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I have no personal experience but I did read reviewers comments and they were all complimentary and positive.   

...I have wondered myself.

...If they are lurking, they ain't gonna reply!

Could not deal with those lips!

Yummy indeed 

Those pics have not been updated for quite a long time.

And the way a man walks. Some men have the sexiest walk. It's hard to describe what constitutes a sexy walk, but I know it when I see it.

A guy with a fresh haircut, and smells just smells great (natural scent or cologne).
Looks great in tailored suit.
Can cook. He doesn't need to be a chef, but a man who knows his way around a kitchen is *chef's kiss*

It’s still incorrect.
I find that to be evil on a level that is hard to comprehend. 

Trivia - Joe Biden is just 8 months older than Mick Jagger.

Some 30 years ago my mother was diagnosed with lung cancer, following surgery that removed her left lung. The cancer had already spread before the surgery, but this fact was not known until after. At some later point she was enrolled for radiation treatments at a local hospital, solely to provide palliative care. She had developed a brain tumor that was causing pain and the treatments would provide relief. An ambulance would come to pick her up, take her to and bring her home from the hospital.
On one occasion, as the medics were about to carry her gurney down the front steps, she grabbed my hand and looked up. Then this woman -in pain and knowing she was dying- looked at me and said, "I guess this is worst thing I've ever put you through." My heart went up in my throat, and all I could think to say was, "Well, I think it might be a little harder on you." Each of us more concerned for the other, and truthfully, I still don't know who was right.
But her example is the antithesis of the self-centered world view described by the OP, and I admire her as much as I miss her. She was of an older and different generation, survivors of the Depression, poverty, wars, and disasters, and it took a lot to faze these people. Later this year, I will observe her 100th birthday.

Beautiful story. Thanks for sharing.

I tend to agree with this statement. Since he was in a coma, I'm going to assume he wasn't aware anything was wrong.
But for his wife...to suddenly have your life partner slip into a coma is surely a terrifying event with no script for a guaranteed outcome.  You don't know if it's going to be two days or two years, or you may never speak to your husband again.
My mother has been caring for my father for years. He suffers from advanced emphysema (ex pack-a-day smoker). She's been tasked with his care for years, mostly alone and is the one who needs to discover him when he falls down, has (another) stroke, and shits himself. While most people ask about my father, who's the one who's terminally ill. I always make a point to ask my mother how SHE'S holding up and what can I do for HER.

Frankly you sound like a bit of a misanthrope. Must be tough.

Proud to be acquainted with and friends with Purple kow in Brooklyn, Rod Hagen in weho and Nate in Long Beach. Given the chance I too would be happy to meet other members of The Forum in a social setting. I find The Men Who subscribe to this service to be clever and very friendly.

The guy with the long hair looks like a prison escapee I saw in the news. I think he murdered his wife.

Taking advantage of others is unfortunately a part of human nature. 
Managers take advantage of and manipulate their underlings.
Parents exploit and manipulate their children.
Politicians take advantage of their supporters.
Gold-digging women love to roll dumb men with money to lose.
Straight men feast off of young, naive women and have a specific craving for dumb virgins.
…… and in gay world, there are men who prey on young boys right at the cusp of manhood and get cheap thrills from straight guys who are in tough situations and on the flip side, there are straight men who snooker the dumb and the desperate of gay men, and there are twinks who hustle other gay men all the time. 

They key to survival is to make sure you don’t become the PREY.
“Don’t hate the player, hate the game…” 

Great torso. ( Whoever that is ). I'm gonna take a stab in the dark and say that it's not who's running that ad.

When I was in my mid teens I remember springing a boner when I was sitting in church beside my parents or on the city bus going to school. What an embarrassment.
Now those days are a distant memory. Sigh. 

I have been hiring mostly from the websites for Masseurs for a few years now. I have found that now I enjoy a good erotic massage more than escort services. I don't know what took me there, but it seems to work now. 
I have found that if you search their ads on www.masseurfinder.com that if the masseur is formally trained, you will see it listed in his advertisement. I have had some very nice meetings with some very hot guys and find it to be fun. I have also met a masseur before and he had no idea what he was doing, but he was very hot and just loved me exploring his body. 
I think I would like to eventually transition to an equal balance between hiring a masseur and escorts. 

...If they are lurking, they ain't gonna reply!

I have been hiring mostly from the websites for Masseurs for a few years now. I have found that now I enjoy a good erotic massage more than escort services. I don't know what took me there, but it seems to work now. 
I have found that if you search their ads on www.masseurfinder.com that if the masseur is formally trained, you will see it listed in his advertisement. I have had some very nice meetings with some very hot guys and find it to be fun. I have also met a masseur before and he had no idea what he was doing, but he was very hot and just loved me exploring his body. 
I think I would like to eventually transition to an equal balance between hiring a masseur and escorts. 

No, anal does not interest me at this time, I am happy with massage and giving him head.

I have been hiring mostly from the websites for Masseurs for a few years now. I have found that now I enjoy a good erotic massage more than escort services. I don't know what took me there, but it seems to work now. 
I have found that if you search their ads on www.masseurfinder.com that if the masseur is formally trained, you will see it listed in his advertisement. I have had some very nice meetings with some very hot guys and find it to be fun. I have also met a masseur before and he had no idea what he was doing, but he was very hot and just loved me exploring his body. 
I think I would like to eventually transition to an equal balance between hiring a masseur and escorts.