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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from TruthBTold in Would you rather go to a bathhouse or gay bar?   
    You're asking a question that has a ton of variables.
     
    Bottom line, a bar and a US bath have very little in common. European baths are a whole other thing: They are VERY social.
     
    Depending on the gay bar, conversation may or may not be possible.
     
    If you're looking to get laid and you have the confidence to venture into a bath, it can be a fun option and the general lack of pretense is a great thing. The bar scene OTOH has never been for me. It's tough for me to defend something I don't really enjoy.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + WilliamM in Mardi Gras 2019   
    Strip. Club. For. Women.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Edge All Year Long in Anyone In NYC Interested in Going To Bukkake Fest?   
    Is this like the Coachella of Cum?
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to + oldNbusted in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    Get out of here with all these facts! The argument being made is actually an emotional one. People want to engage in risky behavior but don't want to accept responsibility for any adverse consequences for their choices, so et voila, it must be someone else's fault. Because they say so.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Zapped in Are the RM reviews worth anything?   
    Daddy's remains the clearinghouse. Always will be.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from marylander1940 in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    He clearly said in his reply that he was aware of KG's status. Gray has been VERY open about this. It's not a secret.
     
    Having met him myself, he's smart, honest and a good example of how to continue escorting while HIV+
     
     
    Bottom line, it wasn't that you shared this. It was how you went about it.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Golem in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    Why the old link? To shame?
     
    KG's been pretty straight forward about this since his diagnosis. I applaud that. It takes balls to put that out there in this business.
     
    With protection, PrEP and someone with a zero viral load, sex and being HIV+ isn't much of a risk.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to Mocha in The boredom pangs of escorting: Thinking of doing porn   
    Interesting. I can see that with only fans. The thing that that got me about justfor.fans (are we talking the same site here?) is they mentioned something about a $50 minimum in order to cash anything out to you.
     
    I’m ??‍♂️ on this whole low pay for porn thing. Is this something recent? I always thought the Colt and Falcon type models and even the ones Chi Chi La Rue did had some figures attached to them. The “income” I’ve “heard” over time have ranged anywhere from guys getting $2,000 per shoot, to $50,000 for a “contract”, to on average $500 per shoot, etc.
     
    If in fact it’s not worth the pay, it goes back to what I was saying about advertising on Adam. There’s many providers who say they won’t advetise on a4a. Well to me, that’s just a supplement to my other work. Some guys supplement with onlyfans, others with porn, I use a4a and do massages.
     
    Thing with massages (namely a4a) is some of these rates they ask for. Some guys think just because it says “masseur”, they expect corporate spa prices. They don’t comprehend that I’m not seeing clients round the clock, and $90 when only 1 to 2 clients actually show up per week is not going to cut it.
     
    I been working on the social media thing, but it’s addicting lol. I’ve always been the type that I’ll strive to do 2-4 photo shoots a year, and that’s it. With social media it’s like having to consistently roll out new material. And with me, I’ve so many different things going on to where I’m not always inclined.
     
     
    I’m also trying to limit my “at home” time to no more than one to two weeks at a time, and travel the rest of the month. Lot of the boredom is arising out of those one to two weeks I’m not traveling, because the area I’m temporarily based in is s.a.d. weather and few clients.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from thomas in Playa del Carmen, Cancun   
    It more of a show bar with strippers attached. Not my scene since I'm really not big on drag.
     
    It's really the only place in PDC at the moment with verifiable go-go boys. Vallarta remains the Mexican beach town with the best/most varied stripper scene. Cancun's gay scene has actually shrunk quite a bit over the last 5 years. Playa hasn't tried to develop much themselves.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + Socalguy in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    Why the old link? To shame?
     
    KG's been pretty straight forward about this since his diagnosis. I applaud that. It takes balls to put that out there in this business.
     
    With protection, PrEP and someone with a zero viral load, sex and being HIV+ isn't much of a risk.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Golem in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    He clearly said in his reply that he was aware of KG's status. Gray has been VERY open about this. It's not a secret.
     
    Having met him myself, he's smart, honest and a good example of how to continue escorting while HIV+
     
     
    Bottom line, it wasn't that you shared this. It was how you went about it.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + BritSD in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    He clearly said in his reply that he was aware of KG's status. Gray has been VERY open about this. It's not a secret.
     
