Luv2play

I have only shared this with gay friends who also hire. It is sort of like a fraternity, where we don;t judge each other, except perhaps for the choices we make. Of course some of my friends are tops so we don’t use the same criteria anyway. And beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. One time I took a trip to New York with a friend who was also a bottom, and we arranged dates before we left Montreal. He told me before leaving he had made a date with an escort I had my eyes on also on Rentboy but he beat me to the punch. I ended up with choosing another guy, who became someone I so liked that we had numerous dates over the next 3 years, both in NYC and Miami. A case of noblesse oblige, I suppose, which turned out really well.

I was a virgin at 22 and went on a straight cruise with a gay friend hoping for a love connection. It didn’t happen between us that trip (or ever). However, he did convince me that a slot machine attendant had been eyeing me all week, which I thought was some cruel joke. I didn’t believe it but I struck up a conversation with the attendant anyway.
 
Hours later he had me face down on my bed massaging my body. He said “I’m going to teach you something that you’ll share with every lover for the rest of your life.” And he did. And I have.
 
14 years have passed and I’ve used that trick on over 100 men.

You seem to make the assumption that people using pics in their avatar are actually them just because you decided to use your real pic. Just because you do it, don’t think others will. There is also people on the web who claim they are the people in the picture and are not. There is no way to verify unless you meet them. This has been a particular issue discussed multiple times on the forum about hiring providers.
 
Some use pics or illustrations because they just like the pic and it may or may not be representational of themselves. I’m assuming a lot of people won’t use face pics of themselves because they want to maintain anonymity... either out of fear of being discovered by friends, family, or a colleague. Others just because they just don’t want to. I do realize some forum members use their actual body parts (other than their face) and a lot of the escorts, who use this forum as more than a way to express themselves, show their faces or at least their bodies.
 
Besides this forum, I’m not on social media. There aren’t many pics of me online that I know of. As much as I like posting here, if I were to put my pic out on the web purposely, the forum would be the last place I’d post it.

If you're paying him what he asked for you're not underpaying him! Don't off-set the market guys!
Americans also tend to do this when traveling abroad in everything from escorts to AirBnB's and it pisses off the locals a whole bunch! This foments a two-tier pay rate! One for US and one for them for the exact same services! All things are relative to the local and present day economy, not what you can personally afford . I remember HooBoy (may he RIP) used to travel a lot and made this very point when Americans started following him to Brazil!

Saw him last summer. He has aged but his dick is still huge and thick and hard and he aims to please. He fucked the shit out of me if I remember correctly. He is a bit more hairy than I expected (like on his back) but otherwise a big turnon for me. I saw him outcall when he visited outside of NYC so can’t say what an incall visit would be like.

He started out in Chicago YEARS ago as a dancer at the now defunct Madrigal's. He was REALLY hot and handsome back then and knew it. In those days, you and the "dancer" would agree on a set amount and the owner of the club would let you use his apartment upstairs for a certain amount of time. I never did that as probably was too cheap and scared at the time (f*ck my younger self!). Theo was quite the self promoter regarding that.
 
Now this guy "GQ" back then, shit, I shoulda. . .

I have only shared this with gay friends who also hire. It is sort of like a fraternity, where we don;t judge each other, except perhaps for the choices we make. Of course some of my friends are tops so we don’t use the same criteria anyway. And beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. One time I took a trip to New York with a friend who was also a bottom, and we arranged dates before we left Montreal. He told me before leaving he had made a date with an escort I had my eyes on also on Rentboy but he beat me to the punch. I ended up with choosing another guy, who became someone I so liked that we had numerous dates over the next 3 years, both in NYC and Miami. A case of noblesse oblige, I suppose, which turned out really well.

I have tended to shy away from hiring guys with heavy tattoos, the kind that would show even when in street clothes. It would inhibit my taking them to fancy hotels or restaurants (not that that is in prospect any time soon), Since I have a pretty conventional appearance for an older gentleman, a husky tattooed companion by my side would make me pretty uncomfortable. I‘m not the type who wants people staring at me. I certainly don’t have the makings of a celebrity who adores the limelight.

But hold the mustard. I hear it causes bum rash!

I could even supply my own buns. 2 of em?

I thought the hotdog pic was very witty. Who could resist a hot cock served up on a bun!?

I could even supply my own buns. 2 of em?

I thought the hotdog pic was very witty. Who could resist a hot cock served up on a bun!?

I found it kinda funny? Idk I like a little bit of creativity.

I have only shared this with gay friends who also hire. It is sort of like a fraternity, where we don;t judge each other, except perhaps for the choices we make. Of course some of my friends are tops so we don’t use the same criteria anyway. And beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. One time I took a trip to New York with a friend who was also a bottom, and we arranged dates before we left Montreal. He told me before leaving he had made a date with an escort I had my eyes on also on Rentboy but he beat me to the punch. I ended up with choosing another guy, who became someone I so liked that we had numerous dates over the next 3 years, both in NYC and Miami. A case of noblesse oblige, I suppose, which turned out really well.

