I have thought about this question and while, of course, personal attraction depends on a lot of things (many of which have already been delineated). Those things are deeply personal and actually may change over time. However, I had to remind myself that one should respect everyone no matter what we think of their masculine v. feminine traits. I reminded myself that the beginning of the movement for self-respect of our community and the movement for our rights began mainly from marginalized people (drag queens and transgender people) at Stonewall. They were the ones that fought the police the first night and began the riots that lasted the next few days. Those people led to groups being organized to fight for our rights so we owe them a lot.