Luv2play

There was a time in my small city where we had 5 gay bars, a bathhouse, and 2 lesbian bars. I like to think of it as the golden era because that time is over and will never come back. The last 2 gay watering holes in town aren’t worth going to. One has decided to cater to the straight crowd, the other requires a membership for hole in the wall. We’ve become mainstream...in a way....however we still have a ways to go. Our culture is okay to appropriate but the actual lifestyle is acquired taste.

I’m among the (more than a) few of us who expected that WE would be gone before the bars...
 
If you take current standards of connection and translate it into the old cruise bar format, you’d have to pay a membership fee, check your pants at the door, walk around the pool table with your bits to the wind and have an LED to clip on to your beer bottle for fill light. At least lying about your age and your job hasn’t changed! (And back then NOBODY lived in his mother’s basement...)

Facts!!!
 
And this definitely falls under the category of “be careful what you ask for”.
 
We wanted the rights of straights, but I’m sure many are thinking twice of wanting their way of life.... lol...
 
The underground, gay clubs of the past were tons of fun, and the fact that my only current form of social American entertainment (prior to COVID-19) is a good brunch, makes me laugh and frown at the same time.
 
As cities “Improve”, they lose their sleaze, but they also lose that grit and authenticity that made urban nightlife so much fun (both straight and gay nightclubs)
 
I’m glad I partied when I did... I never thought it would actually come to a literal END. ?

I reached out to him about a year ago about this time, but he was in New York and seemed to be leaving the country again. I remember finding his Instagram account, and saw that he travelled extensively around the world in first to business class with another guy who may or may not still escort. He does look exactly like his pictures, and has one of the most perfect bodies in my opinion. I reached out to him again a couple weeks ago, but his rates are $500 and hour, or $2,000 for an overnight. Those prices are ridiculous in my opinion, especially with someone with only one review on Rentmen. I've heard he is just fantastic in bed, but to me, once I blow my load, I think to myself, "I just paid HOW MUCH for that??", especially when I could have had the same excitement for half that price. Maybe he comes to the U.S. a few months around this time out of the year, finds a few decent sugar daddies, and then uses the money to travel the world first class. Although my small head wants to try him still, my big head usually tells it, "Are you crazy??"

I once had an escort invite me to dinner after our encounter. We went to a nice, upscale place. I fully expected to pay, but was surprised when he insisted that he pay! It was a huge chunk of what I had just paid him for his services.

When I do shorter sessions, such as 1 or 2 hours, I will often offer the escort a lunch or dinner tacked on at the end, if the timing is appropriate. That is if the session starts at 11am or 6pm, for instance, I state up front what I am willing to pay for his time overall, including the dining option. As an example if the escort charges $300 an hour for his time, for 2 hours the rate would be $600, then I would offer $750 for 3 hours including the meal and any drinks, on me of course. They usually accept, I think because they need to eat around then anyway, and it gives them the opportunity to recharge their batteries, so to speak, if they wish to have another session later the same day.

You should tell us who this one is so that we can all run to him.

With me, lunch is the interview to determine as to whether or not I will make the "hire"; I do give the escort the choice of his restaurant, he can order that which is his pleasure, and, of course, the "tab" is mine. I do not, however, pay for "time". I may be old and pitiful, but I ain't desperate for company at table. . .yet.

A year ago, I was out of town on business in a location where one of my “to-do some time” bucket list guys lived. He had terrific reviews, but is expensive at least in my world. I wanted to be sure he really was “that good” so I asked him to dinner first. He said he preferred lunch and it would be $100. We met, had lunch (my treat, of course) and he was more than I could have imagined. I slipped him the hundred which he kindly accepted. So we scheduled a date for the following night. I bled the ATM prior, and it was an outstanding session as I had hoped. When I offered his compensation (in hundreds, mind you) he handed me back $100 of it along with a butt pinch and one last kiss. In a word: class.

I know my trusted regulars’ names and they know mine. With newbies, if I am in a hotel, I just give them my room number and tell them to ask the front desk to call up and I will go down to the lobby. If I have the time, I will sit in the lobby at the appointed hour and greet them since I have their face pic. I don’t hire without a face pic usually although sometimes the pic is rather obscure and the odd time I have reAlice’s on the first meeting why that was the case!

Well, shit happens.

That bad part for me is not particularly the look but having to buy different sizes. But I learned my lesson in previous years and have some of the old sizes. I will put them, go to the gym, and aim for being able to get back to the old sizes.

Very good. I was so sure I was using the right one at the time. I compliment you for complementing my posting.

Rereading my reply, I was a little harsh. I should have been nicer.
 
It's becoming all-too-clear I haven't had my second cup of coffee today.

