Luv2play

It does seem as though we are conflicted about being in the market for a physical therapist or a fuck-partner.

Terminology becomes important here. Pornstars as opposed to guys who have appeared in some pornflics are two different beasts. I find it hard to imagine a true pornstar offering rates of $225, even in these distressed times. Care to offer an example?

I like his ad and his philosophy.

2400 for the weekend starting early afternoon on Friday and ending early afternoon on Sunday.

I’ve been with escorts (some did porn too) who at some point dyed their hair blond and were not in the least bit effeminate. They might have bottomed for some but were all tops for me. Of course some effeminate guys do dye their hair blond. I guess you just have to look at the overall package.

I looked at his ad twice in recent days, He blocked me. I wonder if anyone else has been blocked. Whatever you do don’t look at his ad more than 3 times!

A soft well groomed fuzz is nice for me. I’m totally over the shaved look. Back in the day I liked it and used to shave myself but never again. I prefer more natural look.

@MscleLovr @BSR May I humbly recommend this non-fiction piece by my favorite author:
Death in The Afternoon
Veronica and much lingo explained, I would have loved to have gone to the bull ring with Papa.

For me an escort that can squirt at least four times or more and I mean a real squirt goes onto my repeat list.

It has not happened to you because you do not consider normal texting of questions as "time-wasting" as many escorts do.
 
Many escorts classify potential clients as time-wasters if the potential client asks a provider questions to determine whether there would be compatibility. If there is no compatibility and the client does not hire the provider, the client was a time-waster.
 
Most likely, there are time wasters but that term is overused by some providers if they are asked questions but are not hired.
 
How else but through questions can a client determine if there is a probability of being compatible with a provider?

Ridiculous. Appalling. I wish I were surprised to hear that, though. Men can be such pigs....

Sort of like the distinction between masseur and masseuse. The latter frequently misused.

If you want to be happy for an hour or two,
Call an ugly guy for a screw
From my personal point of view
Ugly guys will always do
Repeat chorus
 
A handsome guy will fuss and preen
Will want more cash and can be pretty mean
They will come and go with just one grunt
They'll steal your cash or try some other stunt
And ugly guy will ask lower fees
And men all look the same when they are on their knees
An ugly guy can be a find
Especially if he has a tight behind.
Chorus
 
So let them say that you have no taste
Go ahead and Screw an ugly guy anyways
Though their face aint gorgeous and the eyes don't match
Take it from me they're a better catch
Chorus
 
"Hey man I saw you with an escort the other day and the dude was UGGG LEEE"
Yeah but he sure can fuck
"Well okay then"
Chorus

Hahaha, I know exactly the "bondage guy" you mean.
 

 
As an escort looking to get into OnlyFans, it is my perspective that the market is saturated, you are required to drive your own traffic to your content, and it requires a bewildering array of skills (up to and including filmography, lighting, video editing, marketing, business acumen, networking, and so on). As such, success is not guaranteed - not by a long shot. Those who are not business savvy will flounder. Those who are exceptionally poor at managing their business will see limited success followed by a hard crash.
 
Success in user-created porn content does not have a "solved equation" to business solvency. Everyone who attempts it is forging their own path and burning the bridge behind them as they go (so others can't replicate/steal their success and dilute their earnings).
 
Additionally, video content is never going to compare with the act itself. I can film a scene where I'm tied up and gagging on dildos or being fucked or whatever you want to imagine, but it's nothing near the same as you the client getting to engage with me personally to fulfill whatever your fantasy happens to be. And that's completely ignoring the not-so-fantastic. Regular vanilla interactions, human touch, etc. those are priceless in their own way.
 
I don't see RM or escorting going anywhere. It's survived since the birth of humanity, I think it'll last a wee bit longer.

I guess I'm not as picky as other clients here, so they are more fungible to me. De gustibus non est disputandum.

I have a hard time trying to understand some clients.
 
Statistically, gays make up to 5-10% of the population at most. So by default, we are already a reduced group where to find a sex partner.
Dating is already difficult: ageism, finding a mutual match, time and money invested, ghosting, scarcity of tops, etc.
We all have experienced the inconveniences above on Tinder, Grinder, Scruff, etc. so we move to hire escorts.
Most escorts, despite disparities, are on average better looking than most of us, clients.
 
So, a client who comes with that attitude of "I'm way better than you" or "You're not good enough for me" doesn't make any sense to me.
If you dislike most products in a store, do you stand in the middle of the floor and say "I don't like anything here!" before leaving?
Don't even look anymore, don't even complain or spread negative comments. MOVE ON somewhere else where you can find what you like.
 
I completely agree: If those clients are incapable of finding a man attractive enough or a good f*ck in NYC or SFO, they're probably just Full of it.

True enough but if what you say comes true, the foreign escorts visiting will be facing some new price competition. OTOH, we’re not talking about fungible assets here, we’re talking about individuals and their unique characteristics. If we’re comparing apples and oranges, and someone really wants the orange, they will pay more for it. Economics 101.

I’ve only met one escort who charged an exorbitant fee for an overnight at his place and that was because he told me that he didn’t really want someone staying overnight with him. I hired him for 2 hours and was very pleased. He had a very nice condo worth over $1million in Toronto’s overheated real estate market and had a separate play room apart from his own bedroom. It all made sense when I saw his setup.

Sort of like the distinction between masseur and masseuse. The latter frequently misused.

I'm not sure what the pandemic has done for the market, but I think the majority of you guys are on the low side. Quality talent has been running 1,200-1,500 pretty regularly the last few years with the elite talent in the 2,000+ range (they will discount for multiple nights) Now if you are talking about vacation company..as in would you like to go to X with me...things get real flexible. All the guys above are right go for a test drive! It can be a long night or a long vacation. Also dinner and a long session or the reverse is often better.. everyone gets a much better night's sleep.

I've never met Kevin IRL, but he's one of my heroes on this board.

And, to quote Kissinger, they "(have) the added advantage of being true".
 
Kevin Slater

Sorry, not into cams. Real life contact only.

I'll give you one guess!

Mine is 71, which is 69 with a finger up each other’s ass.