    Having met him myself, he's smart, honest and a good example of how to continue escorting while HIV+
     
     
    Bottom line, it wasn't that you shared this. It was how you went about it.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to + BritSD in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    What's the point of that? To try and shame or make a person who is out about their status look bad? I used to date someone who was HIV+ and we used all the precautions. Guess what? I am still negative. Also, Kayden is literally one of the sweetest guys you could ever have the pleasure of meeting and even answered questions I had. He is safe, our time was safe and I would highly suggest anyone who is interested to go down and see him. Let's not continue with the stigma. it does more harm than good and it's unnecessary.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to + BritSD in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    To answer your questions, he’s public and vocal about his status and sexual health overall. Second, we discussed and he was open about it prior to meeting and we had talked for several months, including my concerns. Third, protection was used during my experience. I don’t have unprotected sex with People anyone... period. Now, if someone choose to not use protection with him and they are aware, taken precautions, etc, that’s their business. What I can say is that his openness about his status and sexual health made me comfortable enough to have an experience with him. As I said, for a small period of time, I had feelings and dated someone who was positive. That helped me work through a lot of the negative stigma associated someone who is HIV+.
     
    My main issue is that even if someone has concerns, that’s cool, but the other member of this page came out the gate with no real reason in why he was posting link. It came off as negative but that’s my interpretation
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from down_to_business in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    Why the old link? To shame?
     
    KG's been pretty straight forward about this since his diagnosis. I applaud that. It takes balls to put that out there in this business.
     
    With protection, PrEP and someone with a zero viral load, sex and being HIV+ isn't much of a risk.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from MikeBiDude in The boredom pangs of escorting: Thinking of doing porn   
    Porn is a dead-end. Unless you can somehow own your image and name in the contract, it's not worth the time for the small pay.
     
    OnlyFans seems to only work for a small percentage of users: Most guys I know who have accounts struggle to keep constant content coming. It's a grind and the audiences are fickle, pulling their monthly memberships as soon as they're bored. That's a hamster wheel.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Shawn Monroe in The boredom pangs of escorting: Thinking of doing porn   
    Porn is a dead-end. Unless you can somehow own your image and name in the contract, it's not worth the time for the small pay.
     
    OnlyFans seems to only work for a small percentage of users: Most guys I know who have accounts struggle to keep constant content coming. It's a grind and the audiences are fickle, pulling their monthly memberships as soon as they're bored. That's a hamster wheel.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from tsgarp in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    Why the old link? To shame?
     
    KG's been pretty straight forward about this since his diagnosis. I applaud that. It takes balls to put that out there in this business.
     
    With protection, PrEP and someone with a zero viral load, sex and being HIV+ isn't much of a risk.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + dupontversDC in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    Why the old link? To shame?
     
    KG's been pretty straight forward about this since his diagnosis. I applaud that. It takes balls to put that out there in this business.
     
    With protection, PrEP and someone with a zero viral load, sex and being HIV+ isn't much of a risk.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from marylander1940 in The boredom pangs of escorting: Thinking of doing porn   
    Porn is a dead-end. Unless you can somehow own your image and name in the contract, it's not worth the time for the small pay.
     
    OnlyFans seems to only work for a small percentage of users: Most guys I know who have accounts struggle to keep constant content coming. It's a grind and the audiences are fickle, pulling their monthly memberships as soon as they're bored. That's a hamster wheel.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    Why the old link? To shame?
     
    KG's been pretty straight forward about this since his diagnosis. I applaud that. It takes balls to put that out there in this business.
     
    With protection, PrEP and someone with a zero viral load, sex and being HIV+ isn't much of a risk.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from TruthBTold in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    Why the old link? To shame?
     
    KG's been pretty straight forward about this since his diagnosis. I applaud that. It takes balls to put that out there in this business.
     
    With protection, PrEP and someone with a zero viral load, sex and being HIV+ isn't much of a risk.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Jimjaxon3 in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    Why the old link? To shame?
     
    KG's been pretty straight forward about this since his diagnosis. I applaud that. It takes balls to put that out there in this business.
     
    With protection, PrEP and someone with a zero viral load, sex and being HIV+ isn't much of a risk.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to + WilliamM in What city has it?   
    Vienna is a wonderful city for music and art, but Berlin for sex.
     
    Why only five days?
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from rvwnsd in Exchanging Shoes   
    I thought the same thing, was momentarily turned on by the subject line and then came crashing down at the mention of Payless.
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