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I am usually looking for a BFE and so good conversation is a part of the overall experience besides hot sex. In fact I feel a better connection knowing something about the life experiences of the escorts I hire. I have found most are pretty open about themselves as I am pretty open about myself to them. I tend to look for those who have a personality along with the goods.

I am usually looking for a BFE and so good conversation is a part of the overall experience besides hot sex. In fact I feel a better connection knowing something about the life experiences of the escorts I hire. I have found most are pretty open about themselves as I am pretty open about myself to them. I tend to look for those who have a personality along with the goods.

Wouldn’t that be something. But at that time I was living in Ottawa and I do remember that one of the “plain” looking Montreal team members was a billet of mine. Unfortunately, he had just joined the Montreal team to get in shape but had not yet achieved his goal. He was short and about 40 pounds overweight. Montreal had some great looking team members though, which made the meets fun to participate in. One of those hot ones eventually moved to Ottawa and I met him in a cruising park one night, which made up for the previous experience of the team meets.

Reminds me of my gay swim team experiences. When I was in my 40’s I joined a gaymen’s swim team mainly for the exercise but also for the eye candy. Most members were at least 10 years younger than myself. I was in pretty decent shape and not that hard on the eyes but of course at that age 10 or 20 years makes a big difference to someone in theIr 20’s and 30’s. When we hosted out of town teams I would offer a bedroom at my house to billet out of towners. I always drew one of the plainest, and I am being charitable, swimmers to billet. After 3 or 4 times I gave up offering a place (call me shallow if you will). But I resented the fact that the team executives always selected the best lookers for their own billets. That’s when I learned something about self serving organizers.

Another example of Paris living up to its reputation “for lovers”.

I have a similar tale which I dredged up from 1982 YIKES. Anyway, I was in Brussels for business and had only one overnight in a hotel, with two days of meetings. After the first day, I went cruising alone after dinner with my colleagues. I met this wonderful cute guy in a gay club and invited him back to my hotel. It was January and the weather was bitterly cold and snowy. Once back at the hotel we had some great sex and he turned out to be a flight attendant from SF., working on an American airline. We fell asleep in each other’s arms but this was about 4 o’clock and I had to be up at 7. So 3 hours later we got up and given the time no early morning romp, which I regretted but not the fact that I had thoroughly enjoyed our tryst. THe day’s meetings were gruesome though as the room was stuffy and overheated and they were showing a power point type presentation in the semi-dark. It was all I could do to stay awake. I got absolutely nothing out of that day’s so-called work. But I’ll always remember that flight attendant (Except for his name).

I think because he was non nude with the initial massage, he feels he can ask for more for the ”additional service”. Otherwise, i think it might have been best to be establish that nudity is important to you prior to your initial meet. Now, any additional requests would feel like, pardon the words, scope creep.

The best way to say thank you is to treat the guy with respect throughout the time in planning the session and the session itself. No flakiness over the details or commitments made between you. Have a conversation as well as great sex - get to know something about each other. Compliment great performance and mean it. Send a thank you text after the session - plus a tip for great service. Most of all be respectful and if it works fir you both make a repeat session.

Wouldn’t that be something. But at that time I was living in Ottawa and I do remember that one of the “plain” looking Montreal team members was a billet of mine. Unfortunately, he had just joined the Montreal team to get in shape but had not yet achieved his goal. He was short and about 40 pounds overweight. Montreal had some great looking team members though, which made the meets fun to participate in. One of those hot ones eventually moved to Ottawa and I met him in a cruising park one night, which made up for the previous experience of the team meets.

Agreed I noticed that visiting Rio de Janeiro!
 

 
 
but swimmers (as in guys who swim in a team and travel to swim) are more likely to have great bodies!

Couldn't have been you. He only hosted the plainest looking guys!

I always send a text either that evening or the next morning to thank them. They often reply with very nice notes saying how much they enjoyed the evening or overnight. When I hire an extra escort to service not only myself but my provider, I know they are being totally sincere.

