It really does seem nutty or at least vague. What I meant was that from my experience I can only take so big a cock and look for an escort with that in mind. Way, way big means an exclusion from my list. It is not a bad thing on either of our parts. I just am not going to force myself to try to enjoy something I probably won't. There is too much eligible dick out there. The hard part for me was always more on the private dating side where I really don't get a glimpse before it is there staring me in the face. Sometimes in those situations where I have thought, "No way, no how, there's the door" I was lucky to be with a guy who spent the time to make me want it and be able to take it. It, unfortunately, is often the luck of the draw. Not sure if that makes any more sense.