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It just came to me. Sir John Guilgud.

It’s called ‘reductio ad absurdem’.

It’s called ‘reductio ad absurdem’.

It just came to me. Sir John Guilgud.

While I would not want to exploit a straight man who is “down on his luck” by paying him for sexual services, I have always been turned on by the situation which used to prevail in London decades ago when members of the guard protecting the royal family outside the gates of Buck House or other military types made themselves available for sexual favours to gay men who would meet them at pubs in the surrounding areas of London. These types of transactions were seen as mutually beneficial where the providers were lowly paid civil servants, so to speak.
 
This practice went back to when homosexuality was illegal in Britain but tolerated by society as long as you were not caught. If you read about the era, there was a lot of hanky-panky which was relatively safe for the people involved. What was more dangerous was to be a public figure caught “in flagrant” in a public washroom where no money was exchanged. I forget his name but a famous British actor was caught and it delayed his receiving a knighthood by years. Gasp.

Absolutely. I love connecting with all different types of people. The sex is outstanding, the friendships are wonderful, and there’s an emotional fulfillment I have not found in other occupations. I’m doing much more these days with only fans than I am with escorting, but porn is acting. Escorting feels more authentic to me and more enjoyable.

It just came to me. Sir John Guilgud.

It just came to me. Sir John Guilgud.

While I would not want to exploit a straight man who is “down on his luck” by paying him for sexual services, I have always been turned on by the situation which used to prevail in London decades ago when members of the guard protecting the royal family outside the gates of Buck House or other military types made themselves available for sexual favours to gay men who would meet them at pubs in the surrounding areas of London. These types of transactions were seen as mutually beneficial where the providers were lowly paid civil servants, so to speak.
 
This practice went back to when homosexuality was illegal in Britain but tolerated by society as long as you were not caught. If you read about the era, there was a lot of hanky-panky which was relatively safe for the people involved. What was more dangerous was to be a public figure caught “in flagrant” in a public washroom where no money was exchanged. I forget his name but a famous British actor was caught and it delayed his receiving a knighthood by years. Gasp.

Hot and friendly go a long way. Even if the interaction is somewhat limited.

Is making an offer that helps them out financially considered coercing? I have helped many straight guys out and they return on their own so it must be ok with them. I've even had one baby momma call me asking if her baby daddy can come back over because he needs to pay the rent.
 
I see no problem with these arrangements. They are free to say no, I'm not threatening to beat them up if they don't comply.

Even if he took those pics this morning...he's not 32

Hot and friendly go a long way. Even if the interaction is somewhat limited.

I send out about 150. I love the holiday, and this is a chance to have a bit of contact with people. I rarely do Facebook or the like.
 
There is something special about getting actual physical mail from a person

Hot and friendly go a long way. Even if the interaction is somewhat limited.

Yes, I continue the tradition and send cards every year. I sent Crane cards this year, with a personalized message in each. In this electronic age, I think it is a gracious act and one I plan on continuing.

I met him a year ago and he told me then that escorting was not part of his five-year, short-term plans. He's definitely straight and attached to some lucky woman who he talked about quite a bit while we were together. I didn't mind though. He was incredibly hot and friendly, and he did let me worship his body and cock. I would repeat, for sure, and since I do have his number saved still, maybe someday I will..

Just to one-up you, a couple of weeeks ago I got a refund check for $50 on my house insurance from Allstate, which also insures my cars. On those they have been issuing me rebates since mid-summer each couple of months, since we are all driving less. And I didn’t even ask them for these rebates.
 
Of course the cynical part of me noted that the house insurance rebate was mailed out just a couple of weeks before my policy was set for renewal.

Just to one-up you, a couple of weeeks ago I got a refund check for $50 on my house insurance from Allstate, which also insures my cars. On those they have been issuing me rebates since mid-summer each couple of months, since we are all driving less. And I didn’t even ask them for these rebates.
 
Of course the cynical part of me noted that the house insurance rebate was mailed out just a couple of weeks before my policy was set for renewal.

Whenever I think I might be falling in love with an escort, it’s my healthy sense of personal worth that reminds me I can’t afford it. Lol

If negative and on PrEP, how's that?
 
And if those with HIV are on meds, even better. They medically cannot pass the virus... Period.
 
People need to educate themselves before making antiquated proclamations.

Everyone needs to be aware, PrEP is not for the protection of anyone except the person taking it. I take it every single day. There is no way to even know if someone takes it regularly. I wouldn't depend on the word of a 20 year old who says they are on it and takes it every day. We are all in charge of our own bodies.

No. I'm on PrEP. Also, if they knew, they were on meds and undetectable. That, along with PrEP that I know I take regularly, is good enough for me. I had to use condoms thru the 80s and 90s and beyond. I want to go bare with PrEP. However, it's discussed before I hook up and has to be ok with them as well.
 
The "problem" that I also educate younger dudes on is the person who recently got infected and doesn't know it. His viral load can be quite high in the early stages and very contagious.

I’m an escort who gets checked like clockwork, I assure you, I don’t need the education. lol. I just think it’s interesting how comments are made, similar to that of @studchaser insinuating having unprotected sex with a sex worker is “Looney Toons” (I assume he means high risk). Having sex with ANYONE is high risk. If anything, the sex workers, at least in the cities I work in are the ones prioritizing their health, getting tested regularly, are aware of their statuses, etc. Cities are even adapting programs specifically for escorts to ensure they are squared away in these areas.
 
It is the irresponsible client who is not taking responsibility for his own health. An escort takes more risk sleeping with a client who is not tested regularly than a client does sleeping with an escort who is. I detest that this always fall on the escort. When the situation is usually a client asking us “are you on PrEP,” not because he is also, but because he wants safety in verbalization, only. It is irresponsible, as are statements placing the blame on us, while refusing to take accountability for one’s own high risk decisions. And it happens all the time.
 
“But I have a wife.” (Women carry STI’s also, and what it your wife is doing what you’re doing?)
“My other provider was tested recently.” (But were you?)
“Had sex recently but we didn’t finish.”
“I don’t do this often, we’re good.”
“Are you clean?” (Clean should never be used in a sexual context, it insinuates that persons living with HIV are dirty)
Etc., etc.
 
The most blatant ignorance I face on a day-to-day basis comes from the mouth of clients, not other escorts.

Don’t know if this has been cited yet but a funny remark by Tallula Bankhead:
 
I’ll see you at 5:30 to make love to you, but if I’m late, start without me.