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I told him I'd only pay market rate from NYC and didn't pay that price. So my curiosity didn't cost that price.
 
I should add, it wasn't a terrible experience overall. Massage was decent, there was a good ending too. So the experience was not bad. But if I'm paying a premium, you best be sure you look like and deliver what is expected. I have no issue leaving you at the door.

I'll add my two cents on Igor / Pedro (https://rentmasseur.com/Igor_Masseur)...
 
I met up with him a few weeks ago. I think both accounts are correct. I am guessing that if you saw him when he first arrived in NYC, he may have looked close to those pictures. I think those pics were taken on the absolute best fitness day of his life, ever, lol.
 
But the months he's been here in NYC, he must not have a gym membership or something. He doesn't look close to that form. And when you add in the fact that he's actually very very short (not close to 5'8 more like 5,5) , it sorta diminishes the appeal alot.
 
That said, when I meet him a few weeks ago,, I happened to pay far less than $300. And if I did offer to pay that much expecting the guy in the photo's to answer the door, and saw the current shape of the guyt, I'd turn around and leave!
 
My pro tip: Whenever I see "Ask" for a rate. I tell them what I want to pay first. If they come back requesting more. I tell them, I've sent out other inquiries to others in the area at my stated rate, and I'll get back to them later as they are more expensive than others. 9 out of 10 times, they'll take your rate to not lose business. It also helps if you are ready to meet them right away.

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I'll add my two cents on Igor / Pedro (https://rentmasseur.com/Igor_Masseur)...
 
I met up with him a few weeks ago. I think both accounts are correct. I am guessing that if you saw him when he first arrived in NYC, he may have looked close to those pictures. I think those pics were taken on the absolute best fitness day of his life, ever, lol.
 
But the months he's been here in NYC, he must not have a gym membership or something. He doesn't look close to that form. And when you add in the fact that he's actually very very short (not close to 5'8 more like 5,5) , it sorta diminishes the appeal alot.
 
That said, when I meet him a few weeks ago,, I happened to pay far less than $300. And if I did offer to pay that much expecting the guy in the photo's to answer the door, and saw the current shape of the guyt, I'd turn around and leave!
 
My pro tip: Whenever I see "Ask" for a rate. I tell them what I want to pay first. If they come back requesting more. I tell them, I've sent out other inquiries to others in the area at my stated rate, and I'll get back to them later as they are more expensive than others. 9 out of 10 times, they'll take your rate to not lose business. It also helps if you are ready to meet them right away.

So true! lol. What saves Pasha for me, is that he's actually gives a great massage and ending. I don't know how he manages to push all my buttons, every time. He has great pacing that just crescendo's at the end. It's not very sensual at all really, but very effective.
So when you get that from a very good looking guy, it all just works.
 
Pasha's greatest skill may be his consistency. I can't stand the "will he or won't he" game of newbies or the " skip the massage and straight to the fun" with some of the more known erotic or sensual providers.
 
So when I want a great massage and ending without all the uncertainty, I know that Pasha delivers. What sucks is if he ever offered an massage+escort option, I'd be a weekly customer,lol. But he has never given the slightest hint of doing that. Especially, not with me and from anyone I'm aware of on the forum. And I'm in double digits the amount of times I've seen him over the years. It's like a minor miracle when a person says he got slightly aroused! So seeing him is great, but also very frustrating!
 
That said, I'm looking forward to seeing him later today...

So true! lol. What saves Pasha for me, is that he's actually gives a great massage and ending. I don't know how he manages to push all my buttons, every time. He has great pacing that just crescendo's at the end. It's not very sensual at all really, but very effective.
So when you get that from a very good looking guy, it all just works.
 
Pasha's greatest skill may be his consistency. I can't stand the "will he or won't he" game of newbies or the " skip the massage and straight to the fun" with some of the more known erotic or sensual providers.
 
So when I want a great massage and ending without all the uncertainty, I know that Pasha delivers. What sucks is if he ever offered an massage+escort option, I'd be a weekly customer,lol. But he has never given the slightest hint of doing that. Especially, not with me and from anyone I'm aware of on the forum. And I'm in double digits the amount of times I've seen him over the years. It's like a minor miracle when a person says he got slightly aroused! So seeing him is great, but also very frustrating!
 
That said, I'm looking forward to seeing him later today...

So true! lol. What saves Pasha for me, is that he's actually gives a great massage and ending. I don't know how he manages to push all my buttons, every time. He has great pacing that just crescendo's at the end. It's not very sensual at all really, but very effective.
So when you get that from a very good looking guy, it all just works.
 
