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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from HotWhiteThirties in PrEp is NOT a free pass for unprotected Sex
Devil's advocate:
A full-panel test is only as good as the day you get the blood drawn. That leaves a lot of room for error.
However, I agree with those here who have said this is a discussion that needs to be had between every provider and client. Safe sex, safer sex, bareback, etc are personal choices. My main concern is that every sex-worker keep updated on blood work and always KNOW THEIR STATUS.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from marylander1940 in Anal Sex And Bleeding?
Whether you know it or not, most guys bleed when they get fucked.
Just because you can't see red doesn't mean it's not there.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + Avalon in Anal Sex And Bleeding?
Whether you know it or not, most guys bleed when they get fucked.
Just because you can't see red doesn't mean it's not there.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Inkdnaija00 in Kevin Spacey sued by masseur
They're getting in just under that two-year statute of limitation
And yes, this does open the floodgates for problems in the future: Not just for Spacey.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from beachboy in Who's your favorite singer?
I like people who can truly tell the story through a song.
A good singer can hit all the notes. A great singer doesn't always have to: They live the song as they sing it.
Ann-Hampton Callaway, Marilyn Maye, Judy Garland, Ellen Greene, Edith Piaf, Nell Carter, Lillias White, Frank Sinatra. A ton of others, but these were the people that came to mind immediately.
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+ BenjaminNicholas reacted to + WilliamM in Who's your favorite singer?
I saw Merman in Gypsy twice. The musical was written specifically for her. Ethel played Rose for two years in New York and then for at least six months on tour. The original cast album is Merman at her best vocally, but you do not get a sense of her ability as a comic or a tragic figure during Rose's Turn.
I saw Daly and Peters in revivals. I suspect you had to see Merman in person to fully appreciate her, so nothing against others who played Rose.
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+ BenjaminNicholas reacted to + WilliamM in Who's your favorite singer?
Peggy Lee could sing blues and jazz (for jazz, try her live recordings at Basin Street East in New York).
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+ BenjaminNicholas reacted to marylander1940 in Grinder and Jack'd as escort venues
I just posted about it... you read my mind.
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+ BenjaminNicholas reacted to liubit in 17 beautiful places to visit in India after historic gay sex ban ruling
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from RunnerGuy in 17 beautiful places to visit in India after historic gay sex ban ruling
India is an amazing place. I'm heading back in December, but seeing Agra and New Delhi this time. Mumbai was fascinating and kinetic.
If I let local politics affect my yearning to see the world, I'd be like most Americans and just stay in the States.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + VictorPowers in PrEp is NOT a free pass for unprotected Sex
Devil's advocate:
A full-panel test is only as good as the day you get the blood drawn. That leaves a lot of room for error.
However, I agree with those here who have said this is a discussion that needs to be had between every provider and client. Safe sex, safer sex, bareback, etc are personal choices. My main concern is that every sex-worker keep updated on blood work and always KNOW THEIR STATUS.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in PrEp is NOT a free pass for unprotected Sex
Devil's advocate:
A full-panel test is only as good as the day you get the blood drawn. That leaves a lot of room for error.
However, I agree with those here who have said this is a discussion that needs to be had between every provider and client. Safe sex, safer sex, bareback, etc are personal choices. My main concern is that every sex-worker keep updated on blood work and always KNOW THEIR STATUS.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from marylander1940 in PrEp is NOT a free pass for unprotected Sex
Devil's advocate:
A full-panel test is only as good as the day you get the blood drawn. That leaves a lot of room for error.
However, I agree with those here who have said this is a discussion that needs to be had between every provider and client. Safe sex, safer sex, bareback, etc are personal choices. My main concern is that every sex-worker keep updated on blood work and always KNOW THEIR STATUS.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from marylander1940 in Grinder and Jack'd as escort venues
Grindr/Jacked feels like the new CL
It's definitely an AYOR kind of deal.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Grinder and Jack'd as escort venues
Grindr/Jacked feels like the new CL
It's definitely an AYOR kind of deal.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Inkdnaija00 in 17 beautiful places to visit in India after historic gay sex ban ruling
India is an amazing place. I'm heading back in December, but seeing Agra and New Delhi this time. Mumbai was fascinating and kinetic.
If I let local politics affect my yearning to see the world, I'd be like most Americans and just stay in the States.
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+ BenjaminNicholas reacted to + José Soplanucas in The Real Hustlaball 2018
You have more years than I do in this industry. I hardly remember the rentboy sponsored parties now that you mention it, but I do remember. If I am not wrong, those were the epic years when Rentboy would sponsor community building events like this one, not always centered around partying.
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+ BenjaminNicholas reacted to + Avalon in 17 beautiful places to visit in India after historic gay sex ban ruling
Have a great time and please share your visit with us here. The Taj Mahal, The Red Fort, The Pearl Mosque etc..
I recommend visiting here
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Akshardham_(Delhi)
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+ BenjaminNicholas reacted to BroadwayDave in 17 beautiful places to visit in India after historic gay sex ban ruling
I had the distinct pleasure of visiting India and Indonesia way back in 1990 when my brother, who lived in Pekanbaru at the time working for Texaco’s Overseas Oil and Exploration Division, offered me a once in a lifetime opportunity.
We spent over 30 days extensively traveling around the two countries and toured Jaipur, Johdpur, and Udaipur, as well as Agra, Darjeeling, and Delhi, then popped over to Bali, Balikpapan, Borobudur, and Jakarta before ending up in Singapore. In India we stayed at some of the old Maharaja’s Palaces turned into hotels like the Umaid Bhawan Palace, Jodhpur and the Shiv Niwas Palace, Udaipur.
Among all the well known popular tourists sights we visited in India, one least known and off the beaten path was Khajuraho. Very interesting to say the least!
I’ll have to say this visit was one of the highlights of my life, along with the two years that I lived in Italy.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from tsgarp in Villa Giani in London
Piqued
https://curiosity.com/topics/peaked-my-interest-is-a-commonly-misused-phrase-curiosity/
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from BroadwayDave in 17 beautiful places to visit in India after historic gay sex ban ruling
India is an amazing place. I'm heading back in December, but seeing Agra and New Delhi this time. Mumbai was fascinating and kinetic.
If I let local politics affect my yearning to see the world, I'd be like most Americans and just stay in the States.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Shawn Monroe in Where are the ginger guys?
Considering us true gingers are rare to begin with, yes, we're definitely a niche-of-a-niche in the escorting biz.
It's not supply & demand: It's lack of commodity.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from marylander1940 in Where are the ginger guys?
Nope. But perhaps that's because I just like to fuck
To me, there are so many different looks on gingers that it keeps things interesting no matter the redhead. The variances of black/red Irish in bloodlines make for gingers that can look absolutely nothing like one another.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + easygoingpal in 17 beautiful places to visit in India after historic gay sex ban ruling
India is an amazing place. I'm heading back in December, but seeing Agra and New Delhi this time. Mumbai was fascinating and kinetic.
If I let local politics affect my yearning to see the world, I'd be like most Americans and just stay in the States.
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+ BenjaminNicholas reacted to Mo Mason in Who's your favorite singer?
There have been so many great female vocalists. When I think of my favorite singers of all time it is mostly females that come to mind... Billie, Karen, Judy, Mama Cass...
But my #1 is, always and without hesitation, Patsy Cline.