I grew up in Manhattan and I would agree that although there are venues in NYC that require more formal dress, casual is usually not an issue. I always loved the fact you could walk into a high end store on 5th avenue and usually they don't care how your are dressed. Sometimes the person that's dressed casually is the one that's going to pull out the centurion card and drop $100k. Very different than other places in other states I won't name where I have not had the best experiences...

I had a condo in Montreal for 13 years two decades ago and rarely used the ads for escorts although I did for masseurs. Often hired dancers from Campus or Stock and then some of these became regulars. Living in the Village, sex was all around then. Now as a visitor, I rely on RM ads for dates when I am in town.

Haha, yes indeed. Taking a dancer to the private booths involved a lot of saliva being slobbered on hot dicks. I first learned of the Gaiety gigs the French boys had when they told me about it. I was curious so dropped in on the Gaiety several times on visits during that time. While the dancers were hot and the shows were good (I even took my sister once so she could see what it was all about), the action between dancers and clients wasn’t as good as in Montreal in my experience. Although I imagine native New Yorkers probably did better.

Excellent question! Bottom here. I get random erections during sex and I don't always cum. When I'm erect it's easier for me to cum but it doesn't bother me if I don't cum at all. I'd rather feel and see my partner getting off.

If he can get clients to pay 500, more power to him. Two 500 dollar clents are equal five 200 dollar clients and much less time and work. It's his choice how he wants to structure his business.
I would never negotiate the rate of a basic hour-long first meeting. If the escort asks too much, I move on. I don't want to be thought of as a low-rent client!
I would negotiate the price of a longer meeting with an escort I already knew. There I have the escort's hour-rate as a benchmark.

First, if kissing and oral is your thing, why do you think that should cost less than other stuff like anal? Second, should the escort charge less than his regular rate because you choose to spend your time with him doing 2 things for 30 minutes each, rather than 4 things for 15 minutes each, or doing those things in combination? Clients often complain about up-selling or ala carte pricing. Aren't you asking for that because you choose to do fewer things than are being offerred? There's really no such thing as a fair price for a unique service, other than what a purchaser is willing to pay and a provider is willing to accept.

If you are in a neighbouring province to Quebec and Ontario, you either live in Manitoba or New Brunswick. Several weeks ago New Brunswick had succeeded in reducing their new cases to zero and then a health care worker from there visited Quebec and brought back the virus to New Brunswick, which resulted in a fresh outbreak of the virus.
Manitoba as far as I know has no restrictions on interprovincial travel, as the Maritime provinces have, but then Manitoba is a long way away and requires air travel to reach Toronto or Montreal unless you are talking about a lengthy trip of several days by car. In any case by engaging in interprovincial travel, you are going from a low risk area to a higher risk area. And then going back to your home, not knowing until you get there what you might be carrying. Most Canadians are refraining from interprovincial travel, whether there are restrictions in place or not. I know I am.

It might have Ben the same fee. You,ll never know if you don’t ask.

I might be able to help if you’re in SoCal. ?
 
Actually, I have helped a few guys in that area.
 
Try getting a partner to practice with a few times. Lay on your back in bed with your head slightly over the side. Have your partner slowly enter your mouth while he gently massages the sides of your jaw. It’s about relaxing and not worrying you will choke or run out of air. And you need to accept him psychologically so it feels natural to open your throat.
 
Then explore different positions and angles. You can also approach this different ways mentally. For some it’s submissive to deep throat and for others it’s a way of taking charge. For me it’s more about connection. Practice is key.

Hello Guys, escort here since 2008, surprisingly i just found out about this forum thru one of my clients, i have been reading and it seems to be a great place to converse and have a good time.
 
Dicks come in different shapes and sizes, i am about 8 inches thick and have a light curvature to the left, to me the most difficult cocks to DP are the straight ones, on the other hand cocks with curvatures are the easiest to DP. First it is very important to suck it for a little while and lubricate with your saliva the whole thing, once your have started, you have to go deeper little by little, and always position yourself in a way where the cock will fit your throat naturally, at this point you are the one who makes it happen, the top will sit or stand, but you the one DP have to do the most work.

Isnt it interesting that you only hear of guys being "bi" and in a relationship with a woman? I believe men can be bi-sexed..... having sex with both men and woman but RARELY is a guy bi-sexual... having innate feelings and emotional desires towards both men and women. The hind brain craves only one sex outside of the actual act and for 99% of bi-SEXED men it is a female they crave their "ality" to be with. I'd really call them bi-sexed heterosexuals. The rentmen pages are loaded with them! But.... if you take the $$ factor out of the equation, do they have sex with another male ever for free? If the answer is "no" then these rentmen are really just sexually functioning heterosexuals with a $ motivation. Ok by me if they do as I ask!