPhones with 3 cameras before that. 

One of my regulars listed his real age until he was 30. Now he is forever 30 😂 

I once hired someone who said he was 46. The guy arrived and clearly was over 60s. Sure he’s got a toned body, but the skin quality, hair, wrinkles on his face just couldn’t lie.
 
In the spirit of this thread, in my opinion no that is not acceptable. I hire because of all factors presented to me by the provider. I rather they just keep that part unanswered.

It depends on the individual, but I think I started shaving at age 14.

Sooooo…..you didn’t really come here looking for advice, did you?
You just wanted us to agree with you.
Or did you just want to stir the shit "pot"….err….
Sorry…I mean "kettle"….ummm…"black"….oh, never mind. 

You gave your friend lousy advice. Why not leave it at that. You’re not going to convince people here that calling out the porn actor is going to result in any good. 

I haven’t seen an update in a while of Lucky Horseshoe in Chicago, so I thought I would attempt one.
Since Micah took ownership of the bar, he has made quite a few improvements. There are three bars inside with two of them that have stages for dancers.  The third bar is open only on weekends.  The old bathrooms have been updated, and a third one installed in the far back bar.  They have various theme nights, and added new lighting.  Drinks are fairly priced compared to other bars in Chicago.
The dancers have improved greatly in my opinion.  They dance every night except Monday at 8:00 and start at 3:00 on Saturdays and Sundays.  On any given night there are from 12 to 20 dancers in all sizes and shapes, from twink to twunk to bodybuilder.  They are good about not huddling together, but make the rounds of the customers.  During the evening, there are 2 dancers at all times - one on the front stage and one on the back stages.  Both stages are accessible from all sides.  
Micah recently bought the bar called @mosphere up in Andersonville in Chicago.  They have dancers as well, but don’t start until the late nights.
 

First of all, let me say that I hope that you and your Czech porn actor friend work things out and manage to develop a satisfying relationship.
I am, however, pessimistic.  Sugar daddy relationships are  inherently complicated and rarely end up well.  Long distance re;lationships are even harder.  My understanding is that you are in the US and he is in Czech Republic, right?  While the cost of living in Czech Republic may be a tad lower than here, you paying him $2,500 per month is really not a big deal.  You say he is a famous porn actor.  Is he still working as porn actor and/or escort?  I don't see him making it on $2,500 alone.  At that rate, you can't expect him to be 'exclusive' to you.  It would not surprise  me if this guy is seeing other clients and/or has multiple sugar daddy arrangements going on at the same time,
On top of that, think of the cost of travel to Czech Republic and back, every 3 weeks.  And the cost of occasionally paying his bills.
What disturbs me most is that you seem to be in fear of him being able to blackmail you.  And you feel he is treating sexual activity with you as a chore - which it is!  You are spending money on this guy who is not even faking good sex.  Think of how many professional escorts you could have hired for the money you spent,  This guy has you in a classic findom situation.  Is that what you really want?  
My advice is that you negotiate a  graceful exit.
 
 
 
 

Check it out. We just started a new forum. If you have a favorite Podcast that you enjoy listening to let us know. We’d appreciate hearing from you.

I've been following the conversation in this thread and the other that is now locked.  Just a few things to consider, perhaps:
1.  The amount that a masseur requests from a client is for his time, not for specific activities beyond a massage.  It seems that @cuban_boy has been pretty clear what the limits of those activities are for him, and that should be respected by anyone who contacts him.
2.  I don't see anything in @cuban_boy's profile that would suggest anything more than a massage, with the exception that he notes that he is HIV negative and on PreP, which could lead some people to believe he is open to additional activities.  But this does not mean he is open to other activities - he may just prefer to indicate what the profile template is asking, rather than leaving it blank.  
3.  I don't think that @Swazca was necessarily looking for anything more than a massage based on what he has written in the threads - he has indicated that the reason he tipped is not because he expected more.  I can understand this.  I still give a small tip even when I am not fully satisfied by an experience, such as the service at a restaurant, because I just find it awkward not to give some tip for the time and effort the person has made.
4. The biggest issue I see is the possibility that @Swazca paid for a full hour of massage, and apparently only received 35 minutes.  Since the masseur is being paid for their time, it is only fair that the full hour be given - otherwise a smaller fee should be requested by the masseur in those specific cases.  Everyone has their good days and their bad days, but if the massage is shorter than agreed to, I don't think the full fee should be expected.
5.  It is also the client's responsibility to indicate whether or not the massage is meeting their expectations during the massage.  If a masseur is only concentrating on one area, or using only one method of massage, the client should let the masseur know that other areas need attention too.  I have only seen an RMT a few times, and only when I've had an injury.  I've never had a problem indicating that the massage is either too light or too deep, or if the area being massaged needs to be expanded.  In every case the RMT has appreciated that info, and has modified their pressure or mode of massage to improve the experience.  Only the client knows how the massage is feeling, so the client needs to let the masseur know if the massage is meeting expectations.  Masseurs are not mind-readers.
6.  I agree with those who noted that English is not @cuban_boy's first language, and that makes it very difficult to express nuances clearly.  He's trying to express himself in a language that he is not fluent in, and we all need to appreciate that fact.
Anyway, those are just a few thoughts.  It's good to have a forum where a client such as @Swazcacan share their particular experiences, and where a masseur such as @cuban_boy can share their side of the situation too.  Unfortunately these back-and-forth dialogues can get nasty - especially when others get involved.  Hopefully this post of mine does not contribute to that!
Finally, I just want to wish @cuban_boy and @Swazca the best going forward.  

Even the GAYS in NYC don't dress THAT gay !!
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Sniff it!!! 👃👃👃

There's more out there than just HIV. Some guys still like to be careful or at least selective about who breeds them. Getting other STIs can be expensive. They may need to take time off or they could get a bad rep and lose repeat customers if there's a perception of them giving a client an STI.