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Maybe whoever finds Spider will finish off the glass while waiting for the paramedics.

When my grandmother went to live with my aunt, my aunt became rather zealous about monitoring my grandmother's eating habits, like allowing her ice cream (her fave food) only rarely, severely limiting salt intake, etc. An in-law who was a doctor advised my aunt to let my grandmother to enjoy life a bit, that a little more ice cream & salt wasn't going to hurt, and at least she would enjoy life more, but my aunt would have none of it.
 
In her mid 80s my grandmother moved back to the Philippines because she needed more care than my aunt could provide. Grandma now lived "on her own," i.e., with a live-in caretaker & a housekeeper/cook but no daughter around to restrict what she ate. Well, she started eating ice cream every single day (yet managed not to gain weight) and ate plenty of salty foods, much to my aunt's chagrin. Grandma lived to 98.

I just returned to this site and had failed to remember that I had previously responded. In addition to what I'd previously written, I like to cite other salient suggestions.
 
1) Read about the place/s prior to your traveling to them. Discover what interests you and record for future reference.
2) Go to www.gaycities.com, and note what interests you and record specifics.
3) Use travel sites, notably Fodors, Formmers, and others.
4) Consult www.tripadvisor.com. Read the information related to your interests that's written in the various forums on this website.
5) Go with an open mind, and if your travel is international in scope- try not to compare what you bring with what you'll be experiencing in another
land. I've NEVER been that "UGLY AMERICAN."
Right now I cannot remember anything else. If additional, useful information arrives in my brain, I shall return and add it here.

Seems like more of a gripe against time wasters in general since most of those who just do endless chat also seem to send pics. If a client approaches me with lots of questions that end up like sex chat...such as “tell me what positions you’ll fuck me in etc” then 99% certain they’ll never book. Most of those guys will send me a dick pic, often as the first thing they send.
I think it’s their way of flirting with an escort, it gets them off if I respond likewise (which I don’t do as I recognise the pattern), and it gives them some kind of proximity to a world they’re anxious about exploring.
I’m careful though not to assume because some clients are self conscious about their body or cock and want the reassurance that they’re fit enough or their cock is big enough to meet a masseur /escort. If that’s the case then fine, send a pic. You’ll get my confirmation that you’re perfect to visit because I don’t make any requirements about what you look like. All I say to then is “Come and have a great time sexy”. We all have hang ups about some feature or other and no one needs a provider reinforcing that...my job is to find the sexiness in them (it’s always there) and help them discover and enjoy it.
Time wasters are part of the job, recognise them early and just say “let me know if you want to book” and then disengage if they keep flirting.

Oh I remember him. He was a fixture for quite a while. The dancers would gravitate to his table near the dance floor. He would pass out paper money like it was napkins.

Oh I remember him. He was a fixture for quite a while. The dancers would gravitate to his table near the dance floor. He would pass out paper money like it was napkins.

Long enough to get my COVID shot. Lol.

You seem to be unaware that in many countries, because of the limited supplies of vaccines, they are being spread out to the most people and second shots are being delayed by up to 4 months. This is how most of Europe is dealing with it and now Canada.
 
The US and Israel are the only western countries giving both shots according to the producers’ guidelines. They have adequate supplies to do this.

You seem to be unaware that in many countries, because of the limited supplies of vaccines, they are being spread out to the most people and second shots are being delayed by up to 4 months. This is how most of Europe is dealing with it and now Canada.
 
The US and Israel are the only western countries giving both shots according to the producers’ guidelines. They have adequate supplies to do this.

Oh I remember him. He was a fixture for quite a while. The dancers would gravitate to his table near the dance floor. He would pass out paper money like it was napkins.

Oh I remember him. He was a fixture for quite a while. The dancers would gravitate to his table near the dance floor. He would pass out paper money like it was napkins.

HaHa.
 
Like many dancers, he sounds like a good salesman.
 
At most strip clubs around the world, one could be super-morbid obese and straight-up repugnant; however, as long as they have the Benjamins it's all good.
 
God bless America!