Reminds me of my gay swim team experiences. When I was in my 40’s I joined a gaymen’s swim team mainly for the exercise but also for the eye candy. Most members were at least 10 years younger than myself. I was in pretty decent shape and not that hard on the eyes but of course at that age 10 or 20 years makes a big difference to someone in theIr 20’s and 30’s. When we hosted out of town teams I would offer a bedroom at my house to billet out of towners. I always drew one of the plainest, and I am being charitable, swimmers to billet. After 3 or 4 times I gave up offering a place (call me shallow if you will). But I resented the fact that the team executives always selected the best lookers for their own billets. That’s when I learned something about self serving organizers.

These are what you call vectors.

I personally dislike the term carriers wrt this disease. It suggests someone who has a chronic contagious condition like tuberculosis or HepC. They carry around this disease unless treated for years and can infect anyone they come in contact with depending on the disease and nature of the contact. Someone with Covid19 infection can only “carry“ the active disease for a couple of weeks. Then the body naturally overcomes it (unless you die of course) and you are no longer infectious. At least that is what the science is telling us now. You don’t call someone who has the regular flu a carrier. But they are also infectious during the active disease stage. The term vector to me is more accurate wrt all these diseases I have mentioned.

I've been a client for many years now but before I was 40 I couldn't imagine hiring anyone for sex. There was just so much of it available, either in a one night stand or in quasi-relationships that might last months. Also I didn't have the disposable income at the time for such things as I was buying a house, car, and other things like travel. Free sex was just the icing on the cake from being young and footloose. If I could go back, I would do it all over again.

A 21 yo papi?

Paris....October, 2010....
dining at L’Atelier Renault along the Avenue des Champs-Élysées.....
a gorgeous wannabe actor, working as a waiter served me their Coq Au Vin for my lunch....
I made some small talk with him.....joked about how good the Coq was.....he understood my “hints”......
same STUD served me his cock that very same nite in my suite at the Hotel Vernet.....
(on Rue Vernet just off the Place Charles de Gaulle (the Place de l'Étoile)....my Paris home away from home since......forever)
about 4 months later I was back in Paris.....the homme had moved on to elsewhere.

Welcome to dinner I have diarrhea. Not pretty!
 
For folks who stayed home for months only going out to buy food they finally showed no common sense

I agree that your friends did not show much consideration for you and your health by not cancelling the dinner when it was clear that one of them was quite ill. I would have thought that in the current pandemic, any sign of illness has to be taken seriously and while not jumping to conclusions, the better course is to exercise prudence, particularly when others’ health may become at risk because of proximity to the ill person. Their excuse as to why they did not cancel demonstrates a callous self centredness IMO. At this point all you can do is wait out a possible incubation period of about 2 weeks. Try to occupy yourself with other matters although I realize that may be easier said than done. Good luck.

Then let's just call them grossly negligent.
 
It's August and Florida is a COVID "hot spot". There are few visitors down there. They are moving to fertile economic ground.
 
But they are breaking the law in a very flagrant manner.
 
It's appalling and pretty stupid. Maybe they need a friendly quarantine reminder from the local sheriff.

I personally dislike the term carriers wrt this disease. It suggests someone who has a chronic contagious condition like tuberculosis or HepC. They carry around this disease unless treated for years and can infect anyone they come in contact with depending on the disease and nature of the contact. Someone with Covid19 infection can only “carry“ the active disease for a couple of weeks. Then the body naturally overcomes it (unless you die of course) and you are no longer infectious. At least that is what the science is telling us now. You don’t call someone who has the regular flu a carrier. But they are also infectious during the active disease stage. The term vector to me is more accurate wrt all these diseases I have mentioned.

Detroit! Of all the places in the US to be stuck with “car issues”!

I just found this post. Txted him and he Told me he was stuck in Cleveland (car was in the shop) and had a job starting in Pittsburgh Monday he needed to get back for needed 600$. I declined of course and he got mean “well I’ll never meet you if you won’t help me out now”
 
for fun a couple days later I messaged on rm and asked if he was still in Cleveland. He messaged back no Detroit his car was in a shop there and he was trying to get back to Cleveland by Friday of that week because he had two job interviews he’d miss and he needs a job bad. Please help.. I told him well you need to get your story straight your car was stuck in Cleveland three days earlier.Got blocked a minute later?

Isn’t it though. I first visited Belgium in 1969. Later I would go there on business trips. But it’s been a long time since I went back. Loved the moules frits.