BenjaminNicholas

@Benjamin_Nicholas Where can one obtain these “cock-flavored” lollipops of which you speak??

These things come in waves, usually around re-election time.
 
There are several things an enterprising escort can do to ensure he's kept out of legal trouble, but that disclaimer at the bottom of an ad isn't one of them. That's about as useless as a cock-flavored lollipop at a lesbian convention.

These things come in waves, usually around re-election time.
 
There are several things an enterprising escort can do to ensure he's kept out of legal trouble, but that disclaimer at the bottom of an ad isn't one of them. That's about as useless as a cock-flavored lollipop at a lesbian convention.

These things come in waves, usually around re-election time.
 
There are several things an enterprising escort can do to ensure he's kept out of legal trouble, but that disclaimer at the bottom of an ad isn't one of them. That's about as useless as a cock-flavored lollipop at a lesbian convention.

These things come in waves, usually around re-election time.
 
There are several things an enterprising escort can do to ensure he's kept out of legal trouble, but that disclaimer at the bottom of an ad isn't one of them. That's about as useless as a cock-flavored lollipop at a lesbian convention.

Hate is such a strong, ugly word
 
Like others have said already Chicken Little, the sky is not falling. Give it a few months to blow over.

These things come in waves, usually around re-election time.
 
There are several things an enterprising escort can do to ensure he's kept out of legal trouble, but that disclaimer at the bottom of an ad isn't one of them. That's about as useless as a cock-flavored lollipop at a lesbian convention.

You're asking a question that has a ton of variables.
 
Bottom line, a bar and a US bath have very little in common. European baths are a whole other thing: They are VERY social.
 
Depending on the gay bar, conversation may or may not be possible.
 
If you're looking to get laid and you have the confidence to venture into a bath, it can be a fun option and the general lack of pretense is a great thing. The bar scene OTOH has never been for me. It's tough for me to defend something I don't really enjoy.

For me, this ongoing discussion raises the crux of why I enjoy baths: You can't bullshit a bathhouse.
 
Unlike Grindr, where people Facetune/edit/crop/morph the hell out of their profile pictures, a bath is face-front and for better or worse, the most honest way to hook up. You can make a snap decision as to whether you want to mess around with the guy or keep walking. No harm, no foul.

For me, this ongoing discussion raises the crux of why I enjoy baths: You can't bullshit a bathhouse.
 
Unlike Grindr, where people Facetune/edit/crop/morph the hell out of their profile pictures, a bath is face-front and for better or worse, the most honest way to hook up. You can make a snap decision as to whether you want to mess around with the guy or keep walking. No harm, no foul.

They are indeed. Just let them know in advance and expect probably double the rate. However, you really should ask the escort his rate for seeing two people at a time. The rate may vary from escort to escort.

You're asking a question that has a ton of variables.
 
Bottom line, a bar and a US bath have very little in common. European baths are a whole other thing: They are VERY social.
 
Depending on the gay bar, conversation may or may not be possible.
 
If you're looking to get laid and you have the confidence to venture into a bath, it can be a fun option and the general lack of pretense is a great thing. The bar scene OTOH has never been for me. It's tough for me to defend something I don't really enjoy.

Encore has steam showers starting in their 2-br Apartment level suites. Their Fairway Villas and 3-br duplexes also have them installed.
 
If you're more of a risk-taker, you also have the option of the Encore Spa. It's a much larger alternative to the Wynn's spa.
 
The showers in there are more than private enough to play: I've had a LOT of sex in them. The steam room is a lot more public, but since the property attracts a pretty steady stream of gay clientele, don't be shocked if you find someone in there who willing to play.

For me, this ongoing discussion raises the crux of why I enjoy baths: You can't bullshit a bathhouse.
 
Unlike Grindr, where people Facetune/edit/crop/morph the hell out of their profile pictures, a bath is face-front and for better or worse, the most honest way to hook up. You can make a snap decision as to whether you want to mess around with the guy or keep walking. No harm, no foul.

Unless otherwise discussed, when you engage an escort for any amount of travel, he is not on personal vacation. Don't kid yourself.
 
He's working. He's with you. He's on the clock.
 
We do not have the answer you're looking for. This needs a one-on-one discussion with the escort in question.

Unless otherwise discussed, when you engage an escort for any amount of travel, he is not on personal vacation. Don't kid yourself.
 
He's working. He's with you. He's on the clock.
 
We do not have the answer you're looking for. This needs a one-on-one discussion with the escort in question.

Unless otherwise discussed, when you engage an escort for any amount of travel, he is not on personal vacation. Don't kid yourself.
 