When pressed, and after a wee drinkie, I may have mentioned ...something... about the occasional engagement of a private therapeutic bodywork provider. My words of praise were more clinical than I might use in proper reviews and private thoughts...and basta. I, for one, must save something for a scandalous memoir

Chace really has a stunningly beautiful body. His butt is perfect. And a nice voice. Real bf material.

I have a few, loved them. If the two are a couple, I have found they are more likely to be playful with me and each other, making it a quick road to a threesome. I have had one where the lead was highly dominated over the second making it uncomfortable for both of us. It isn’t a training session.
 
Try being blindfolded, a suggestion from one 4 hand couple. It made it more erotic, didn’t know where the hands, body and/or parts were. It was a totally “hard” 90 minutes, for all of us. Didn’t know who was cumming or going, lol

This x 100. I have a steady regular provider and nothing gets me off more than getting him off. I may be the client, but there’s no reason our sessions can’t be mutually pleasurable.

Say what now? Like how to create chemistry? Feel free to PM me, but overall I find there is one huge factor in getting 'sexual chemistry' - getting to know one another - physically and mentally.
 
I only tend to hire providers who, once we get through the basics and 'administrative' discussions, spend 10-30 text exchanges discussing what I like about sex. I also get more into a provider that can share openly 'what gets him off' because for me, as a sub bottom, pleasing a top gets me off mentally as well as physically. (Side note - I LOVE talking about sex, but find many providers don't, maybe because they think of it as a 'time waster'; totally valid point, but you may be losing out on a long term regular client.)
 
As a recent example, when getting fucked doggie or on my stomach, I've noticed a.... feeling.... that if I can zero in on, I may be able to shoot a load without touching myself..... A regular fuck bud and I have started exploring that. Its all about communication and setting up expectations.... If I get that feeling, I want to pursue it with focus, even it means the fucking only lasts 10 minutes.....but we also edge for 30 minutes before we start fucking. Again, we communicated.
 
Chemistry is not a mystery. Like any science, it just takes study, but that means investing time, and possibly money to pursue your desired areas of study!

I think overnights or extended meetings are very dependent on chemistry, communication, and how much each person can handle or not handle particular situations.
 
I don’t need a lot of sleep to function normally, but most people do. So I know there is a limitation there with most providers. I think there are only 2 guys who were willing to forego their regular sleeping time for sex. One I met, the other I didn’t. The one I met was relatively early on in my hiring career so I wasn’t sure what to expect, but he said flat out he was perfectly willing to stay in the hotel all weekend and have as much sex as I wanted. We did have a lot of sex but we did other things outside the bedroom. We live on the opposite ends of the country and he hates flying and the pandemic worsened the matter. So one day I plan to take him up on that offer of a sex marathon. I don’t know if I could keep up with him as I did when first meet, but I’m going to definitely try. Lol!
 
The other man I didn’t meet, but as we talked about expectations, literally told me he wouldn’t let me sleep. That he’d play with my dick all night. I don’t know if that was all hyperbole, but I was game. There were scheduling issues. So the meeting never took place. He isn’t currently advertising but we’ve been in touch and he still wants to meet.
 
If there is a lot of deep passionate kissing and my partner is responsive to whatever I do to him, I can go at it back to back. I have a quick recovery time and sometimes I will even stay aroused after orgasm. Although my stamina isn’t what used to be. I need a break sometimes. ? The guy I see the most needs at least 6 hours of sleep 8 preferably. He’ll sometimes sleep less if the mood takes him. However, he says he can’t take my dick but x number of times, as I leave him sore. The most we’ve had sex was 4 times during an overnight. We average 3 times... when we first meet, sometime after dinner or whatever (we’re doing outside of sex) before bed and once in the morning. Morning sex is his favorite and he loves that I wake him up with a dick in his butt. Lol!
 
Overnights are not not always about sleeping with the provider, depending on the provider. For some having access to a sex partner for 12 hours or more is what they want. Yet for some others, just having someone to (temporarily) cuddle up next to while you sleep plays a big role in the whole event.

One of my best....unusual for me but I arranged an overnite at his place for our first meeting —
good looking, 33 / 34 yrs old, blonde hair, 6’3” / 210 / hairy bod / top....”retired” semi-pro baseball player....
I drove down from San Francisco to his place in San Luis Obispo....
I probably arrived around 3pm....we briefly chat & then pretty soon get it on in bed....
probably around 6pm, we showered & went out for some dinner....
back at his place about 90 minutes later.....
we probably chatted for a short while before heading back into the bedroom....
once we were naked again & mostly settled in for whatever the nite was going to be about,
he‘s the guy who tells me that he is there to be “used & abused”.....
including the morning play before I hit the road, he topped me 5 times....
& we each shot our loads each time....
a long time ago.....a ridiculously low “donation” that he requested.

Hahaha

I contacted him a year ago or so. After discussing various things in several texts, it became clear to me that hard chems were high on the list of sex assists in any encounter. I passed.

Only did that in my youth. Free sex then:)