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TruthBTold

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  1. I would have to disagree here. This would assume both that the other person does not suspect/know about what is going on and that what you are doing is for their benefit. If you are not honest, they may be hurt. Not being totally honest does not give them a chance to make a decision they may wish to make. As I said previously, they may surprise you with the decision they make. Certainly, we all have a right to be selfish. We can have that extra piece of cake or smoke a cigarette when we like. What we don't have a right to be selfish about is a situation that involves the feelings of others so directly. If you feel that you need to have sex with men then tell your partner that. You don't have a right to be selfish and skirt the issue. I have learned this the hard way. I was living with someone and the sex was starting to get a little stale. We talked about it but I did not think it was getting better. So I decided to be selfish and go out very occasionally to satisfy my craving. My partner found out eventually and that was that. The ironic thing was that after he found out he said that he would have been just fine with the occasional threesome and actually he felt the same thing. So, I do not think you have a right to be selfish when it involves the intimate emotions and feelings of others.
  2. I'm dreaming he kisses really deep.
  3. Would the fact that I see the OnlyFans vids from a particular poster in certain torrents mean that OnlyFans (or at least from that poster) allows downloads?
  4. Nothing like a @23 year old butt just waiting for what you have to offer.
  5. Really, if you are offended by his furniture invite him to your house and fuck the shit out of him. Everybody is happy and he does not have to wash his sheets.
  6. This guy looks like he could make a cock really happy.
  7. As usual, I soak up all that PK says as true. The other thing that you are lucky for is that as you evolve society also evolves. Earlier decades were not as easy (and I am not suggesting that it is easy now) so you have that going for you. You can feel that much better about yourself. We would have had to sneak into seeing Call Me By Your Name and feel somewhat ashamed at watching it. Now people plunk down their $12 and walk right in. Some with their girlfriends. I would like to emphasize something PK brought up. As with all relationships, you are not in it alone. That has its good parts and bad parts. However you have responsibilities toward them, foremost being honest. People can take a lot but usually they cannot abide being lied to. For example, if at some point you are with a woman who you want to spend an ongoing time with you would absolutely need to tell her that you have these desires and needs and they must be part of your life. Nowadays I have noticed your partner may say, "Cool, I just want to also be there to suck his cock and yours and kiss his muscles and yours." Much stranger things have happened. Or your partner may say, "Nope, doesn't work for me, sorry." Then you just have to make a desire with the knowledge that first and foremost you have the obligation of honesty. It sounds like you have accepted the greatest desire, i.e., the desire to do the right thing. Like PK, I wish you the best of luck and you should know that there are many people on the Forum that have gone through the same thing at one time or another. You can ask about a small problem and then make a decision.
  8. I already posted this in another thread but I thought I would also put it hear because I thought it was amusing. I was just a throwaway line in a comedy show. I apologize it to those who have already read it. "I hate all this gender fluidity. I miss the days when straights was straight, gays were gay, and bis were lying."
  9. I use a Mac also but have very little computer knowledge. When you say "screen record", what do you mean? Generally, I like to download to my desktop and then I will save to a disc. I like to have a disc of one vid because I generally am going to use it for one purpose (the obvious one) and the recorded vids are just about the right time. I don't usually use Quicktime but that may be only because I do not have the ?app. At any rate, if you could just say how the best way to download to screen so that it could be then downloaded to disc would be great.
  10. Kyle welcome to the Forum. Of course, not really knowing you it is hard to speak to your concerns. However, I am just getting this feeling that you may not being totally honest with yourself. That there may be something holding you back from accepting some basic things in your nature because of the consequences what they may mean for you. I think that you have a good grasp on the notion that you have to decide what you need and what you really want. For example, there are many gay men (if we are going to put people in categories) that do not fuck. They are perfectly happy to perform oral and it is the person that they are with that still makes them happy and satisfies them. The fact that you came to seek out these outlooks makes me believe that there is something deeper you would like to find and that your current situation may not be where you actually want to be. Then again maybe it is. All I am suggesting is that you really need to look at everything and not be afraid to lose some things because in the end you will end up gaining others (perhaps happiness and satisfaction). I am not trying to sound dire because you are young and have plenty of time to think. We can change our whole life.
  11. I am WAY too old for this movie. I can't wait to see it.
  12. Taken from the Wikipedia reference. They are "Works based on the legend" and "idiomatic use": The 1889 novel A Marriage Below Zero by Alfred J. Cohen (pen name: Alan Dale) has a young gay couple continually referring to themselves as Damon and Pythias. Soon the upscale social world that they try pass in begins to refer to them with the same term, but as derogatory codeword for 'gay couple.' In a 1959 Leave It to Beaver episode, Beaver's father relates the Damon and Pythias story and Beaver donates his homework to friend Larry to prove their friendship. Larry confesses moments before Beaver loses a week of recesses. In the 1950 Bowery Boys movie Blonde Dynamite, the boys establish a male escort service out of their foil Louie's ice cream parlor while they have conveniently sent him to Coney Island on vacation; Slip Mahoney (Leo Gorcey) tells the other boys to "Let Damon and Pythias fight it out!" referring to Sach and Whitey (Huntz Hall and Billy Benedict) as to which of the two will be included in a group date with a bevy of femmes fatale.
  13. My eyes get mesmerized to the rhythm.
  14. He seems to be a to notch player in the front and the back!
  15. The butt IS magnificent but the face is so pretty.
  16. Who takes a pic of themselves peeing?
  17. I could get behind that. And I hope he makes it one of his BB fliks. Cause sometimes he gets crazy and covers up as he does for himself.
  18. Interesting. At least he and his partner were able to spend time in Europe prior to their fate on the Titanic.
  19. Thanks. He has a nice twitter link on his RM profile page.
  20. Yummm. He certainly has a lot going on. One of his RM reviewers said that he had worked with his "boyfriend Jessie." Sounds interesting.
  21. I'm with you there. That is why I thought a link would be nice. Each of us might have a different idea of how "incredible" an ass is. It may be more than what we even imagined it to be.
  22. I could definitely see him agreeing to wearing the helmet and all while he fucked you. If that is your thing.
  23. You gentlemen keep recommending alexhawk for many reasons however even though you can find his profile page there really no contact info. Actually there is nothing that even indicates that he might be for hire or that links to a e.g., rentmen page. A few guys have that information on their information or profile pages. Just saying. Am I missing something?
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