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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from jvanchicago in The Escort Disclaimer   
    Legally, it makes more sense for money exchange at the end of a session- AFTER anything consensual has happened between two adults. Asking to be paid up-front is classically bad form in this industry, always has been.
     
    Truly high-end business neither focuses on this kind of money exchange nor worries it won't be paid.
     
    With elite clientele, it's not the cash you're concerned with: It's making sure the experience is impeccable so they'll keep coming back.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Deadlift1 in Are You Homophobic?   
    All minority groups inner-discriminate: This is not exclusive to the gay community.
     
    There's a lot of behavioral bullshit within our own that I don't condone for myself. It's likely why the majority of my friends are straight. While comfortable with myself as a gay man, I don't have a huge group of gay friends. I'm fine with that.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + easygoingpal in Are You Homophobic?   
    All minority groups inner-discriminate: This is not exclusive to the gay community.
     
    There's a lot of behavioral bullshit within our own that I don't condone for myself. It's likely why the majority of my friends are straight. While comfortable with myself as a gay man, I don't have a huge group of gay friends. I'm fine with that.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from EastbayMike in Are You Homophobic?   
    All minority groups inner-discriminate: This is not exclusive to the gay community.
     
    There's a lot of behavioral bullshit within our own that I don't condone for myself. It's likely why the majority of my friends are straight. While comfortable with myself as a gay man, I don't have a huge group of gay friends. I'm fine with that.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + jrhoutex in The Escort Disclaimer   
    Legally, it makes more sense for money exchange at the end of a session- AFTER anything consensual has happened between two adults. Asking to be paid up-front is classically bad form in this industry, always has been.
     
    Truly high-end business neither focuses on this kind of money exchange nor worries it won't be paid.
     
    With elite clientele, it's not the cash you're concerned with: It's making sure the experience is impeccable so they'll keep coming back.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from BabyBoomer in The Escort Disclaimer   
    Legally, it makes more sense for money exchange at the end of a session- AFTER anything consensual has happened between two adults. Asking to be paid up-front is classically bad form in this industry, always has been.
     
    Truly high-end business neither focuses on this kind of money exchange nor worries it won't be paid.
     
    With elite clientele, it's not the cash you're concerned with: It's making sure the experience is impeccable so they'll keep coming back.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in The Escort Disclaimer   
    Legally, it makes more sense for money exchange at the end of a session- AFTER anything consensual has happened between two adults. Asking to be paid up-front is classically bad form in this industry, always has been.
     
    Truly high-end business neither focuses on this kind of money exchange nor worries it won't be paid.
     
    With elite clientele, it's not the cash you're concerned with: It's making sure the experience is impeccable so they'll keep coming back.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from MikeyGMin in The Escort Disclaimer   
    Legally, it makes more sense for money exchange at the end of a session- AFTER anything consensual has happened between two adults. Asking to be paid up-front is classically bad form in this industry, always has been.
     
    Truly high-end business neither focuses on this kind of money exchange nor worries it won't be paid.
     
    With elite clientele, it's not the cash you're concerned with: It's making sure the experience is impeccable so they'll keep coming back.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to jawjateck in The Escort Disclaimer   
    If a provider lists the legal verbage as the very first thing in the text of his ad, I immediately hit the "x" because I know he is someone who doesn't have a clue about the biz or how to satisfy a client.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to Aaron_Bauder in The Escort Disclaimer   
    Are disclaimers a guarantee you're all clear? Obviously not. But giving your potential future defense attorney at least something to work with by refusing to directly promise sex acts in exchange for money is better than freely giving a prosectuor all he needs to convict.
     
    Good defense attorneys have gotten guilty parties off on legalese, wording, and semantics. Words, letters, and the letter of the law actually do matter in court. A good defense attorney will not let insinsuation and suggestion alone be enough to convince 12 people beyond resonable doubt you broke laws. Disclaimer or no, if the prosecution has foolproof evidence you've engaged in illegal acts, you will likely be convicted. So why provide such evidence to them freely?
     
    This risk comes with the territory, hence why clients should think twice balking what escorts charge. This is risky business, not a free for all. And all escorts should have a legal defense emergency fund, just in case.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from adventurous old guy in Mintboys.com   
    The circuit video on the landing page automatically makes it all feel very dated to me. Was this a drag-and-drop design or was it done by someone with creative design experience?
     
    In escorting, there's always been a slight sense of the great unknown between two first-timers meeting up: Mintboys, or any listing site for that matter, isn't going to change that. For many, it's part of the allure.
     
    My two cents of advice: Keep things simple. Make accessing information quick and clean. Don't make your customer base feel seedy.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from TBearTX in Escorts and So Many Tattoos   
    Gauche
     
    http://www.dictionary.com/browse/gauche
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from marylander1940 in I FINALLY did it!   
    You have your bitcoin.
     
    I have my Apple and Google stock.
     
    We all win
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from rvwnsd in Tom Daley And Lance Black Are In China   
    It's okay to be envious. Jealousy, however, is a useless thing.
     
    They're cute, but having to (or feeling you have to) document every single movement would get tiring. When everything is fodder for the brand, when does an actual relationship have time to grow and develop?
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + easygoingpal in I FINALLY did it!   
    You have your bitcoin.
     
    I have my Apple and Google stock.
     
    We all win
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + bashful in Ryan Steel   
    Considering you're the Sausage King of Chicago, I'm not surprised
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Ryan Steel   
    Considering you're the Sausage King of Chicago, I'm not surprised
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Wunder82 in Escorts and So Many Tattoos   
    I don't mind ink... On other guys.
     
    Never for me. I like my own skin clear, smooth and unpainted.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + GregM in Tom Daley And Lance Black Are In China   
    It's okay to be envious. Jealousy, however, is a useless thing.
     
    They're cute, but having to (or feeling you have to) document every single movement would get tiring. When everything is fodder for the brand, when does an actual relationship have time to grow and develop?
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to foxy in Three Billboards Outside Ebbing, Missouri   
    Looking for a warmhearted, happy holiday movie? This isn’t it. There’s lots of anger, tragedy, brutality, racism and interestingly humor. I found myself laughing in the oddest places. You get dragged around a lot in this movie and it’s a riveting ride that leaves you hanging at the end.
    With an Oscar worthy performance by Frances McDormand who is surrounded by a cast who manages to keep up with her much of the time. I left the theater feeling a little exhausted but felt I’d seen what might be the best film of the year.
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    + BenjaminNicholas reacted to Rudynate in So sick of seeing bad tattoos   
    This. What's weird about tattoo threads is how often they devolve into a snide vindictiveness from the tattoo police.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + WmClarke in Tom Daley And Lance Black Are In China   
    It's okay to be envious. Jealousy, however, is a useless thing.
     
    They're cute, but having to (or feeling you have to) document every single movement would get tiring. When everything is fodder for the brand, when does an actual relationship have time to grow and develop?
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from hougalwizard in The Escort Disclaimer   
    As others have said, it's a useless thing to state. It immediately makes me feel the escort doing it is in over his head.
     
    What matters more is having a great attorney at arm's length in the event you need him.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Populist Fury in The Escort Disclaimer   
    As others have said, it's a useless thing to state. It immediately makes me feel the escort doing it is in over his head.
     
    What matters more is having a great attorney at arm's length in the event you need him.
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    + BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Tom Daley And Lance Black Are In China   
    It's okay to be envious. Jealousy, however, is a useless thing.
     
    They're cute, but having to (or feeling you have to) document every single movement would get tiring. When everything is fodder for the brand, when does an actual relationship have time to grow and develop?
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