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Part of the concern we have about Daddy’s condition is also related in addition to his health the steps that can be taken to try to avoid falling into his situation when one lives alone and has a health crisis. There have been several suggestions that have been very useful in knowing how to prepare oneself. All of life is a learning experience if we are open to discussing things openly and with good intentions.
 
Of course we are deeply concerned about Daddy but there is precious little we can do about it in the current circumstances.

Part of the concern we have about Daddy’s condition is also related in addition to his health the steps that can be taken to try to avoid falling into his situation when one lives alone and has a health crisis. There have been several suggestions that have been very useful in knowing how to prepare oneself. All of life is a learning experience if we are open to discussing things openly and with good intentions.
 
Of course we are deeply concerned about Daddy but there is precious little we can do about it in the current circumstances.

Part of the concern we have about Daddy’s condition is also related in addition to his health the steps that can be taken to try to avoid falling into his situation when one lives alone and has a health crisis. There have been several suggestions that have been very useful in knowing how to prepare oneself. All of life is a learning experience if we are open to discussing things openly and with good intentions.
 
Of course we are deeply concerned about Daddy but there is precious little we can do about it in the current circumstances.

I was there the year earlier with two American friends. We hired guys most evenings, some from the bar that had escorts and some from an agency. We were staying at a luxurious villa in the suburbs. We also had a car and driver, who one of my friends took a shine to. He was a real hunk and was gay for pay. The restaurants were good as well. It was really a dream trip.
 
Today I read an account of how badly the pandemic is going there. Really a tragedy. The country has gone into another lockdown with curfew and internal travel restrictions on March 1st for I think I read one month. They have the highest case loads in Europe and are sending patients to their neighbouring countries. I expect one couldn't go there now even if one wanted to and that is not the case anyway.

I don't see it that way. I would think the DNR relieves the EMRs from having to make the decision since the decision is made before hand by the person who wrote it.
 
I also think that if a DNR is not followed, then if the person is brought back to life but suffers irreparable brain injury, the medics could be held accountable.

Agreed!
 

I usually do this for a potential overnight. But I still don't have the client show their face... I mostly want them to see that I'm a real person. ? I think I'm too trusting? Haha. But after doing this career for some time, I've gotten a LOT better at trusting my gut instinct. Trustworthy clients are easy to spot out now ?

I will probably go against the forum consensus, but I find reasonable for escorts to ask for a photo. At the same time I understand clients concerns. What I do, is send a first message with my WhatsApp that has my face photo. And I always have a quick video call before we meet.

I never ask for pics from clients and prefer not to receive them although sometimes they’ll send a dick pic or body pic when booking. Often it comes from guys who are anxious about their cock size or their body, as in “am I hot enough to book?”.
 
I’m professional, all I need to know is that they’re over age 21 and they’ve no health conditions that are contraindications for massage. I treat everyone the same regardless of their body shape or physical attributes. For me sometimes the main challenge in performing isn’t what they look like it’s how my client behaves. Behave like a dick and you’re not going to get much dick if you know what I mean. Behave with respect and we’re definitely going to have a good time.
 
I do think that if you’re in the business of escorting or erotic massage then you’re expected to be able to see all clients and give them all a great service. When you start vetting clients for attractiveness then you’re not really escorting you’re just getting paid to satisfy your own sexual appetite. It’s different and the client will be able to tell if he’s a 10 or a 7 when you draw the line at 5 if you know what I mean.

Okay, that made me lol.

The world lost a wonderful man and a kind soul. Folks may remember him from his days at The Gaiety - I remember him as a friend.http://magounbiggins.tributes.com/obituary/show/Scott-M.-Donnelly-108508002

He was a wonderful man. Mesmerizing. So much charisma. I remember him, in more ways than one, from the Gaiety days.
 
May you rest in peace, Scott.
 
I will always remember you.

My sister, who is younger than me and was a professor of nursing at a large university for 32 years, has my power of attorney and Living Will, as we call them here in Canada. The latter contains instructions as to what to do in the event I am incapacitated. I also have her contact info in my wallet, which I either carry with me when outside or have in the kitchen in plain sight. I live alone.
 
My late father had an experience 20 years ago when his wife, my step-mother, went into cardiac arrest at their condo. Both she and my father had DNR's in an envelope, taped to their fridge door in the kitchen. When the medics came within 5 minutes to their apartment, they started immediately to try to resuscitate her. My father sent one of them into the kitchen to retrieve the envelope. He came back and told his team members to stop what they were doing and they let her die.
 
The only reason they had done the DNR on the fridge was on account of her daughter, who was a physician and had advised them 6 months earlier. As a result, my step-mother's wishes were carried out.

