I try to go out of my way when booking via text to show that I am considerate of a provider’s time and respectful of boundaries. For me, it is usually about kissing more than sex. If there is a strict no kissing rule, I say thanks and move on. If they say it’s about chemistry, I say I understand and we should check in about it when we meet. It makes it a lot easier when meeting in person if we’ve texted about some things in advance. And of course I make sure to always show up freshly showered, brushed teeth, etc.