Luv2play

They don”t call it La la land for nothing.

Well, he could be my son so that makes me...ancient? Ah well, these days I try to avoid those who could be my grandsons! I leave those to the 44yo’s.

I haven’t hired in Europe for ages but don’t consider 250 euros expensive. The cost of living in places like Paris, London and Amsterdam is every bit as high as Manhattan.

I heard a funny joke about sluts today, straight slut but still funny in these times. ”My wife has become the office slut...since we both started working at home.”

I was with an escort not too long ago who told me he started with an agent who had been a hookup for $. The agent set him up on RM with the appropriate profile and pics and took a commission for the first few months. Sort of like a real estate agent. The agent continued to get some serious discounts from the escort. After about 6 months they terminated the arrangement and the agent moved on. The escort told me it was very satisfactory from his view as he didn’t make any newbie errors and is now well established with great reviews.

Not sure what I would do if I live in the States.

I only use RM for hiring and find it very reliable if you do you due diligence by reading the reviews, interviews, if available, into’s listed, and then communicating sufficiently to establish likely compatibility. Didn’t hire the first 2 months of the pandemic but then when numbers started easing up here in Canada and things started opening up I resumed, especially since my birthday was approaching and I wanted an overnight. Have been very selective though in subsequent hires and things so far have gone well. Am mostly doing overnights now to maximize the pleasure and minimize the number of sessions. Sort of like navigating an ice field! LOL

Yes they do look similar. Their height is different so that helps teling them apart. They both look very hot.

I would hire Alex Mecum or Cade Maddox and have actually tried when they were placing ads on RM for Montreal. Neither responded on RM when I messaged them. I understand Mecum’s boyfriend lives in Montreal and advertises on RM but only as a bottom. He’s a hottie too.

I should have also said erotic for me means the masseur is fully naked.

I’ve had many massages over the years, from therapeutic, to sensual and erotic. I distinguish between sensual and erotic as follows and I make my expectations clear with the masseur before engaging him. Sensual is where the masseur may be scantily clad as in a jock strap or tiny briefs and I am fully nude on the table. I expect full touching on his part on all my body parts and stimulation but I do not expect to touch his private parts. I do like to caress his thighs, his arms and hands and belly and chest when in range. A happy ending should be included if requested by me. An erotic is at a higher level of contact. It includes all of the above plus can include kissing, not necessarily on the lips but for instance on my neck, back or other parts or vice versa. Does not include penetration but full body contact such as where the masseur lies on my back and rubs up and down. His penis may tease my butt cheeks. I think of erotic massage as like foreplay before the main event with a BFE. Hence I may caress his cock but not suck it. Some erotic massages end up as full service BFE but usually entails moving to a higher fee if the masseur requests and I agree on the amount. All massages should cover my entire body with good techniques. At the end I want to feel full body relaxation no matter what the level.

Actually some escorts I have contacted on RM do ask for an electronic payment in the form of a deposit in advance when I am booking something a week or more in the future and it is a first encounter. I don’t mind at all and it gives me some security that the escort won’t flake as well. Only two times I had to cancel days before the appointment and in one case the escort gave me a credit (it was $200 deposit) and in the other case no such offer was made on the same amount. I eventually did see the former escort and he lived up to the credit arrangement he had offered.

My understanding is that Rentboy was based in the United States and was effectively closed down by the Republicans in the 2000’s. Rentmen is based in the much more liberal Europe where escorting is legal in most countries that matter in the EU. When I travel in the US the Rentmen site is censored and comments are not available to users as they are in Canada and in Europe. There may also be other aspects of the ads which are missing, eg dick size.

In fact you can still get 2X4’s which are as advertised. The Amish people still hand cut them that way in Upper New York State and I have a potting shed made with them. They match the lumber in my house built in 1866.

That song would have a certain resonance in Quebec, where within one generation the province went from being very Catholic to anti-clerical and highly secular.

Last year I hired two porn actors who actually were lovers in real life. It was a great experience having Ryan Stone (the top) and Jay Tymel (the versatile) tag team me. While Ryan was no slouch in the dick department, Jay was humongous and it was only with some great effort I could accommodate him. Tragically Jay died several months after our encounter, which I was very upset to hear as he was a real sweetheart.

I’ve hired a few porn actors in the last couple of years and mostly paired them with another escort to make threesomes.I only hire tops or top/versatiles as I only bottom. In my experience the escorts I chose without a porn background were every bit as good if not better at satisfying me. But it is exciting to be involved with two gorgeous men getting it on in the same bed with me. Without fail they have always made me part of the action. One example was Londonboypete, who has been mentioned in this thread, and Jackson Radiz, who does films for Michael Lucas. Pete is the top and Jackson the versatile. Great tag team.

I had one escort who in his ad on Rentmen said no clients over 65. So I quizzed him about it and he told me he had a client in his 70’s who had a heart attack during their session and the escort called the medics and had to accompany the client to the hospital in the ambulance. After that harrowing experience, he adopted his new policy.

I’ve been away from this site for over 10 years but saw that my registration was still active so thought I would dip my toe in the water. I am still an active client with escorts who I find on Rentmen. Some of them are pornstars. Frankly, I find they are not much different from others that I hire but then I am picky. That being said, some work out (from either category) and some not so much. One thing I will say is that watching them perform in films does not always translate to between the sheets. But then sometimes it does. Which keeps me on the hunt!

When I was spending my winters in Florida at the turn of the century (God how old does that make you feel), I was spending $1.27 for premium gas for my car (which requires it) in North Miami. Now admittedly, in SOBE the price was about $1.36 but in places likw Georgia it was so much less, just over $1.00 But then oil was well under $30 a barrel then. How times have changed! The question to ask is, has your income gone up 300% like the price of gasoline?

My experience a few years ago with him was that he was totally unreliable. Over a three day long weekend he stood me up three times; he seemed to be having a great time at the Black and Blue weekend in Montreal and simply ignored his appointments, getting in touch each time after the fact to say that he had been delayed, diverted, yada, yada, yada... Wouldn't bother with him again.

Well, I've never met THAT Lucky. But I'm sure he behaves well at cocktail and dinner parties too, like my four-legged friend. Having been to Palm Springs several times eons ago, I can remember two legged animals that were not as well behaved in such social situations. But no-one, I would guess, who is a menber of this board.

I've never put Lucky in a kennel too. When I was working and had a dog, she often would spend up to two weeks in kennels while I was overseas on business trips. Probably about a 50 times over 8 years. I regretted it but had no other option at the time. The only time Lucky has been away was when I was in the hospital for two operations and each time he stayed with my brother who has a dog as well. I don't travel overseas anymore since getting Lucky and with a cottage to go to, we can get a change of scene and still be together.

Thank you all for your warm responses to my little story. As I write this the two dogs are lying at my feet, having had another full day of exercise and games. I take them everywhere in the car with me on my little errands. Living in a small town, a lot of people know you by your dogs, even if they don't know your name. They know the dogs' names. Lucky has been with me long enough and is so well behaved that I can take him everywhere, even to cocktail and dinner parties. The new dog, Storm, needs to get trained so that he will act well in these social situations as well. The next few months I will be seeing that he gets this training. He is off to a good start.

I have to thank Steven Draker for getting the picture up as I am hopeless with such things.