Actually, I’ve found the exact opposite. Only a few providers are categorized as “Safe Only”. The bulk are “Ask Me”. And, when I’ve asked they are more than okay with bareback. I can’t talk about the bottom providers, however.
I lived in North Carolina for a bit in the 1980’s. We had to buy our alcohol at the ABC store - Alcohol Beverage Control store - a state-run regulated store. Not sure if it’s still that way. Anyone? Anyone? Bueller?
I totally understand. It would put me off and I would move on. I wish I could give you the pics. They are very nice. All nudes. They go from flaccid, to butts, to erections ending in a happy ending. All the same quality as his public pics.
I can’t talk for all gays but I’m never concerned about prostate exams. In fact, I joke with my urologist that he can start with two fingers. He’s gay and laughs that he’s afraid to lose his watch and rings. Now colonoscopies are a different story but not due to pain or discomfort. It is due to the prep the day before. It is just nasty!
That’s what is unfortunate and so limiting with RM and the other sites. It’s all so physicality-based. You have a very brief intro with the profile, but little of their personality is shown. It’s very probable that we pass by some profiles simply because the pics weren’t eye catching. But, if you had a chance to get to know them, they might be the most attractive person on the site.
I’m certainly not rich. In fact, I’m on disability so my funds are limited. But, I do make exceptions for my hobby. If necessary, there are always credit cards and PayPal if I need something immediately, tho they still have to be paid.
I’m sure they have been used for the “pleasurement” of boys everywhere. I, myself, never used lube. The problem with greasy products would be clean up. I hate when any clean up requires more time than the very act itself.
Question though - Wasn’t “A little dab will do ya” the slogan for Dippity Do?