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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + IronMaus in 300 is the new norm   
    I don't know what airline you're flying, but J-class on most legacy carriers is a lot more than that
     

     
    What's most curious is these rates being charged by guys with little-to-no reviews and a weak marketing game. As I've always said, the market will dictate if they keep their rates high... If people pay, it'll stay. If not, watch those hourly rates tumble down.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to bostonman in Canceling due to sickness   
    I think generally this is something that's a case by case situation. An escort is going to either believe that you're sick, or he won't - and if he doesn't, there's really not much you can do about it.
     
    My first pro escort had to cancel on me because (if I recall correctly) he threw his back out. I believed him, because we had already had a very nice honest conversation through email, and it just didn't seem that he would play games. And indeed, we rescheduled for when he felt back to normal, and had a great time.
     
    A few months ago, I almost cancelled on an escort that has become a wonderful regular for me when he's in the area - because I was feeling a little under the weather. (I can't remember now if I was getting over a cold, or just catching one, lol, but I think it was the former.) He said he was fine with meeting if I wanted to, and he wasn't worried about catching anything. We met, and I'm so glad we did. But again, w'eve been together a number of times, so there's a trust element there.
     
    The only other time I can think of when I cancelled on someone after setting up an appointment time, was with an escort who was only in town for a short time on a weekend. We set up a morning session (which is never my preference, but I was thinking with the wrong head lol), and he said he'd let me know what hotel he was in once he got here. The day before, he gave me the hotel info. Well, it turned out that travelling to that hotel was not going to be convenient (I wasn't into ALSO paying for a cab, and there was no direct subway route to the area). I gave it some thought and decided I couldn't meet him. I let him know (this was early Fri afternoon for a Sat morning appointment) and he got very angry, and accused me of playing games. I tried to explain the situation. I also let him know that since he was NYC based, and that I would be there in a few weeks, that I'd be glad to reschedule for then. But he wasn't hearing it. Now, in hindsight, maybe I shouldn't have made the morning appointment in the first place (since I much prefer night when possible), or maybe I should have been clearer that I was relying on the subway to get to him. So I'll take some of the blame. But still, his reaction seemed rather out of line. (I understand his side of things, but still...) Which ultimately made me think that he wasn't going to be a good match for me anyway.
     
    So - shit happens. And hey, if you're being honest, no matter what the response may be, at least you know you're being honest.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to cany10011 in Canceling due to sickness   
    The converse is also true. An escort who i booked recently came to me with a cough and a pink eye. Not sure why he didn't reschedule. I just asked for a massage. He was a nice guy and I'll rebook once he is better.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from rvwnsd in 300 is the new norm   
    I don't know what airline you're flying, but J-class on most legacy carriers is a lot more than that
     

     
    What's most curious is these rates being charged by guys with little-to-no reviews and a weak marketing game. As I've always said, the market will dictate if they keep their rates high... If people pay, it'll stay. If not, watch those hourly rates tumble down.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + easygoingpal in 300 is the new norm   
    I don't know what airline you're flying, but J-class on most legacy carriers is a lot more than that
     

     
    What's most curious is these rates being charged by guys with little-to-no reviews and a weak marketing game. As I've always said, the market will dictate if they keep their rates high... If people pay, it'll stay. If not, watch those hourly rates tumble down.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from fedssocr1 in 300 is the new norm   
    I don't know what airline you're flying, but J-class on most legacy carriers is a lot more than that
     

     
    What's most curious is these rates being charged by guys with little-to-no reviews and a weak marketing game. As I've always said, the market will dictate if they keep their rates high... If people pay, it'll stay. If not, watch those hourly rates tumble down.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from OneFinger in 300 is the new norm   
    I don't know what airline you're flying, but J-class on most legacy carriers is a lot more than that
     

     
    What's most curious is these rates being charged by guys with little-to-no reviews and a weak marketing game. As I've always said, the market will dictate if they keep their rates high... If people pay, it'll stay. If not, watch those hourly rates tumble down.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + pitman in Str8 guys available   
    The stereotypes and blind assumption in this thread is staggeringly funny at times
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from BabyBoomer in Canceling due to sickness   
    At the end of the day, the client is saving the escort from getting sick and losing even more income in the long run.
     
    Sure, it's not fun taking a financial hit, but if decent notice is given, I don't see how that's such a terrible thing.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from JayCeeKy in 300 is the new norm   
    I don't know what airline you're flying, but J-class on most legacy carriers is a lot more than that
     

     
    What's most curious is these rates being charged by guys with little-to-no reviews and a weak marketing game. As I've always said, the market will dictate if they keep their rates high... If people pay, it'll stay. If not, watch those hourly rates tumble down.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + honcho in Str8 guys available   
    Bottom line: It's one thing to privately think it, it's another thing to act on it.
     
    Acting on it makes you a schmuck in my book.
     

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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + WilliamM in Str8 guys available   
    Bottom line: It's one thing to privately think it, it's another thing to act on it.
     
    Acting on it makes you a schmuck in my book.
     

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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + WilliamM in Str8 guys available   
    This was exactly what I meant...
     
    You just happen to put it into words much better than I
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from beachboy in Canceling due to sickness   
    At the end of the day, the client is saving the escort from getting sick and losing even more income in the long run.
     
    Sure, it's not fun taking a financial hit, but if decent notice is given, I don't see how that's such a terrible thing.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + quoththeraven in Str8 guys available   
    Bottom line: It's one thing to privately think it, it's another thing to act on it.
     
    Acting on it makes you a schmuck in my book.
     

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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + quoththeraven in Str8 guys available   
    This was exactly what I meant...
     
    You just happen to put it into words much better than I
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + WilliamM in Canceling due to sickness   
    At the end of the day, the client is saving the escort from getting sick and losing even more income in the long run.
     
    Sure, it's not fun taking a financial hit, but if decent notice is given, I don't see how that's such a terrible thing.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + oldNbusted in 300 is the new norm   
    I don't know what airline you're flying, but J-class on most legacy carriers is a lot more than that
     

     
    What's most curious is these rates being charged by guys with little-to-no reviews and a weak marketing game. As I've always said, the market will dictate if they keep their rates high... If people pay, it'll stay. If not, watch those hourly rates tumble down.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + SundayZip in Str8 guys available   
    The stereotypes and blind assumption in this thread is staggeringly funny at times
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to marylander1940 in Str8 guys available   
    @Benjamin_Nicholas wasn’t talking about that...
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + SundayZip in Str8 guys available   
    Clearly, this is a fetish for you.
     
    https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/straight-guys-vs-gay-guys.143199/
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + quoththeraven in Str8 guys available   
    The stereotypes and blind assumption in this thread is staggeringly funny at times
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + quoththeraven in Str8 guys available   
    Clearly, this is a fetish for you.
     
    https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/straight-guys-vs-gay-guys.143199/
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + bashful in Str8 guys available   
    The stereotypes and blind assumption in this thread is staggeringly funny at times
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to + Axiom2001 in Benjamin_Nichola Blog -- WOW!   
    ...read your most recent post in your blog and truly enjoyed! Do you ever travel to the West Coast-- San Francisco & Los Angeles?
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