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I have been hiring mostly from the websites for Masseurs for a few years now. I have found that now I enjoy a good erotic massage more than escort services. I don't know what took me there, but it seems to work now. 
I have found that if you search their ads on www.masseurfinder.com that if the masseur is formally trained, you will see it listed in his advertisement. I have had some very nice meetings with some very hot guys and find it to be fun. I have also met a masseur before and he had no idea what he was doing, but he was very hot and just loved me exploring his body. 
I think I would like to eventually transition to an equal balance between hiring a masseur and escorts. 

...If they are lurking, they ain't gonna reply!

...If they are lurking, they ain't gonna reply!

I have been hiring mostly from the websites for Masseurs for a few years now. I have found that now I enjoy a good erotic massage more than escort services. I don't know what took me there, but it seems to work now. 
I have found that if you search their ads on www.masseurfinder.com that if the masseur is formally trained, you will see it listed in his advertisement. I have had some very nice meetings with some very hot guys and find it to be fun. I have also met a masseur before and he had no idea what he was doing, but he was very hot and just loved me exploring his body. 
I think I would like to eventually transition to an equal balance between hiring a masseur and escorts. 

...If they are lurking, they ain't gonna reply!

People are willing to shave their age, increase their height, exaggerate their endowment, etc. in order to be more marketable or desirable - whether they are a provider or a client.  There is no reason to assume that people would give truthful information about their health status, or that their listed status is current.  It is not safe to make assumptions when it comes to health matters, and it is very risky to accept the status that is listed in the ad as being (a) accurate, and (b) up-to-date.  Ultimately everyone has to be responsible for their own protection, and also people need to remember there are many more diseases and conditions one can contract that are not listed on an RM advertisement.

Unfortunately, I've not garned the skill of hitting on straight men or even gay men for that matter.  Back in the 90's two abso-fucking-beautiful muscular men lived across the street from me.  One guy was a techie I guess, he was interviewed on 60 minutes.  The other drove a motorcycle.  I was so enamored, yet I didn't know to approach them, so I put a note on the motorcyle with my number and $ signs.  Alas . . . no luck.

I recently hinted at a guy on Grindr about an arrangement and I thought he was going to take me up on it . . . then he was gone.

Come on guys, I give excellent head, so I've been told, and I'm willing to donate to your favorite charity to give it!  Sheesh, what'a guy to do?

Another very hot interaction I've had...
Went to eat at a Chili's with 3 friends one night. We had an EXTREMELY muscled up server. I was not out - AT ALL.
The 3 friends get up to go to the bathroom at the end of the meal. Muscle server boy comes over and I say "Hey, I hope this doesn't offend you but you are AMAZINGLY HOT!! Look, my friends have NO CLUE but I am gay. If you ever want to make a little bit more money, text me and let me know."
Gave him my number and he said "sounds good, I'll text you when I get off."
A few hours go by and I get this "Hey bud, this is ____ from Chili's. I'm down for taking you up on your offer. What you looking to do?" My reply: "best discussed with a phone call." Phone rings.
He came over the next day after the gym and I spent several months helping this guy out and he helping me out. 
Damn, that was ONE HOT ITALIAN!!!!!

C’mon, unless you’re a big muscle addict, he’s got a cute build!

I guess we can't get passed the tattoos

Beware of asking this question.
I had a regular that I considered one of the "kindest" people I knew. Then he started on drugs.
Remember - it's all an act. Both providers and client are just acting.

Age in one is 28 and age in other is 27, that means he is about 31...

Well, one should hire him for after a colonoscopy, no further prep necessary!
 

Ehhh, everyone needs a gut check once in a while, even on the simple stuff.  That's why we're here for each other.  🙂

so wednesday night kicked off the after party venues in las vegas with the porn boys for the gayvn weekend. it was located at the garden. a few of the hot porn studs have ads up on rentmen. what i found so refreshing was that i met many of the "stars" out that night and each of them were as sweet as can be. no arrogance or attitude what so ever! i chatted with three in particular. after meeting, seeing each other in person and good conversation all were willing to escort for me. only one of the three i think advertises.
so my point is that nothing will ever take place of the good old fashioned meet and greets. so much is learned from not only personal interaction and conversation but just human interaction. Onnes personal looks cant really be faked. personality is still paramount. none of this can be done through modern internet interactions. So kudos to the guys out there! I'm hoping the rest of the weekend will be just as eventful.

I haven’t been to a movie theater since well before Covid. I believe I saw Call Me By My Name.

The longest movie I ever saw in the theater was "Titanic". If the movie is more than 2 1/2 hours I'd rather wait to see it at home. I cannot sit still that long.

I think the new decor makes the place look more intimate and upscale.  I like the rug because the components of the pattern are not too large, and give balance to the large white coffers of the ceiling.  

Recently, in Berlin, i met an uber sweet escort who was a graduate student in mathematics. Extremely sexy to hear him talk about stochastic finance over a steak dinner. 

On the Twelfth day of Christmas my lover gave to me:
12  Rimmers rimming
11 Thumpers pumping 
10 Subs a serving
9   Girthy inches
8   Gods a flexing
7   Geeks a laying
6 Studs a sucking
5 Gold cock rings
4 Limb restraints
3 French kisses
2 Jingling balls
and His dick as hard as a tree
 
Any other thoughts?

As one who was introduced to gay porn in the late 70’s, I have heard the gamut. 
Sometimes the actual noises of sex do seem alike -slapping, slurping, moaning, dirty (limited) vocabulary, but when the guys are clicking in personality, especially when laughter is included, it heightens it all for sure. 

He describes himself as having a "fat ass."
Ha! If he saw mine, he wouldn't make that mistake again.

Kindness

I save plastic grocery bags to pick up my dog's poop.  My own form of recycling.

And that "very easy lawsuit" would entail further publicity of the activity you didn't wanr exposed....so...