Luv2play

20 years ago I had a regular masseur (once a month) who was a CMT and a real hottie. Our combined weight was just over 300 pounds and he could get on my back for a full body massage. Then when it got serious he would pull me down so that my chest was on the table and my butt hanging over the end with my legs on the floor. And then he went to town. He also let me suck him before the transition. This was either when he was at the top end of the table and I was on my front or at the side of the table and I was on my back. And in those days it was only $100 for the hour. It was a nice variation on the bed scenario with full service escorts who at that time charged around $150.

I started going bald on the top back of my head around 25, much like my father, and like him it ended there. The front and sides remained thick and to this day almost 50 years later remain so, maybe a bit thinner on top but not noticeable. When I look in the mirror, I see a full head of hair. From the back, when I look in two mirrors, I see baldness. But I rarely look and couldn’t give a fig. I enjoy escorts who are either hirsute or bald or partially bald. It’s what is below the belt that counts for me. I had a few encounters with an escort a couple of years ago who was around 27. His hair was starting to thin and he was very self conscious about it. The first time he came to my house he kept his woolen tuque on until we got into bed. I thought he was very sexy. But he later went to Turkey with some of my money lol to get a hair transplant (this was in 2018). Haven’t seen him since as his ad was removed from RM although I have his e-mail. We’ve corresponded since but it seems his girlfriend didn’t approve of his sideline business and I think it was just to get the money for the transplant.

The details do go online. If you live in the US, you don’t get to see them but we do in other countries. You should speak to your congressman about that.

You handled that situation very well. I probably would have pretended I had never met him before. Learning his real name on the spot might have thrown me as well. In any event I would have done nothing to embarrass him as I highly value discretion on both sides of the client/escort relationship.

Currently I don’t see a problem. I use it exclusively to find escorts. I am also comfortable with their being based in Europe where laws on prostitution and gay sex generally are much more relaxed and progressive. Being in Canada I also get access to all the comments in their reviews, which is very helpful in making decisions re hiring.

He looks great but I wish of the many body pics he had included at least one butt shot. Even as a bottom, I like a nice firm ass on a top, which he is. Why not show us the goods?

I saw his ad on RM over a year ago and was intrigued. He’s on my bucket list but with travel restrictions he’ll be there a while.

I generally avoid escorts who claim they are straight but this one will do mutual oral and French kiss. Who knew.

They don”t call it La la land for nothing.

Well, he could be my son so that makes me...ancient? Ah well, these days I try to avoid those who could be my grandsons! I leave those to the 44yo’s.

I haven’t hired in Europe for ages but don’t consider 250 euros expensive. The cost of living in places like Paris, London and Amsterdam is every bit as high as Manhattan.

I heard a funny joke about sluts today, straight slut but still funny in these times. ”My wife has become the office slut...since we both started working at home.”

I was with an escort not too long ago who told me he started with an agent who had been a hookup for $. The agent set him up on RM with the appropriate profile and pics and took a commission for the first few months. Sort of like a real estate agent. The agent continued to get some serious discounts from the escort. After about 6 months they terminated the arrangement and the agent moved on. The escort told me it was very satisfactory from his view as he didn’t make any newbie errors and is now well established with great reviews.

Not sure what I would do if I live in the States.

I only use RM for hiring and find it very reliable if you do you due diligence by reading the reviews, interviews, if available, into’s listed, and then communicating sufficiently to establish likely compatibility. Didn’t hire the first 2 months of the pandemic but then when numbers started easing up here in Canada and things started opening up I resumed, especially since my birthday was approaching and I wanted an overnight. Have been very selective though in subsequent hires and things so far have gone well. Am mostly doing overnights now to maximize the pleasure and minimize the number of sessions. Sort of like navigating an ice field! LOL

Yes they do look similar. Their height is different so that helps teling them apart. They both look very hot.

I would hire Alex Mecum or Cade Maddox and have actually tried when they were placing ads on RM for Montreal. Neither responded on RM when I messaged them. I understand Mecum’s boyfriend lives in Montreal and advertises on RM but only as a bottom. He’s a hottie too.

I should have also said erotic for me means the masseur is fully naked.

I’ve had many massages over the years, from therapeutic, to sensual and erotic. I distinguish between sensual and erotic as follows and I make my expectations clear with the masseur before engaging him. Sensual is where the masseur may be scantily clad as in a jock strap or tiny briefs and I am fully nude on the table. I expect full touching on his part on all my body parts and stimulation but I do not expect to touch his private parts. I do like to caress his thighs, his arms and hands and belly and chest when in range. A happy ending should be included if requested by me. An erotic is at a higher level of contact. It includes all of the above plus can include kissing, not necessarily on the lips but for instance on my neck, back or other parts or vice versa. Does not include penetration but full body contact such as where the masseur lies on my back and rubs up and down. His penis may tease my butt cheeks. I think of erotic massage as like foreplay before the main event with a BFE. Hence I may caress his cock but not suck it. Some erotic massages end up as full service BFE but usually entails moving to a higher fee if the masseur requests and I agree on the amount. All massages should cover my entire body with good techniques. At the end I want to feel full body relaxation no matter what the level.

Actually some escorts I have contacted on RM do ask for an electronic payment in the form of a deposit in advance when I am booking something a week or more in the future and it is a first encounter. I don’t mind at all and it gives me some security that the escort won’t flake as well. Only two times I had to cancel days before the appointment and in one case the escort gave me a credit (it was $200 deposit) and in the other case no such offer was made on the same amount. I eventually did see the former escort and he lived up to the credit arrangement he had offered.

My understanding is that Rentboy was based in the United States and was effectively closed down by the Republicans in the 2000’s. Rentmen is based in the much more liberal Europe where escorting is legal in most countries that matter in the EU. When I travel in the US the Rentmen site is censored and comments are not available to users as they are in Canada and in Europe. There may also be other aspects of the ads which are missing, eg dick size.

In fact you can still get 2X4’s which are as advertised. The Amish people still hand cut them that way in Upper New York State and I have a potting shed made with them. They match the lumber in my house built in 1866.

That song would have a certain resonance in Quebec, where within one generation the province went from being very Catholic to anti-clerical and highly secular.

Last year I hired two porn actors who actually were lovers in real life. It was a great experience having Ryan Stone (the top) and Jay Tymel (the versatile) tag team me. While Ryan was no slouch in the dick department, Jay was humongous and it was only with some great effort I could accommodate him. Tragically Jay died several months after our encounter, which I was very upset to hear as he was a real sweetheart.

I’ve hired a few porn actors in the last couple of years and mostly paired them with another escort to make threesomes.I only hire tops or top/versatiles as I only bottom. In my experience the escorts I chose without a porn background were every bit as good if not better at satisfying me. But it is exciting to be involved with two gorgeous men getting it on in the same bed with me. Without fail they have always made me part of the action. One example was Londonboypete, who has been mentioned in this thread, and Jackson Radiz, who does films for Michael Lucas. Pete is the top and Jackson the versatile. Great tag team.