He's working. He's with you. He's on the clock.
 
We do not have the answer you're looking for. This needs a one-on-one discussion with the escort in question.

For me, this ongoing discussion raises the crux of why I enjoy baths: You can't bullshit a bathhouse.
 
Unlike Grindr, where people Facetune/edit/crop/morph the hell out of their profile pictures, a bath is face-front and for better or worse, the most honest way to hook up. You can make a snap decision as to whether you want to mess around with the guy or keep walking. No harm, no foul.

Unless otherwise discussed, when you engage an escort for any amount of travel, he is not on personal vacation. Don't kid yourself.
 
He's working. He's with you. He's on the clock.
 
We do not have the answer you're looking for. This needs a one-on-one discussion with the escort in question.

Unless otherwise discussed, when you engage an escort for any amount of travel, he is not on personal vacation. Don't kid yourself.
 
He's working. He's with you. He's on the clock.
 
We do not have the answer you're looking for. This needs a one-on-one discussion with the escort in question.

Many hotel rooms in Vegas have private steam showers.
 
Bellagio and Wynn, in particular, have great showers for sex.

Unless otherwise discussed, when you engage an escort for any amount of travel, he is not on personal vacation. Don't kid yourself.
 
He's working. He's with you. He's on the clock.
 
We do not have the answer you're looking for. This needs a one-on-one discussion with the escort in question.

And just after I posted this, I was invited to meet a client at a “swingers house”. It was like a bathhouse, for “all”. Just when I thought I’ve seen it all...nope.
 
But it’s true, I suppose you can (and many do) choose both. Start at 1 or the other, and then go on to the next. The most popular is the guys who leave the gay bar at 2 am and then go to the other “club”. I’ve concluded that’s about the least productive time to go.
 
I finally tried something toward the end of last year. Originally I was planning to go to the bath to “advertise”, because a couple of clients of mine told me they went. However, it seemed they were doing it for reasons not related to hiring. So I went during prime time, early in the evening to try it and “see what happens”, worst thing that could happen, I lose 11 bucks since I already had the 6 month membership.
 
I found 1 prospective client, but I won’t mention how many guys I ended up bringing to my room/going to theirs. I was supposed to be networking, instead I fell into the temptation of getting laid. And though it may seem risky, there was no infectious diseases spread (even got tested last month). So, baths can be safe, I personally have never contracted anything from them...then again there’s no guarantee but have to play safe and don’t get down with anybody I can’t see in the light lol.
 
However: after that I had no desire to return to the baths. I generally only go to 1 about once every 1 to 2 YEARS, maybe a couple times in a year. Reason being, I just feel some of those guys don’t know what they want. It’s like a buffet. And the whole anonymous sex/let’s get to biz ASAP thing kind of takes something out of it.
 
I suppose I like the bars because I like the challenge. Bath houses are too easy, but the sex seems watered down. The guys seem preoccupied with trying the whole buffet, the encounters at bathhouses seem to last like 5 to 10 minutes. I usually end up leaving feeling icky. I prefer to go to places where sex is the possibility rather than priority.

You're asking a question that has a ton of variables.
 
Bottom line, a bar and a US bath have very little in common. European baths are a whole other thing: They are VERY social.
 
Depending on the gay bar, conversation may or may not be possible.
 
If you're looking to get laid and you have the confidence to venture into a bath, it can be a fun option and the general lack of pretense is a great thing. The bar scene OTOH has never been for me. It's tough for me to defend something I don't really enjoy.

The porn train has long passed my friend.
 
If you really feel “acknowledgement is undereceived” escorting, whew..just wait until you do porn.
 
It’s not good money. And no one else can say it because they have to be politically correct but.. black doesn’t sell unless you have dick down to your knees like Cutler, you are built like a brick shithouse and have a unique look that distinguishes you from the rest, or you assume a homo thug role. Sad reality but black men are not well represented in porn. I don’t think being an extra in a Treasure Island gangbang film for cab fare is worth it. But that’s just me.
 
Same for onlyfans. What separates you from the rest and are you marketable? If you are very marketable, my guess would be that you wouldn’t be “bored” with escorting and you’d be very busy.
 
Weigh your options I suppose. My whole stance on porn/OnlyFans has always been a stern no. There is and always will be an “exclusive” element to escorting. Not everyone has direct access to you, and there’s something alluring about that alone. Jacking off on OnlyFans where you have to garner a following, a following that pays for you for the cost of Netflix is very “meh” to me compared to the opportunities afforded to you escorting.
 
If it’s not working out for you escorting (per your numerous posts verbalizing your frustrations with this line of work), I don’t foresee porn being any better for you.