Pasha's greatest skill may be his consistency. I can't stand the "will he or won't he" game of newbies or the " skip the massage and straight to the fun" with some of the more known erotic or sensual providers.
 
So when I want a great massage and ending without all the uncertainty, I know that Pasha delivers. What sucks is if he ever offered an massage+escort option, I'd be a weekly customer,lol. But he has never given the slightest hint of doing that. Especially, not with me and from anyone I'm aware of on the forum. And I'm in double digits the amount of times I've seen him over the years. It's like a minor miracle when a person says he got slightly aroused! So seeing him is great, but also very frustrating!
 
That said, I'm looking forward to seeing him later today...

He’s very real. Had a session with him.
Perhaps not the best masseur but very interactive and super hot.

I am not sure why you think it is a taboo. We talk about it all the time. “He is Russian”, “he is black”, “he is Asian”, “he is Latino”, “he is Turkish”, etc. etc.
 
Among the popular spas, Supermen spa, and 27 men spa have the most diversity.
I guess utopia can be included in that list too, but it has fewer masseurs than the other 2.
 
Manta used to be quite diverse but I stopped going more than a year ago, so not sure about the current status.

I saw him a couple weeks ago.
 
Requested mutual nude, he agreed. However when he arrived he demurred. Saying that he had a few bad experiences with "old guys" trying to finger him or attempt oral on him. Neither of which was my intention and for the record I'm not what people typically consider old, unless they're 23 or something. But I digress....
 
Massage was adequate, and filled with funny talk about his new hot girlfriend and fledgling personal training empire. He's easy to talk to and engaging. I did call him out on the underwear thing at the end and he said he'd be more comfortable maybe...NEXT time.
 
I've been to busy to confirm if that would be the case. That said, he's a nice guy but I saw he raised his price to $180.
 
I don't go that high unless I am assured of the exact massage I know I'm going to get.

I saw him a couple weeks ago.
 
Requested mutual nude, he agreed. However when he arrived he demurred. Saying that he had a few bad experiences with "old guys" trying to finger him or attempt oral on him. Neither of which was my intention and for the record I'm not what people typically consider old, unless they're 23 or something. But I digress....
 
Massage was adequate, and filled with funny talk about his new hot girlfriend and fledgling personal training empire. He's easy to talk to and engaging. I did call him out on the underwear thing at the end and he said he'd be more comfortable maybe...NEXT time.
 
I've been to busy to confirm if that would be the case. That said, he's a nice guy but I saw he raised his price to $180.
 
I don't go that high unless I am assured of the exact massage I know I'm going to get.

Agree with everything described. Totally happened to me too.
 
Barely 30 minutes then flipped over. But he's pretty open to MT after the flip.
 
So I think he likes to be touched too. But it would be nice to save the flip for a bit later.
 
And yes, the language barrier is a bit of mood killer. But the body is a mood enhancer.

Be advised, He has some "racial" issues. So not everyone need apply.
 
Ziggy is alot of fun and super nice. That would be my recommendation.

Damn. That's a hot one.

This issue is always such a sticky point. I'm sure people would be equally upset when escorts say "No Fats, No Fems" as well. My issue with these type of people is how I have to navigate their issues. Anytime I approach an escort who's of a different race, I have to wonder if they will either: Not reply back or say they aren't into my race. The worst is when they do show up and then don't perform. It makes you wonder why they can't perform. Happened to me with Mike Gaite who people love on here. Was it racial, no idea. but it makes me wonder why this person can't perform for me, but get glowing reviews.
 
I think it would be more honest if he replied in every response to an inquiry, " So you are aware, I am not available for appts with the following ethnicities...."
 
This way he's being upfront about his limitations. Instead he hides behind asking what race the inquirer is and then rejecting them or not responding. Thus causing the inquirer to feel negative and possibly inadequate.
 
He should own his limitations, so that people can make a choice to deal with a limited person, or move on by full disclosure at every inquiry. Much like if you go to any other service provider and they say, we don't serve Gay people. That info would be good to know as early as possible.

This issue is always such a sticky point. I'm sure people would be equally upset when escorts say "No Fats, No Fems" as well. My issue with these type of people is how I have to navigate their issues. Anytime I approach an escort who's of a different race, I have to wonder if they will either: Not reply back or say they aren't into my race. The worst is when they do show up and then don't perform. It makes you wonder why they can't perform. Happened to me with Mike Gaite who people love on here. Was it racial, no idea. but it makes me wonder why this person can't perform for me, but get glowing reviews.
 
