This exact thing happened to me years ago. I tried but I don’t think we were able to make amends. It was an international travel arrangement so it’s impossible to find him again.
But, being self-conscious about everything related to me and my body and my sex, I’m forever questioning whether a complement is sincere. However, since the above experience I don’t verbalize it. I even question every moan and groan from the provider, thinking, “Is that real or just acting?”