I've had a good experience with Finn:
https://rentmasseur.com/finn
an amazing sensual experience with Jean:
https://rentmasseur.com/NaturistTAOTouch
and a would-not-repeat experience with Archie:
https://rentmasseur.com/ArchieAndrews
I hope that helps!
@Just966, when I was first coming out, I subscribed to a magazine called "Unzipped" with photos of incredible men; that was sort of foundational, and then incrementally you build from there!