I think it would be more honest if he replied in every response to an inquiry, " So you are aware, I am not available for appts with the following ethnicities...."
 
This way he's being upfront about his limitations. Instead he hides behind asking what race the inquirer is and then rejecting them or not responding. Thus causing the inquirer to feel negative and possibly inadequate.
 
He should own his limitations, so that people can make a choice to deal with a limited person, or move on by full disclosure at every inquiry. Much like if you go to any other service provider and they say, we don't serve Gay people. That info would be good to know as early as possible.

This issue is always such a sticky point. I'm sure people would be equally upset when escorts say "No Fats, No Fems" as well. My issue with these type of people is how I have to navigate their issues. Anytime I approach an escort who's of a different race, I have to wonder if they will either: Not reply back or say they aren't into my race. The worst is when they do show up and then don't perform. It makes you wonder why they can't perform. Happened to me with Mike Gaite who people love on here. Was it racial, no idea. but it makes me wonder why this person can't perform for me, but get glowing reviews.
 
I think it would be more honest if he replied in every response to an inquiry, " So you are aware, I am not available for appts with the following ethnicities...."
 
This way he's being upfront about his limitations. Instead he hides behind asking what race the inquirer is and then rejecting them or not responding. Thus causing the inquirer to feel negative and possibly inadequate.
 
He should own his limitations, so that people can make a choice to deal with a limited person, or move on by full disclosure at every inquiry. Much like if you go to any other service provider and they say, we don't serve Gay people. That info would be good to know as early as possible.

This issue is always such a sticky point. I'm sure people would be equally upset when escorts say "No Fats, No Fems" as well. My issue with these type of people is how I have to navigate their issues. Anytime I approach an escort who's of a different race, I have to wonder if they will either: Not reply back or say they aren't into my race. The worst is when they do show up and then don't perform. It makes you wonder why they can't perform. Happened to me with Mike Gaite who people love on here. Was it racial, no idea. but it makes me wonder why this person can't perform for me, but get glowing reviews.
 
I think it would be more honest if he replied in every response to an inquiry, " So you are aware, I am not available for appts with the following ethnicities...."
 
This way he's being upfront about his limitations. Instead he hides behind asking what race the inquirer is and then rejecting them or not responding. Thus causing the inquirer to feel negative and possibly inadequate.
 
He should own his limitations, so that people can make a choice to deal with a limited person, or move on by full disclosure at every inquiry. Much like if you go to any other service provider and they say, we don't serve Gay people. That info would be good to know as early as possible.

Although I did feel crappy about being rejected, I do understand him on the preference issue. The thing I’m mostly upset about was the approach he took to get the information. It was just insincere and made the rejection felt worse. He could have just said to me “I prefer clients who are (whichever races).” Instead, he chose to initially cover up his real intention by making me think he wanted information to help him recognize me once we met. If you get to talk to him, please let him know that his current approach was hurtful, and that he should be more upfront about what he wants. Not necessarily on the ad itself, but in the subsequent communication with a client. No need to make up stuff to justify the question.

Be advised, He has some "racial" issues. So not everyone need apply.
 
Ziggy is alot of fun and super nice. That would be my recommendation.

Be advised, He has some "racial" issues. So not everyone need apply.
 
Ziggy is alot of fun and super nice. That would be my recommendation.

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I hear he can be hit or miss depending on the chemistry. But I know from trusted sources...

I would recommend: https://rent.men/boylegacy/
 
Saw him a few weeks ago and he was outstanding.

I saw him a couple weeks ago.
 
Requested mutual nude, he agreed. However when he arrived he demurred. Saying that he had a few bad experiences with "old guys" trying to finger him or attempt oral on him. Neither of which was my intention and for the record I'm not what people typically consider old, unless they're 23 or something. But I digress....
 
Massage was adequate, and filled with funny talk about his new hot girlfriend and fledgling personal training empire. He's easy to talk to and engaging. I did call him out on the underwear thing at the end and he said he'd be more comfortable maybe...NEXT time.
 
I've been to busy to confirm if that would be the case. That said, he's a nice guy but I saw he raised his price to $180.
 
I don't go that high unless I am assured of the exact massage I know I'm going to get.

Update:
I reached out and he said he was Theraputic usually....But If I send him a picture and $50 more, he'll consider sensual massage.
 
I'm not that Thirsty for this or really any massage guy to jump through those hoops.
 
It's always the ex-porn or supposed "pretty" people who feel they are special enough to demand such things. As if being in their presence requires heavy consideration.
 
So...I'm Out.