My sister, who is younger than me and was a professor of nursing at a large university for 32 years, has my power of attorney and Living Will, as we call them here in Canada. The latter contains instructions as to what to do in the event I am incapacitated. I also have her contact info in my wallet, which I either carry with me when outside or have in the kitchen in plain sight. I live alone.
 
My late father had an experience 20 years ago when his wife, my step-mother, went into cardiac arrest at their condo. Both she and my father had DNR's in an envelope, taped to their fridge door in the kitchen. When the medics came within 5 minutes to their apartment, they started immediately to try to resuscitate her. My father sent one of them into the kitchen to retrieve the envelope. He came back and told his team members to stop what they were doing and they let her die.
 
The only reason they had done the DNR on the fridge was on account of her daughter, who was a physician and had advised them 6 months earlier. As a result, my step-mother's wishes were carried out.

I don't quite recall the year I started reading this forum - it was during the Hoo Boy (?) years. I am grateful that this site exists and I am grateful to the people who keep it running. It has been a never ending lead to fun times, to experiences I would not have had otherwise and to disappointments avoided. I wish the 'daddy' person a quick recovery.

Latest update: Called the hospital on Sunday, 3/7. Daddy is still in ICU. His most recent covid test came back negative. One more test is required to confirm. He remains sedated and on a ventilator. An attempt to wean him off the ventilator and wake him up was unsuccessful. I’ll keep you posted if anything changes.
 
I’ve heard from so many members expressing a concern for daddy and thanking me for helping out. Your kind & thoughtful words are most appreciated. Please keep daddy in your thoughts and prayers.
 
Cooper

I was hoping that would happen. I wonder what happened next?

Except I understand that Haulover Beach in North Miami still has a gay clothing optional beach. No such beach in Ftl.

One shouldn't confuse the cost of jewelry with its value, particularly if it belonged to a personage of world wide fame. I had a friend who was with a private bank in Geneva in 1987, when the first auction of the Duchess of Windsor's jewelry was being held. He went there to bid on behalf of the bank's clients, the Banque Privee de Geneve, owned by a Rothschild.
 
He was a young and relatively inexperienced banker and came away astounded by the bids that were being made, as they invariably went over by substantial amounts of the pre-bid estimates. The same happened when Jackie Onassis's possessions were put up for auction a decade or so later. In the latter case, a lot of the stuff was "junk" but considered "magic" as Jackie had owned it.
 
Also Edward VIII got a lot of jewelry for Wallis while he was Prince of Wales and for the short time he was king. Some of it was from the Royal family. There are stories that when Edward was still Prince of Wales and started dating Mrs. Simpson, her husband being conveniently absent in New York City where he had a business, she showed up with stunning diamond jewelry and other gems. She certainly made an impression at receptions and dinner parties, whose guests knew she had no private fortune of her own. During this period he had access to the Royal vaults, which was not the case after 1936. One of the top priced items was a diamond and ruby necklace he gave her while he was king for her 40th birthday, which went for $2.4 million, which today would be over $5 million.
 
Admittedly, the baubles Edward bought after the marriage at Cartier did not come cheap but many cost only in the range of 10's of thousands of dollars, which 40 years later commanded prices at auction in the hundreds and even millions of dollars for the best of individual pieces. During the 1940's and 50's, $10,000 would buy a nice house in America in most cities.
 
If you follow these things, as I sometimes do, the Royal family often sells casts offs from their family at auction, such as a decade or so ago when a lot of Princess Margaret's things went up for sale. The prices fetched were fabulous as Meg had the requisite glamour. More recently, stuff from Queen Mary was auctioned off, as a friend of mine bought a large piece of furniture from her estate. She paid 4 or 5 times the actual value of the antique and it came with an impressive parchment certificate from Sotheby's proving its provenance.
 
You are right though that Edward was no cheapskate when it came to buying gifts for his wife "the woman I love", for whom he gave up the throne.

There's an offer that's hard to refuse.

One shouldn't confuse the cost of jewelry with its value, particularly if it belonged to a personage of world wide fame. I had a friend who was with a private bank in Geneva in 1987, when the first auction of the Duchess of Windsor's jewelry was being held. He went there to bid on behalf of the bank's clients, the Banque Privee de Geneve, owned by a Rothschild.
 
He was a young and relatively inexperienced banker and came away astounded by the bids that were being made, as they invariably went over by substantial amounts of the pre-bid estimates. The same happened when Jackie Onassis's possessions were put up for auction a decade or so later. In the latter case, a lot of the stuff was "junk" but considered "magic" as Jackie had owned it.
 
