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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + easygoingpal in In Boston for the first time next Friday 2/15... What not to miss...?   
    I love to eat, so...
     
    If you must do Legal Seafood, go to the Harborside flagship location. Touristy, but the best of the chain.
     
    Best lobtsah roll? Pauli's North End or Yankee Lobster.
     
    Boston Chowda Co makes a killer chowder.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to BabyBoomer in HARDCOORETOP coming to NYC today...   
    This is the third name he's used in the last month.
     
    AVOID!
     
    ~Boomer~
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Chipand24 in HARDCOORETOP coming to NYC today...   
    I don't trust any video that pixelated. There's something off here.
     
    Cell phone video over the last 10 years records smoothly. This guy looks like he used a RAZR flip phone from the mid-90s.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Zapped in Escort talks too long - should he get paid for it?   
    I appreciate this reply. It gives me some insight, appreciation and understanding. Thank you for that.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Rand in I like cut cock, is that a fetish?   
    Using a feather... That's just a little fun.
     
    Using the whole chicken... That's a fetish.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to Zapped in Escort talks too long - should he get paid for it?   
    I have been damaged, no question. Because of my financial circumstances, I've never been in a position to hire for more than an hour here or there, and it's been to fulfill specific fantasies. Even in some of those, I've felt the guys were healers and I feel deep gratitude to them.
     
    What I've never been able to do is to hire someone regularly, or for an overnight, or for multiple days. It's clear to me that this would be an entirely different sort of experience. The kind of experience you provide, BN, is literally out of my league--but I have no doubt it is extraordinary. And I really doubt anyone pays you "to go away"!
     
    Now I have a terrific husband, also damaged and healing, and we are healing together.
     
    Meanwhile, I'd say that I have worked with terrific therapists and personal-development coaches and personal trainers and massage therapists and, earlier in life, music teachers, and for the most part our professional relationships have been great and warm and beneficial but rarely were we interested in the details of each other's personal lives or have a social relationship outside our professional relationship. Admiration and warmth and genuine connection, all there. Ina professional context.
     
    I did become friends with one trainer, who had grown up with two moms, and suffered some homophobia, and who I think saw me in part as a father figure and asked for some business/career advice on occasion.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to + Keith30309 in Key West   
    Bingo
     
    The last time I was there I was amazed at the Disneyifcation of the entire area - Mallory was like a big, shiny gift shop compared to the first time I was there about 28 years ago.
    Back then it was nothing but a bunch of drunks and weed-smoking degenerates and we were proud of it.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from kemi838 in I like cut cock, is that a fetish?   
    Using a feather... That's just a little fun.
     
    Using the whole chicken... That's a fetish.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + HornyRetiree in Key West   
    The problem is actually with new Mayor Johnson.
     
    While she's open about being a lesbian, she's also got the voice of the cruise ship industry and Duval St major players in her ear. With Donnie Lee stepping down as police chief (openly gay as well), there's a seismic change happening at City Hall and I hope the spirit of this awesome little island remains intact.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + Keith30309 in Key West   
    The problem is actually with new Mayor Johnson.
     
    While she's open about being a lesbian, she's also got the voice of the cruise ship industry and Duval St major players in her ear. With Donnie Lee stepping down as police chief (openly gay as well), there's a seismic change happening at City Hall and I hope the spirit of this awesome little island remains intact.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + Keith30309 in Key West   
    KW doesn't really have any local working guys. And if they did, they'd likely be much older guys, as the island no longer attracts a younger crowd like they once did.
     
    As Keith said, Miami would be the provider. Quick 25 minute flights from MIA to EYW on AA or see if they'd do the incredibly long drive down Hwy 1.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from marylander1940 in Key West   
    KW doesn't really have any local working guys. And if they did, they'd likely be much older guys, as the island no longer attracts a younger crowd like they once did.
     
    As Keith said, Miami would be the provider. Quick 25 minute flights from MIA to EYW on AA or see if they'd do the incredibly long drive down Hwy 1.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from dbar123 in I like cut cock, is that a fetish?   
    Using a feather... That's just a little fun.
     
    Using the whole chicken... That's a fetish.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from marylander1940 in I like cut cock, is that a fetish?   
    Using a feather... That's just a little fun.
     
    Using the whole chicken... That's a fetish.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + nycman in Escort talks too long - should he get paid for it?   
    Yikes.
     
    Sometimes I'm glad we can't easily connect a screen name with reality. Ignorance is bliss.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Maxl in I like cut cock, is that a fetish?   
    Using a feather... That's just a little fun.
     
    Using the whole chicken... That's a fetish.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from instudiocity in I like cut cock, is that a fetish?   
    Using a feather... That's just a little fun.
     
    Using the whole chicken... That's a fetish.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to + WilliamM in Escort talks too long - should he get paid for it?   
    Your second paragraph reminds me of my six grade teacher, just back from a mandatory one-day teachers conversation.
     
    She said to the entire class, "I am often surprised at how many teachers dislike children."
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + WilliamM in Fosse/Verdon on FX April 9   
    Really looking forward to seeing this, especially since FX has now cut ties with Ryan Murphy, who's one-trick-pony shows are wearing a little thin with me. The cast looks spectacular and the promos have been well-done.
     
    If you want a great, in-depth read on Fosse, I highly recommend this book:
     
    https://www.amazon.com/Fosse-Sam-Wasson/dp/0547553293
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + WilliamM in Escort talks too long - should he get paid for it?   
    Yikes.
     
    Sometimes I'm glad we can't easily connect a screen name with reality. Ignorance is bliss.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + HornyRetiree in Circus of Books on Santa Monica Closing...   
    One of my college jobs was managing a gay adult magazine's subscriber list, as well as dealing directly with the stores.
     
    I have good memories of CoB. They always paid on time and were very friendly. Sad to see them go.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from caramelsub in Jennifer Lopez involved in brutal murder   
    It's not fake news.
     
    It's just a troll-bait headline to a very real, very sad story.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + Axiom2001 in Circus of Books on Santa Monica Closing...   
    One of my college jobs was managing a gay adult magazine's subscriber list, as well as dealing directly with the stores.
     
    I have good memories of CoB. They always paid on time and were very friendly. Sad to see them go.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to Mo Mason in Escort talks too long - should he get paid for it?   
    I don't think Theo's response seemed cocky or rude at all - rather, friendly. A lot friendlier than I would have responded were I in his shoes.
     
    But I do think the time issue is the responsibility of the escort in these situations. They are the business professionals so they should be the ones to make sure the session ends when it's supposed to.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + WilliamM in Jennifer Lopez involved in brutal murder   
    It's not fake news.
     
    It's just a troll-bait headline to a very real, very sad story.
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