Ok, I watched most of his videos and the long one of him explaining himself. I understand where he's coming from but he did say he will accept text messages as long as you are very thorough when you initiate but a phone call will have to happen before meeting which is fine. He didn't say he requires a photo or facetime prior to meeting (unless I missed a video). I will be sent to Vegas for work for approximately a month so he was on the top of my list. I'm still skeptical though because as much as I think he would be cool, relaxed, and chill once we meet...he has this very "dick-ish" aura about him as well that is a turn-off. But then again i'm watching videos of him complaining about flakes so I guess I would be a dick too. haha Thanks for the feedback!