Also Edward VIII got a lot of jewelry for Wallis while he was Prince of Wales and for the short time he was king. Some of it was from the Royal family. There are stories that when Edward was still Prince of Wales and started dating Mrs. Simpson, her husband being conveniently absent in New York City where he had a business, she showed up with stunning diamond jewelry and other gems. She certainly made an impression at receptions and dinner parties, whose guests knew she had no private fortune of her own. During this period he had access to the Royal vaults, which was not the case after 1936. One of the top priced items was a diamond and ruby necklace he gave her while he was king for her 40th birthday, which went for $2.4 million, which today would be over $5 million.
 
Admittedly, the baubles Edward bought after the marriage at Cartier did not come cheap but many cost only in the range of 10's of thousands of dollars, which 40 years later commanded prices at auction in the hundreds and even millions of dollars for the best of individual pieces. During the 1940's and 50's, $10,000 would buy a nice house in America in most cities.
 
If you follow these things, as I sometimes do, the Royal family often sells casts offs from their family at auction, such as a decade or so ago when a lot of Princess Margaret's things went up for sale. The prices fetched were fabulous as Meg had the requisite glamour. More recently, stuff from Queen Mary was auctioned off, as a friend of mine bought a large piece of furniture from her estate. She paid 4 or 5 times the actual value of the antique and it came with an impressive parchment certificate from Sotheby's proving its provenance.
 
You are right though that Edward was no cheapskate when it came to buying gifts for his wife "the woman I love", for whom he gave up the throne.

I mentioned The book Thomas Woodrow Wilson because you have never met or talked to Prince Harry. I made a point of saying Sigmund Frieud's book was not well received. Still you carried on.

My understanding of the events that night was that they were leaving the Ritz Hotel, which was owned by Jodi Fayed's father, to go to the house Jodi had just bought in Paris, that had once been the home of the Duke and Duchess of Windsor in the Bois du Boulogne.
 
I believe the driver was not Princess Diana's but Jodi's driver or he might have been an employee of the Ritz. He had been waiting a considerable time while the couple were having dinner at the hotel. During this time he had been drinking to pass the time, I suppose. Not at all professional, I admit.
 
I don't think Diana was very familiar with him, as she would have been with her own driver. She did have the British body guard with her, though, the only one who survived (I assume he was hers but not sure of that). He should have paid more attention to the state of the driver, but I don't recall whether he was ever held blameworthy (he suffered immense head injuries and probably didn't remember much of the events just prior to the crash).
 
I personally think Diana was the victim of circumstances beyond her control.

My understanding of the events that night was that they were leaving the Ritz Hotel, which was owned by Jodi Fayed's father, to go to the house Jodi had just bought in Paris, that had once been the home of the Duke and Duchess of Windsor in the Bois du Boulogne.
 
I believe the driver was not Princess Diana's but Jodi's driver or he might have been an employee of the Ritz. He had been waiting a considerable time while the couple were having dinner at the hotel. During this time he had been drinking to pass the time, I suppose. Not at all professional, I admit.
 
I don't think Diana was very familiar with him, as she would have been with her own driver. She did have the British body guard with her, though, the only one who survived (I assume he was hers but not sure of that). He should have paid more attention to the state of the driver, but I don't recall whether he was ever held blameworthy (he suffered immense head injuries and probably didn't remember much of the events just prior to the crash).
 
I personally think Diana was the victim of circumstances beyond her control.

My understanding of the events that night was that they were leaving the Ritz Hotel, which was owned by Jodi Fayed's father, to go to the house Jodi had just bought in Paris, that had once been the home of the Duke and Duchess of Windsor in the Bois du Boulogne.
 
I believe the driver was not Princess Diana's but Jodi's driver or he might have been an employee of the Ritz. He had been waiting a considerable time while the couple were having dinner at the hotel. During this time he had been drinking to pass the time, I suppose. Not at all professional, I admit.
 
I don't think Diana was very familiar with him, as she would have been with her own driver. She did have the British body guard with her, though, the only one who survived (I assume he was hers but not sure of that). He should have paid more attention to the state of the driver, but I don't recall whether he was ever held blameworthy (he suffered immense head injuries and probably didn't remember much of the events just prior to the crash).
 
I personally think Diana was the victim of circumstances beyond her control.

A frat bro in college demonstrated this - he took a large ripe banana and rolled it around on a hard surface for a bit, and cut off one end and gently squeezed out the fruit. Then he inserted his cock inside and jerked off. Supposedly this isn’t all that unusual, but it was new to me.