That is a very story that Joy B. told. I had not heard it before. But once I listened to it a youtube clip with Bette Midler was next and I watched that with Bette and Barbara Walters. Bette was doing a couch routine where she was asking Barbara various questions and she asked Barbara if she had ever "taken a dip in the lady pond?" Barbara had no idea what she was talking about. When someone whispered to her just what it meant, Barbara turned to Bette and said, "No, but if I did it would be with you in it." It was hysterical.