TruthBTold

I watched a limited (six part) documentary series on Netflix that I thought was very, very good. It is a six part series that recounts "[a] boy's brutal murder and the public trials of his guardians and social workers." As the website states, the trials "prompt questions about system's protection of vulnerable children." The show is very difficult to watch at times but certainly makes you realize that our society must handle such cases in a much better way. For example, being quicker to respond to reports of abuse and taking quicker action when credible reports are made. It also highlighted how uncoordinated the various sections of government are when trying to keep children safe. One of the things that I found most interesting was the thread of homophobia that runs through the questions about his murder. Both regarding why the murder happened and how it could have been prevented to begin with (Gabriel's placement with his great-uncle). https://www.netflix.com/title/80220207 https://www.rogerebert.com/demanders/unflinching-the-trials-of-gabriel-fernandez-will-haunt-you

It always appeared to me that if a top is really all that comfortable with bottoming he will just choose "versatile" on his profile. Otherwise if you choose a top/versatile thinking he will be comfortable with it I think you will be disappointed.

That gets much more into the female area. I guess if you are into the bisexual thing.

Oh, so this is the sort of thing that has been going on! I am going to have to check into these antics.

There are times that I have seen someone check off the choice "versatile/bottom". But I always figure they mean "I am a pure bottom unless you put a gun to my head - literally."

I am more of the full fat camp. And really almost any fruit and of any type (fresh or canned). But my other fetish is cracked black pepper.

I think it depends on the bottom. The top has to read that. For me I enjoy playing with a top as if he were a bottom but then having him turn the tables and make me the bottom and enjoy it. He certainly can please himself at the same time (in fact that is preferable) but that feeling of being overpowered is what I like.

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