j r

I’ve seen him. Was not really a good fit for me. Pretty mechanical and didn’t seem very into it but YMMV. Session was definitely short. Got to the erotic part pretty quick. 

Thank you for this guy! Wow the way he just slides in there is so hot! 

FYI. Name change - https://rentmen.eu/VinceSpruce

Thumbs down.

I’ve seen him. Was not really a good fit for me. Pretty mechanical and didn’t seem very into it but YMMV. Session was definitely short. Got to the erotic part pretty quick. 

I’ve messaged him. Keep y’all posted. 

I try to go out of my way when booking via text to show that I am considerate of a provider’s time and respectful of boundaries. For me, it is usually about kissing more than sex. If there is a strict no kissing rule, I say thanks and move on. If they say it’s about chemistry, I say I understand and we should check in about it when we meet. It makes it a lot easier when meeting in person if we’ve texted about some things in advance. And of course I make sure to always show up freshly showered, brushed teeth, etc. 

Bottoms make the best Tops 

Hey. Just want to say you are not the only one to feel this way and some people just need longer than others for things to click.  I’m late 40s and with someone now, but I was in a similar position in my 30s. Even with the person I am with now, the sexual chemistry was not the thing that lasted. We were very hot together when we met but it wasn’t the basis of our attraction to one another. We genuinely like each other’s company and that has persisted even when the sex has gone up and down. Don’t know if this helps at all, but maybe try not to worry about it so much like a problem to solve? You sound like a good guy. I wish you happiness. 

This guy is just the ticket for first time bottoms—that was me last week in Chicago. I had a vibe about him that he would be slow, gentle, verbal, and make it great. It was amazing. He’s just outside NYC. I could go into much more detail (like how we both lasted for 3 hours and multiple rounds) but he is just a classy guy. Smart, funny, warm and 💯 engaged. 
 
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Looks like the scumbag pulled his ad. 

His ad is gone. 

I try to go out of my way when booking via text to show that I am considerate of a provider’s time and respectful of boundaries. For me, it is usually about kissing more than sex. If there is a strict no kissing rule, I say thanks and move on. If they say it’s about chemistry, I say I understand and we should check in about it when we meet. It makes it a lot easier when meeting in person if we’ve texted about some things in advance. And of course I make sure to always show up freshly showered, brushed teeth, etc. 

got it, makes sense! typically the recommended 'forum hygiene' is to bump the existing thread rather than starting a new one, to keep things tidier. all good!
i don't have any experience to share about this dude unfortunately, but also curious

I like to confirm with a provider during the appt setup texts everything that I am looking to get into. So as long as they mention it during that time a certain thing would cost extra then I can't complain. I only would get upset if during the actual session they suddenly say something will cost extra. Then that is not cool at all.

I try to go out of my way when booking via text to show that I am considerate of a provider’s time and respectful of boundaries. For me, it is usually about kissing more than sex. If there is a strict no kissing rule, I say thanks and move on. If they say it’s about chemistry, I say I understand and we should check in about it when we meet. It makes it a lot easier when meeting in person if we’ve texted about some things in advance. And of course I make sure to always show up freshly showered, brushed teeth, etc. 

I do the same as j r.
Also, I type in complete sentences, introduce myself, and give a link to my RM profile. It's a professional business transaction, and that's how it needs to be approached.
Yes - escorting is like a business. On the provider side, these initial impressions will make me stop: typing in fragments, not answering basic questions like rate, asking me questions that I already provided answers for. Worst are providers who do the above, while constantly saying meaningless things beginning with words like "c'mon baby" or "please, papi." Providers should act like professionals, not beggars.

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It would be a crime against humanity to have an ass THIS delicious and deny people the chance to use it to its full potential. 🍑🍆💦

 

Makes sense....considering the person in the ad is a German fitness model currently residing in Germany.

Bump

This guy is sexy 

If masseurs are sexually aroused by massaging you, they can get hard. If he slides on top of your body while face down, it doesn't mean he's going to fuck you, too. 
It's said time and time again, if you want more than a massage, either book him from his "more than a massage" site, or see a guy solely for sexual fun who can do an amateur massage as well, if he lists it. 
I'm one who shoots lower and aims high. Sometimes, I get lucky. Most of the time, I know I could've gotten what I would've preferred if I booked accordingly. 

Yes. He’s excellent. Beautiful. Really nice. Professional. Pics are accurate. Incredible in the front and back. Dm for more.