Socialized medicine invented the Pfizer (BioTech) and the J&J (Jassen) vaccines in Germany but American Pharma corporations bought the patents and refused to let them be produced in Europe (or in poor countries) to keep the supply low and the price high. Patents are being enforced to keep them from being produced for the poorest 75% of the world. Millions of Indians are dying because the vaccines are not allowed to be produced in any of their thousands of vaccine plants....to keep the price high. Capitalism's not coming out of covid looking too good.

You're never too old to go to a strip club anywhere as long as you have money in your pocket to spend. The strippers are happy to give lapdances providing the customer has the cash. I have seen guys in their 80's go in the back with dancers. At Stock, there is a customer that is in a wheelchair and the dancers are happy to go in the back with him. Go for it! I am hoping that the border will have re-opened by autumn....maybe earlier.

His last years seem to have been tragic. Paralyzed from the waist down from a gunshot to the chest In 2015. And dead at 42. Really sad.

At 70, life is growing shorter now every day, so I dont deprove myself of anything I enjoy. Moderation is always the key. If I indulge in something decadent one day, the next day I refrain.... Unless there are some health or physical issues dictating your behavior, just enjoy yourself responsibly.

I’m always intrigued at how society has such a low bar of “moral expectation” for porn performers, when they’re simply doing on-camera, what everyone else is doing behind closed doors.....
 
Ironically, the listing of crimes and arrests for Hollywood actors, and those in “mainstream”
Entertainment, are probably just as long and disturbing (if not longer)..... This doesn’t include all of the scandals that the Hollywood machine erases from public record to maintain the image of the stars that society seems to worship.
 
Porn performers are people. People are complex.

Well Ben, based on the various posting you make here, I am really looking forward to the day I can start hiring again and get to meet you in person.

You’re assuming he had a drug habit. It may have been suicide.

Only one that I know. I met him and his real life lover in Montreal two years ago about this time. His porn and escort name was Jay Dymel and besides escorting he and his mate were doing porn, which had brought them to Montreal from LA. I had dinner with the two of them and then two hours of intense pleasure back at my hotel room. I saw the two of them the next day in the Gay Village having a meal in the same restaurant I was in and I said hi to them on the way out.
 
He died in June in Los Angeles a few months later, I take it from a drug overdose. There was no hint of using drugs when I was with them or suggestion of PNP, which I would have declined. He was such a sweetheart that I broke down and cried when I read the news. I think he was only 23. Such a waste of a life where so much remained to be done.

This subject might have more open minds in the Fetish Forum.
 
Organic sex talk is good, but there's also a huge number of bottom guys who want the feeling of being 'used' and make it clear that nothing is off the table in terms of how filthy the chat gets. Rule number one: It's not personal, it's just the scene.
 
It can be a lot of fun
 
Even though I'm an affable, gentle guy at heart, it's always exciting to ramp up and see that combination of sexual excitement and perhaps even a little fear in a bottom's eyes.

I hired a guy with little conversation based entirely on how he looked. He arrived and immediately said something along the lines of “I’m gunna wreck your hole you sissy faggot slut” and grabbed my neck. I said “that’s not really what I’m into.” He completely changed demeanors and said “ok no sweat, I’m into cbt, do you wanna go nuts on my nuts?” I said let’s start there. We went on to have a very interesting session where the only thing I was certain I did NOT like was being called a sissy faggot slut.

I don’t go into a situation with either a provider or non-provider planning what I’m going to say, telling the other gent what to say. But words similar to the OP’s have been said on occasion. In my experience, it’s just happened organically in the heat of the moment with one of us saying something, and then we’re off to the races! When done, there’s a bit of embarrassment accompanied by some laughs over what’s been said but we both wind up agreeing such talk heightened our enjoyment.

Met him once for the 1st time years back at @Oliver annual Palm Springs bash. Had a nice 1 on 1 chat poolside at Canyon Club or something like that. We didn’t always see eye to eye, and he could be stern...but glad we were able to put our differences aside and remain cordial.
 
So sad lately, many older “vets” of the community have been passing away this year. I find myself reaching out to former regulars not for money, but just to make sure they’re okay. So important to take care of ourselves, and each other -Jerry

First time I have come across this escort. His ad now says he is a top. He is very good looking and if in my neck of the woods, I would be tempted as I am a bottom. But he looks to be pretty vanilla in his offerings which would weigh against him in my book. Still....