I hate that guys do not list exactly what position they are offering to engage in. Of course, they know that they can always change the extremes if need be. By that I mean, if a guy only wants to top, he can put that but if he will also bottom if asked he can say that if asked. Or he can just put versatile/top and say that he will bottom if he will ask or just top as he intended. The same can be said for a bottom who is a versatile/bottom. But to put nothing or "ask me" for some reason just irks me.